tie bar girls have a scoring system on you did you know that hi everyone I'm
Simon thanks for coming along and having a chat so today it's 16th of March
choose this is Wednesday Wednesday I'm halfway through my Gold Cup week and
today a one of the Tigers one of the bigger bloggers put a video up where he
suffered some pain from having a some dealings with the tiger who I think
works in above and it sparks off some thoughts in my head so I've decided to
do three blogs and hopefully this will explain maybe my understanding of the
Tigers and the bar scene maybe it will give you some insight over the three
vlogs and maybe I'll help that person given it's a touch of understanding from
my experience so today's vlog is going to be tie bar girls have a scoring
system on you the second vlog will be when does a Thai
girl become a real Barger and the third vlog will be tight bar girls hidden
secrets I want to be controversial can be hard to make that one positive but I
do these three vlogs together and I'll upload all three together so you don't
get teased so for you my subscribers they already know my history for anyone
coming knew I was a bar manager in Pattaya Thailand for two years I managed
two bars in Main Street areas and quite a lot of
girls work in there so in that time as a bar manager I never touched any of the
girls or worked in my buzz I never bought them presents never bought them
food I gave them birthday cards and that was it
the mamasan who was like a supervisor any bar that has girls Mama's at - Ann
is their manager she interviews the girls she employs the girls she decides
who works when when she said jump they jump as a bar manager you're nothing to
do with the girls but the girls they may be they assumed I owned the bars some of
them did some Aladdin I was just a bar manager they become they became my
friends in the bars you can lose girls every
month I'll move around they get bored and you get new girls but some stuck
with me for quite a long time in those two years and because they opened up to
me and told me some of their family tips and secrets and some of their life and
might I started getting better because they were teaching me I started
understanding the bar scene more and more they I started learning rapidly
learning that there was lots of games going on under the hidden and what I
couldn't work out was when customers come into the bar and it's probably all
the bars one girl used to sort of get the choice of the guys now that every
month bars usually give some money salary to the girls maybe free
accommodation every month you pay the salaries to the girls now it could be a
bit of couple of thousand but for working in the bar and then all the bar
fines that they get from customers but take them out of the bar a
percentage goes to the girl and every time they get a lady drink they get say
20 bar fries lady drink and that when it was payday the girls all used to come we
used to watch them they always did be there at all together comparing their
salaries and the girl that used to get the most bar finds the most lady drinks
the most money seemed to become like the top dog in the bar and she then
commanded that all the girls when a foreigner Frank came into the bar she
would get first choice if she wanted because she was the queen of the bar so
I that twigged after a while okay that's how that works
so I started speaking the one girl every month was top in my bar after speaking
to her for quite a few months and then some of the other girls that were there
abouts I started learning that the Thai girls in the bars had a scoring system
they had a wish list for their customers and it amazed me and it emily's logical
it's quite a supposed common sense but how does it work what number e you in
that list in the girls in the bars so right at the bottom of the list the
person they see as not worth their time or they're not going to make money from
is the guy that walks into the bar and speaks Thai why so in their
understanding of how they explained it to me if a guy comes in as a foreigner
and speaks Thai the girl automatically knows that he has been in Thailand for a
while or he's living in Thailand or he's got a Thai girlfriend
the fact he speaks Thai he's been around the block and he knows the score he
knows what's what so they automatically assume maybe that he's going to be a
cheap charlie he's not going to be the dream catch
because he's clued up East streetwise so in fact you you were walking down the
street and regularly walking down the same street those girls will remember
you and they will know right we know who that is not good bottom of the list bang
you're down there then what did the pills look for I was asking what are you
looking for what's the number one top of the pile that you as a tight bar girl a
dreaming of looking for and nearly all the girls wanted to get out of the bar
they wanted a partner they wanted someone to take care of them they wanted
someone with a bit of money that was going to maybe take them out of the
country to another country raise their status level up give them a new living
look after their family and be nice to them take care of them treat them
properly they are looking for that but how do they spot that perfect partner
now one of my customers very tall guy had money American work for Big Sugar
Company came into my bar and the girls within seconds but all over him like a
rash and if I every bar walking down the road the girls work on him and when I
talk to the girls about this they explain why if you walk down the street
get into a bar and you don't think any tie whatsoever
maybe you speak one word so decap maybe you can say it properly
you can't speak Thai the girls immediately click click click this guy
