In today's fast-paced dating world, relationships fall apart and people move on all the time.
It's not rare to see partners blaming one another for failing relationships.
But is your fear of love, keeping you from making it work each time?
To your surprise, it might not be your fault at all…
It might be your zodiac sign.
To know more about your Zodiac’s fault in making you fear love, stick around and watch
the video until the end.
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Aries
People with the Aries sign are trailblazers.
A fast-paced life is your thing and you are constantly stuck with the fear of losing your
freedom.
You love walking alone.
Yes, even on those deserted streets.
But somewhere deep down, you crave that one-on-one love.
Consumed in your own needs, you don’t have sufficient time and energy for anybody else's.
Nah, we aren’t calling you self-obsessed.
There’s a difference.
There's a fire in you.
But what scares you the most is being with someone who doesn’t have an equally strong
fire.
You want someone to set you free, don’t you?
There's a strong sense of self you nurture, but you are impulsive as well.
In the past, you have let someone in too fast and that did not go well.
It might have even given you some commitment issues.
Whatever the past gave you, we want you to loosen the tight grip you are having on that
baggage.
Letting it go will only help you in letting someone else in.
Taurus
Being a Taurus is tricky when it comes to a love life.
Let's be real.
You are stubborn and resistant to change.
Don’t shy away from accepting it.
There's a comfort zone you just don't wanna step out of and that's the biggest enemy to
your dating life.
Yes, we know it and we didn’t read your personal diary.
The fortress your potential partners see around you is due to your closed nature.
The nature of not letting them in.
You have been independent and you want to keep it that way.
You know the kind of true romantic you are.
The one who's looking for stability.
Cheap thrills aren't necessarily your thing.
We know how big a flirt you are.
You wanna taste consistency and stability only if it is going to last.
Which is, to be frank, fair enough.
Being that way is not a bad habit because it’s in your core.
But, do you know that your zodiac sign might actually be responsible for some of your bad
habits too?
To know more, watch our video on “Bad Habits of the Zodiac Signs” linked down below.
(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oOaGPMmipq4)
So, to sum it up for a Taurus, we can say that some of your boundaries were not respected
in the past.
Things were weak back then.
Therefore, you now want your love to be strong like a wall you can fall back on.
It can’t be like glass that shatters with a mere touch.
Gemini
Coming from a Gemini, you can be assured that every fact is checked personally in the next
one.
Geminis are unpredictable.
You love keeping everything a secret and let the world wonder.
People love that kind of thrill.
Changing our minds in the nick of time is our mantra.
We don’t apply this mantra only to our food orders but also to our lives.
It's the curiosity-lead mind we have which is equally scared of being confined.
With our opinions out in the open, we’re kind of scared of not finding a perfect fitting
partner.
It’s not the commitment phobia, but the need to find someone versatile.
Someone who's able to keep up with all our personalities.
Yes, the ever-changing ones!
But we trust too much at times.
Yes, we too go down that lane, only to explore all the red flags we’ve been ignoring.
Ahh!
The stubbornness.
. We do invest ourselves in love, but when we
do, we see no limits and end up getting hurt.
It is a constant cycle we keep trying to get out of.
Cancer
Cancer, your affection is your biggest trait.
You love hard.
By that, we mean, really hard!
To add on, you are not afraid to show it.
It is the rare unapologetic love you offer.
Loyalty is a gift you offer to even the most toxic partners and yes, you don’t stop there.
These traits you have are your strengths as well as weaknesses.
Love is a priority and it is not last in your list.
You want security but not like the false one you have experienced in the past.
You prefer caring for others rather than receiving it yourself.
But, the strong emotional connection you end up developing scars you to the core.
That's exactly what you need to overcome without losing your ability to love.
Leo
Next comes the ruler of the fifth house.
Leos loves the idea of falling in love and everything related to it.
Don’t we all?
At least the idea?
Okay, fine, you might not.
Being picky is okay, but Leos do it at an unhealthy level.
Let that poor date you just started talking to breathe for a second.
It ends up being a defense mechanism.
You even use it as an excuse to get out of relationships.
No, we aren’t asking for any justifications.
It’s alright.
We know that you are a big-time giver who feels like he doesn't need anything in return.
We know about your softer side too.
But in reality, you need the same affection you bestow on people and it’s high time
you accept it.
No matter how much you deny, you need that admiration and devotion from your partner's
end.
Take a deep breath, trust your instincts and say yes for that date you have been delaying
for no reason.
Virgo
A Virgo's life is like a well-controlled stage show.
Only your “rehearsed self” is put on display.
Virgos are overly critical and analytical.
Hey you!
How much more will you analyse?
You are aware of your flaws but you struggle to embrace them.
Your obsession with perfectionism has made your standards too high for your own self
to reach.
And we know, an obsession of any kind is harmful.
Isn’t it?
