Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com. On today's video we are
talking about how to be charismatic and the habits of a highly
charismatic man. We're gonna go over those today but first, let's talk about
what it means to be charismatic. When a woman meets a man who embodies charisma,
she walks away actually saying those words. She will say to herself wow that
guy is charismatic. Wow that guy is smooth. You will leave an insane
impression on a woman when you can embody the charismatic qualities. One of
the definitions of charisma is inspiring devotion in others. You get them devoted
to you. They feel good around you. They like being in your presence. They feel
comfortable in your presence and this is done by a lot of leaders of various
countries. This is shown in many people who are in Hollywood, who are actors.
People who can really work a room, work a crowd and then people walk away
and say wow I like that guy. One of the reasons someone is very charismatic is
because they know how to be empathetic which is habit number one. So we're
talking about being empathetic. Understanding how someone is feeling.
Really understanding like really getting that grasp of how someone is feeling in
an interaction. Whether they feel good, whether they feel bad, whether they share
a story with you that makes them happy or maybe they share a sad story with you.
You listening to them and understanding very well how they're feeling and then
communicating to them that you know how they feel and that you understand how
they feel. It's not just about being empathetic on its own but that
communication part is very key. Letting them understand that you understand.
How does this transform into a habit? Hopefully on a daily basis you are
interacting with people; whether it's your friends, your family, work you're
going out and meeting girls like you should be. So how do you practice this
empathy? Well whenever someone says something to you, I want you to say back, depending
on what they say, wow you know that's really interesting or wow that must have
been tough or man that sounds awesome. Really letting them know that you
understand how they're feeling so whenever you're with someone and they
exclaim some sort of emotion or feeling, communicate back to them what
they're saying and phrase it in a way that you understand. On a previous video
here on the channel, I'll put it in the link below, I talk about the magic
question that you can ask a girl when you're with her and that magic question
is wow what's that like. So if she says something about her job or something
that she did recently or whatever is going on in her life, say wow what was
that like or how was that. That question alone shows a lot of empathy and then
when they answer that question, however they answer it, you retort back and let
them know that you understand. Say wow that must have been, that must have been
crazy, it must have been hard, that must have been difficult, that must have been
amazing. Whatever it is, let them know that empathy alone right there makes you
more likable, makes you more charismatic. Let's go to habit number two. This is one
that if you've been watching the recent videos on the channel, I've been talking
about it quite a bit. We're talking about letting go of the outcome. This is huge
when it comes to being charismatic. The most charismatic people don't care what
people think about them and the way that they show that is they say what they
want, they do what they want and they do it without caring what people are
thinking. The bottom line here is they're expressing themselves freely without any
care. Here's the deal, because you can go overboard with this and just
be so free that you're not really in tune socially with the people that
you're with and say things that are directly mean to people.
There is a spectrum here. If you're all the way on one end and you're like
oh wow it looks like you gained a lot of weight.
That's expressing yourself freely and not holding back and not having a
filter, but you've got to have some social intuition here. Really
understand that you don't want to be putting people down. However in terms of
expressing yourself freely, we're talking about being able to say your opinions,
believe in the things that you're saying and not have a filter on the things that
you believe. Whatever it is in your life that you believe or you
think life should be for yourself or for other people say that and that's okay.
That is a very common characteristic of a charismatic person.
I always say that one of the things that turns off women is just agreeing with
everything they say. Don't do that. You think maybe that is gonna get
them to like you because you're agreeing with them so much but no that doesn't
work. In fact express how you actually feel
about the things that you feel about. Whatever that is I want you to be
able to say that stuff. How do you make this into a habit? Again we're
going back to these interactions. Anytime you're speaking with your mom your dad
your brother, your friends, your co-workers depending because I know
there's a lot of office politics that goes on but even more
importantly with women and in social situations, I want you to take off that
filter. Don't hold back and see what happens. Charismatic people are more
themselves than anyone else because they're not trying to put on some mask
or trying to fake being some other person so they get people to like
them. People catch on to that. You need to be as genuinely you as possible and
to do that, we take away the filter. Habit number three. This is also a big
one. This is a little bit more of a practical tip I can give you. It is
speaking in the affirmative. Speaking in the affirmative. This is another
habit of a highly charismatic man and that is being able to speak exactly like
I'm speaking to you right now. I'm directing you, I'm teaching you, I'm
telling you how to do something with this tone of voice.
Meaning the downward inflection of my voice that happens at the end of what
I'm saying. There's a downward inflection. I'm not going hey maybe you
should be charismatic. Well you should try habit number three? No, I'm saying
try habit number three, habit number two, habit number one. This is how I want you
to speak to people. Speak in the affirmative because you sound more
confident in the things that you are saying. For example, let's say your
with a girl and you want to know where she's from.
There's two ways to say it and I know it's such a small little difference but
it actually makes a big difference. Here's the difference.
It's me saying oh are you from Chicago? That's upward inflection versus are you
from Chicago? Do you see the difference there? One is oh are you from
Chicago. I'm kind of nervous and shy and and I hope you answer my question. Or I'm
saying are you from Chicago? That is a very masculine confident way to be
expressing yourself. Imagine in the conversations that you're having on a
daily basis, again this is part of the habit, is that you're gonna be speaking
in that downward inflection. Speaking in the affirmative is gonna make you sound more
confident and more charismatic. Combine that habit with the other two habits that we
just talked about when you're interacting with people. For example
in this habit number three, combining with habit number one empathy.
Someone says something and it sounds like they had a bad day and you say oh that
must be really hard. No that's not how you want to say it. You want to say that
must be really hard. You see the difference there? Much more attractive
when you're speaking in the affirmative. This is the tip of the iceberg. I'm just
giving you a few habits which are very powerful but there's much more in order
to interact with women, break off that approach anxiety, get them attracted to
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