Greetings guys, gals, and non-binary pals and welcome back to another video. Today I thought
it would be good fun to go through a subreddit called r/inceltears because- because [laughs] it's fun
to see incels cry, you know, it's a good pastime. Watching incels cry? It's great.
So that's what we're gonna do today, we're gonna look at some incel tears.
Now if you know anything about this subreddit, you'll know that it's quite intense
and that there's a lot of like... stuff in there uh so this is just a note here that I have not put
in any of the triggering awful horrific stuff that they say because I didn't feel like reading that,
I didn't really feel like having a PTSD episode today. So don't worry too much about that, I'm not
gonna be talking about anything super triggering, this is just a- more of a light-hearted video. As
light-hearted as a video about incels can be. Uh you know, it's looking at them as though
they're not real because aknowledging that they're real is terrifying. You know, that kind of vibe.
The first post we have is an incel Twitter account tweeting: "Remember, the internet
is forever:" with a screenshot of a tweet that reads "Me, thinking too deeply about the term
incel. 'Involuntary isn't accurate because being an unf***able creep is absolutely a choice.'"
Which yeah! Very valid tweet. Yeah absolutely. In- it's- it is a choice that they
are making to just be the absolute worst and to hate women and to de-humanize women and to
just be creepy and gross and mysogynistic and awful, that's a choice that they make. And I
just really wanna know why the incel tweeted it with "Remember, the internet is forever:" like,
do you think she's gonna regret it? Like why did you tweet this, I'm very confused by why
this was tweeted by them. There's a- this does not work out in their favor, because
she is correct. Admitting to be an incel is not something to be proud of, you know, good for you.
Here's actually a good example of uh how being an incel is even more of a choice.
So incels like to say sex with a woman is a biological necessity. So this- this cartoon
is like a series of like progression uh with on one side it is a girls showing an incel a
woman and saying something about her and then on the other side is his reaction to
said woman. So I'll go throught it, just knowing that that's what it is.
Sex with a woman is a biological necessity. "Hey incel! Look at this woman." "She's a
sex worker! It doesn't count! That would be invalid sex!"
So the statement changes: Non-paid sex with a woman is a biological necessity.
"What about this one?" "She's overweight! A landwhale! That would be invalid sex!"
Okay, so the statement changes to: Non-paid sex with a skinny woman is a biological necessity.
"The next one is beautiful!" "She's 32! A post-wall old hag! That would be invalid sex!"
So then the statement changes yet again to: Non-paid sex with a skinny young woman
is a biological necessity. "This one is so cute!" "She
had a boyfriend before! She's a used fleshlight! That would be invalid sex!"
Non-paid sex with a skinny young virgin woman is a biological necessity.
"How can something so specific be a biological necessity!"
Literally. [laughs] Literally, just this. Everything about this, yeah. Bro,
I don't- [laughs] it's so funny because they love to claim that sex is a biological necessity for
men, like they need sex. However, they have such ridiculously unreal standards and then the worst
personalities to accompany it. So obviously it's never going to f***ing work out for you because
you want like the most specific woman and also you're an a**hole and you're going to abuse her,
so like it's not going to f***ing work for you, dude, it's not gonna work out.
Sex isn't a biological necessity, women don't owe you s***. Fix your personality.
[reads] Is my cousin trying to fuck me? They're always looking at me,
always talking to me, always asking me if I'm going to family events,
always gives me massages, always invites me out to the bar. I thought maybe she's
trying to set me up with one of her friends but now I'm not so sure.
And someone just replied with: she's treating you like a family member bro,
what the f***, stop spending so much time on here.
Yeah, dude, that's just how family members interact. Not every act of kindness has a romantic
or sexual intent and it's very very worrying that you think that just like kindness means
attraction and wanting sex because that just tells me that you are only ever kind if you want to get
sex from someone and that is not a good thing, maybe just be kind in general. Relationships
don't have to be romantic or sexual, especially with your cousin [sighs] She's just being nice.
[reads] What are you supposed to say instead of females? Birds? Chicks? H***?
How do you decrigbe people with vaginas of the feminine species in a way less derogatory than
female? Get over yourself. -Ever heard the word women?