could be here first time in Thailand this guy doesn't know any time then your
appearance if you've got a tailored shirt at a shirt with the collar that
you haven't bought in Thailand and they can tell if that shirt you're wearing is
made in Thailand if you've had a tailored in Thailand you've already been
there two or three days so you drop down to one and a half number two maybe but
if you're wearing a shirt short-sleeved but smart shirt and shorts that are not
necessarily tailored but maybe at 30 $40 shirts shorts you know 30 paying 20 per
but quite smart shorts the girls will see the shirt they're going to see the
shorts or if you've got long trousers on they're going to see that and it's smart
they'll then look at your shoes now if you've got flip-flops on you're going
down the list if you've got socks and sandals on we've all seen the guys the
smart shorts smart share socks and sandals you're going up the list then
the colour of your skin if you're showing that you've caught the Sun for a
week you know you're going Brown again you've been in Thailand a week they know
bang you're not worried you know you know you're not pale I mean like my wife
if you're half-caste or or dog skin they'd be like not sure how long you've
been here if you're red you burnt only been here a
couple of days the skin colour you're just going to drop down slightly maybe
to one and a half number two until they can assess out and you come in the bar
Bend smart shirt shorts sandals soft shoes and my shoes and you don't speak
Thai bang it's a lottery win it's the jackpot they
look this person has never been to Thailand they've looked no idea what's
going on the girl in the violets the number-one girl is immediately going to
be on the back to you straight on you you're a number one potentially the life
changing guy and I saw this with this gentleman that came to my bar and he
would have been the perfect catch now if you're that mount or you're not that man
but you want to try this experiment you put a nice shirt shorten everything you
go down and don't speak Thai in the bar you see what happens you see if I'm
right and you will get a different reaction from your clothes and not
speaking Thai in the bar totally different reaction and I couldn't
believe this from the girls I started to understand right that's what they're
looking for they're scoring people by just the clothes they look and you're
going down a SOI saying potato you're 200 meter soy with 50 bars all the girls
are clocking you coming down and then looking at all the different guys you're
living there you're an expat you see this you sit at the bar and watch you
can see which guys are coming down which in you never been to Thailand and you
just stand out a mile and the girls are looking for number ones little deviation
sometimes I noticed the girls in the bar would go a young boy would come down 18
to 24 maybe a backpacker maybe not but no shirt six-pack good-looking guy and
the girls will interest will perk up and my one girl in my bother could grab one
young guy want and I said to a couple days after why she's a woman she does
like sex this young guy great body slim chance he's got money maybe not but
she was going to have some fun and that day maybe things were quiet
bang grab the young guy for fun so there's a little bit of a twist on there
so it is true there is this scoring system the girls are looking for
somebody to take them away from the bar see now the other thing bar girls tend
to be between 20 and 30 years old in their eyes when you get to 30 you're
pretty much on the shelf and passed it unless you're stunning so you start
noticing the older girls 30 29 30 up a bit or step back in the bar and there'd
be more like service girls now they don't get bar find as much but they can
still make a living on just lady drinks every drink they're getting 20 bucks 20
bucks salary for every ladies drink and you
can either you know 5 drinks a day every day the money it adds up to a few
thousand bar and it also makes the bar look like there's more people in there
so but those girls do come to the back of the bar more often but you did find
some some guys prefer an older girl one tip I'll give you that as a bar manager
I hate it now if you go into a bar and you don't want the key by a lady drinks
8500 buy a time and you're getting hassled the way around it but as a bar
mangy you hate it you buy one drink for the young ladies and then you get fifty
bar or a hundred bar you slip it under the table and put it in the girl's hand
and just nod no more bar drinks and lady drinks she'll understand she'll stay
with you because you've just given her enough money for her food for the day
maybe the rent of her room and she spend chat with you said one little tip hated
it as a biological app because you're not selling the drinks back to the
scoring system it does happen these girls in the bars
our business you could even say it's quite negative like like a business
machine the real strong bar girls that have been in the scene a long time do
become or money is pretty much the first thing they're looking for in their job
now when I do the third vlog you'll understand if it'll make itself clear
about the the money situation in bar girls and things but there we go so you
are a number somewhere between 1 and 10th when you go into every bar which
one of you have I guess put the comments below
am i right or is it just me misunderstanding everyone I don't know I
don't think that but it is you know I was a number 9
definitely definitely number 9 anyway leave that one there clogzilla 3
coming up thanks for watching and please subscribe share I'd be great if you
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