It results in you coming across as emotionally unavailable.
You end up scaring even the ones who otherwise start blushing by the thought of you.
Being open and vulnerable is scary to everyone in the beginning.
But unlike others, it remains scary for you even after a long time.
It is like a dilemma between extreme paranoia and excessive trust.
Your inferiority complex is just making everything look impossible.
But remember, nothing is impossible if you put your heart into it.
Libra
Finding a partner is one of the main priorities for a Libra.
No, we aren’t calling you needy.
We just mean that it isn’t merely an add-on for you.
It IS a priority.
A deep and meaningful connection is what you chase.
This connection you want must have a total submission of body, mind and soul.
Sounds ideal, right?
Your charm is something nobody can unsee and your small talks can engage them for hours.
But hours of talking without revealing any feelings you have deep down there.
You have mastered this art.
It’s like only one person hiding in a game of hide and seek every time.
Does that sound fun?
No, right?
That’s because it isn’t.
But again, there is a softer side to you under your tough coat.
Like all of us, you play a character and you’re scared of breaking out of it.
What you need to understand is that pretentious characters might break at times.
But even when it happens, your true character will still keep shining bright.
Scorpio
Scorpio’s distrust is more natural than past-driven.
They wanna see a completely stripped-down version of everyone they come across.
But they want it without showing their own true self completely.
Is it fair?
You look like a friendly and open person but in reality, you have a reserved nature.
Your secretive nature comes across as being mysterious.
And, we know, not everyone is interested in unravelling mysteries.
You want your secrets to be passed down to only one person.
This person is extremely passionate and has the same ferocity as you have in your soul.
One word which describes you the best is, “intense”.
This intensity is not easy to handle and isn't everyone's cup of tea.
And, that is the real tea.
Take a sip and accept it.
Sagittarius
This next one is an adventure lover.
The thrill of love as experience is what a Sagittarius craves.
You neither want to be boring nor bored.
You want the excitement of it but not the commitment that follows.
Love and relationships are accompanied by a routine and, we gotta say, you hate this
predictability.
People see your insecurities as ego because you are too good at covering them that way.
You have a loving side, waiting to be discovered.
But, you will only let the right one discover it.
It’s like running away but don't wanna be left alone.
Do you get the dilemma?
It is a marathon you are running alone.
Take a moment and see where you are headed.
Capricorn
People with Capricorn as their Zodiac are a little different.
Instead of being afraid of monotony, they are scared of the unpredictability of being
with someone.
To add on, you hate failures a little too much and love is no exception.
You don't believe in seeing everything with rose-coloured glasses and with a party on.
Being chained to the rhythm and ignoring the reality isn't a part of you.
It is not an easy feat to woo you.
Yes, you have no clue how difficult it is.
Ask that classmate who’s been trying to do it since day 1.
But, the point is, once you are into it, limiting your unconditional love isn't easy either.
Once you see true efforts you know how you reciprocate very well.
But your fear of failure makes you try so hard to save relations that you end up being
emotionally dry.
As dry as this video will be without you watching it.
You care a lot about your public image and can't afford to let anyone make a fool out
of you.
This self-restriction is stopping you from being hopeful.
Shed some light on the ones who are worth it and we promise it will all fall into place.
Aquarius
An Aquarius is a free bird.
A bird that sees no limits.
Freedom and self-love are what they radiate in all directions.
So much so that they don't even understand the concept of possessiveness.
With your power to break away emotionally and distance yourself, you have been saving
yourself from long-lasting damage.
Be really thankful about it.
Trust me, many out there wish for that kind of ability.
But, here comes the spoiler.
In the process of guarding your independence, you might have slipped into a whirlwind of
causal relationships.
You trust everyone and end up giving away an image of being gullible.
But when it comes to emotions, you keep logic over and above it.
So, keep your sanity alive but remember to find beauty even in illogical things.
There's a bright day ahead, waiting for you to believe in its existence.
Pisces
The fear of being taken advantage of runs deep in a Pisces.
No, it didn’t come out of nowhere.
You might even have poor timing when it comes to the time you step into other people’s
lives.
A timing when their soul isn't in the best place.
We know how you curse yourself for always being the healer.
Many of us have been there and you aren’t alone.
But you need to understand that you have been a healer because of your inherent giving nature.
Your rescue missions often do fail to draw the line though.
This is your biggest weakness which ends up with you feeling sad.
The emptiness you have been left with over and over again has ended up scarring you deep
inside.
You feel if you go through it once more, it will be your last time.
There’s a fear of losing yourself and never finding it again.
But, we want you to move ahead with learning.
If you are lost, you will only find yourself back where you lost it.
That is, within yourself.
Nobody can take that ability away from you.
Rise up and be the sunshine you are.
Do you think it is always possible to work on our fears?
Or, at times it is just out of our hands?
Let us know in the comment section below.