[laughs] Yeah, bro just say women, if you're talking about women,
just say women. And then you always get the people being like [in a whiny tone] "but you're
not allowed to say women anymore" which is not even remotely true. This is something
that people have just decided to make up out of nowhere. I don't know what part of the whole
trans women are women thing has made you think that you're not allowed to say women anymore,
considering that's like a large part of the conversation we have in the first place,
um but you can- you can just say women. Not all women have vaginas, obviously, but like you are
specifically talking about women. You are not even talking about people with vaginas, you are talking
about women in general, so just use the word women. If you are a heterosexual man and you are
talking about the people that you are attracted to, say women, because that's what you mean.
Here is an imaginary text conversation between a normal guy and an incel. So
the conversation with the normal guy goes:
"Hi" - "Hiii"
"How was your day?" - "Went on a walk, the weather is beautiful."
"It's supposed to be really sunny tomorrow too.
Wanna go on a date?" - "Yes!"
That is a conversation with a normal guy which, yes correct. Conversation with an incel:
"Hello femoid. I'm glad you added
me. Personally I think I absolutely looksmog normal guy. I don't know why you like him,
maybe it's because he's splorgmaxxed and totally spleefmog me. You guys are totally
looksmatched in my opinion haha. You're lucky I find a 3/10 like you cute. Wanna see my dick?"
And then I'm imagining that's a dickpic that was sent. Which [laughs]
yeah- that's- yeah- that's- that's literally- yeah, that's pretty accurate. And then they
complain like "why don't women like me, why- why won't they ever reply to me, they always leave
me on read, they're always so rude to me, they don't wanna date me." Because you came in and
firstly you started the conversation with femoid and then you just like insult people, you just
start insulting them and then are like "why don't you like me?" Maybe, take a lesson from normal guy
and just be like "how was your day?" "Oh you went for a walk? Care- I'm- I like walking, care to join me?"
Like, it's not hard, you make it so much harder than it should be, women are people. The second
you start realizing that they are people, looking at us like we are people, then the sec- it gets
easier. It get's easier. Once you realize we're people, and you can just treat us like people,
it gets easier because you know, women like to be treated like people, so that's your advice.
"Feminism has gone to far, white men now live in a cage of oppression." With a little graphic
of a- a white boy in a- in a cage behind bars and then it pans out to: "Incel,
are you okay?" And it's just a child like holding the like door of a cage in front of his face.
This is an extremely accurate meme that I find absolutely hilarious because this is so
funny and so true, they really do love to make themself the victim for literally no reason,
I promise you, you are not the victim. You are making it up,
you make your own life difficult and then blame women, it's not our fault dude.
This is another little cartoony one. "Foids don't deserve rights! They're only good for
their vag plus womb." And then a bunch of girls saying "Dude, what the f***" and then it's him
crying "They hate me because I'm short and ugly! They hate me because I have nerdy hobbies! They
hate me because I'm kind and chivalrous! They hate me because they're too soy! Because, because..."
Again, just another extremely accurate meme that I find so funny. They never self-reflect,
they never listen to themselves talk, they never look at their actions, they just blame women for
everything without ever considering themselves as like a problem? I don't understand how you can
live like that, I don't understand how you can just blame the world for all of your problems,
blame women for all of your problems. Like surely you've realized that the common denominator
between you and every interaction you've ever had with a woman is you. Cause all the women
are different! I know you like to think we're all the same, but every single women is different and
if the interaction has ended the same way every time the only common denominator is
you. I don't know how you think hating women is gonna get women to like you, it's not gonna work,
I promise they don't hate you because you're short and ugly and you have nerdy hobbies,
they hate because you're a mysogynist and they don't want anything to do with you,
so sort your personality out first, and then- then maybe it will work out better for you.
Along those exact same lines there is an incel thinking "Everyone hates me because I'm
ugly" and then a woman coming up to him and saying "Hey" in like a flirty way and so he yells at her
"Shut the f*** up femoid w****, f*** you s***!"
