See?
It looks so good!
Yeah.
I mean, even though I was kind of just not evenly cutting
the top, when you kind of-- - No, it looks good.
--gel it up and stuff, it looks--
you know, you can't really notice it.
I think it's always important to look good.
I want my wife to see a cool, confident, sexy Chris.
[laughs] I think attraction is definitely key to a marriage.
And although things are going great, we're not in love yet.
I can see it turning into love.
I think the more we can be open with each other,
that attraction can grow even stronger.
And then, you know, I feel like that love
can grow and get deeper.
You know, I definitely always like to make
sure I look good for you.
I, like, want to make sure that, like, I'm improving myself
and when my hair gets long and stuff.
And I know that--
What's up?
--you know-- you know I have some body issue,
like, insecurity stuff.
Like, not quite where I want to be, but I'm working on it.
I mean, who is, really?
So I get it.
I feel the same way.
Like, I'm not really where I want to be.
But I always want to look good for you,
and I feel like we are doing that
together-- like eating a little healthier,
working out a little more.
But I think you look great, so-- - Thank you.
- --please, I understand-- - No, I know.
--you want to look good for me.
But I want you to do things for you,
because I am very attracted to you as is.
So please don't feel like, you know,
you have to do something because you
want me to feel a certain way.
Yeah.
No, I mean-- no, for sure.
And that's the-- that's the way, you know,
I want you to feel the same.
You know, and honestly, I just wanted
to let you know, like, I was asked the question, like,
of appearance and things like that.
You know, one of the things I did
say that I wanted to make sure, like, I told you,
because I don't want you to, like, see anything
later and get upset about it.
But, you know, they asked, appearance-wise?
I said, beautiful smile, beautiful face, beautiful eyes.
But I did say, like, little-- little thicker
than I normally go for, but not in a bad way.
I mean, on the wedding day, I--
I definitely-- you know, I was very attracted to her.
I thought she was very beautiful.
But typically, you know, she's-- she's a little
thicker than I normally go for, but not in a bad way.
And for me, like, thick is like athletic.
You know, it's-- it's not a bad thing.
It's sexy, you know?
And it's like, I was in no way trying to--
upset or anything.
Right.
I was just being honest in the moment.
And I know, like, later on, even,
like, you referred to yourself as a little bit thicker.
But-- but it's-- - It's very different.
Yeah. No, I know.
So and it is a little jarring to hear, you know,
your husband say something that could be perceived
as somewhat insulting.
I do call myself a thicker girl.
But it's different, I know.
It's very-- girls can say whatever they want.
It's very different to hear someone else say it.
I'm definitely taken aback a little bit.
It's not something I expected to hear my husband
say that he has said about me.
I have full-blown body dysmorphia.
It's something I've been dealing with for years.
I'm from New York, a large city surrounded
by fitness influencers.
So naturally I started to compare
myself against all of them.
And that's something that I have been working on.
So I'm a little shocked.
I'm gonna have to hide my rolls as we have this conversation.
I mean, I'm not where I want to be in life.
But I'll always be a little thicker.
That's just-- - Right.
--born and bred this way.
I can't change that.
And honestly, like, if we go down
the road of children in the future, I'll be real thick.
Like, your body type is your body type.
This is a very uncomfortable conversation.
Telling your wife, hey, I made a comment
about your weight or body type.
So I think he's got a lot of balls right now.
It's OK for me to call myself thick.
And I know--
Yeah, understandable.
--thick is not a bad thing.
But if someone's like, describe your wife,
you can say she's strong. She's sexy.
She's a bad ass. - No, I understand.
But please just avoid the "thick,"
because this is something that could
potentially be hurtful to me.
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