[laughs] Like this is what I mean, because this does f***ing happen. They do the whole thing of
"I'm just rejecting them before they can reject me because I know they're gonna reject me in the
end" but it's like, no you're just looking for more reasons to hate women so you can go on in
your life being miserable and upset and having someone else to blame because you refuse to take
responsibility for your own s***. You are doing this to yourself, my guy. Just approach women
like they're people, treat us like people, and I'm sure it will go way better for you.
[reads] It's stupid when girls say they can't find a guy, yet they ignore me.
It's like saying you're hungry when there's a hot dog on the ground outside [laughs]
I really like this comparison, this is hilarious, I love it. 10/10, yeah, exactly.
Uh I have standards right, I'm not gonna eat a hot dog off the ground, so I'm not gonna go out
with some gross mysogynistic guy, it's very simple maths. And also, hunger and the desire to have a
partner are not even remotely comparable, like I kinda need to eat to live, kinda need food.
I don't really need- I don't need a partner. Especially don't need a boyfriend because I
am queer and I will also have a girlfriend or just a partner, doesn't need to be a man, so
I'm never gonna say I need a man, it's not something I ever need,
not something anyone ever needs. Food however, yeah. But like I can be extra picky about which
men I spent time with and it's not you if you're gonna be a mysogynistic asshole and an incel.
This is a venn-diagram about gender benefits of being in a relationship.
Men have just questionmarks; both have sex, emotional support, and status;
and women has free dinners, his money, doors held for you, male servants, attention on you,
you're never wrong, treated like a princess, protection, free gifts. And at the bottom it
says "has you can see, there is nothing in a relationship that exclusively benefits men."
This is the most insanely bulls*** venn-diagram I have seen in my entire life, oh my god [laughs]
Firstly, you should not be looking at a relationship like this, this is not the
way to view a relationship, a relationship should be equal between both people. You should be buying
each other gifts, getting each other gifts, taking each other out for dinner, or whatever arrangement
you have. Maybe one person earns all the money and then obviously it's gonna be different,
it kinda depends on the vibe and your discussion on what you end up at, uh but like, you should be
doing things for each other, you should be loving each other, this should be a team thing, there
should be compromise, there should be love and wish to care for one another? You are both gaining
equal amount of things out of this relationship or at least you should be. If you are giving your all
to someone and they're not giving anything back, that relationship isn't for you. Like if this
is a venn-diagram out of a relationship that you have had in the past, that is because the person
you were with, the woman you were with, was not a very good partner, and I'm sorry that you gave her
everything and she gave you very little, but that is not the standard for a relationship, that's not
how it usually goes, that's not how it has to be. I also doubt that you are basing this off a real
life interaction and you just want a reason to hate women um, but I promise you this- this is not
a healthy relationship, this is not the standard for a relationship. And also, if you wanna sit
here and say there's nothing that exclusively benefits men and women always get everything, have
you seen how many men - yourself included, because this is like an incel mentality - just sit there
and expect their partners to look after them, cook for them, clean for them, have children,
look after the children, have dinner ready for when he gets home from work blah blah. You get all of that,
you get the servant, she doesn't get a man servant, you get the servant. Like that's what you're asking
for, that's like a large amount of incel culture, just wanting a woman to just like
be their mother effectively. So like, don't sit here and bulls*** me, don't sit here and bulls***
me. You can buy her dinner sure, but she's gonna cook every single meal or you're gonna
yell at her because you're a bad person. It- it should be equal, for everyone involved, alright?
I'm gonna end on this one last one, it's another fun meme, because I just really like it.
[reads] Sure buddy, femininism is the reason you can't get laid.
I just love the design of this meme, I love- I love everything about it,
I love word art memes with just random images, it's brilliant, I love it, 10/10.
And it's just true. Just blaming feminism on not being able to get laid or have a girlfriend? I
promise you, feminism isn't the problem, I promise that you have never been liked and you wouldn't
have been liked 50 years ago either, 100 years ago et cetera. You wouldn't have been liked then
either. You- I promise you. The problem is you and your personality, not modern day feminism. Treat
women like people, it's not a difficult concept. Feminism isn't the problem, you are [laughs]
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