[Music]
hello sector goers and welcome back to
another site to go video today we are
going to explore the mysteries of love
so let's start with our big question how
do you know when someone likes you it's
rarely about the things they say more
often than not it's about the things
they don't say words can be misleading
they may never admit their feelings out
loud but their actions may tell you a
different story
love communicates through subtle
subconscious behaviors your small
gestures stolen glances and moments of
silence it's a challenging language to
understand but if you pay close
attention you can unravel someone's true
feelings to help you decipher the
language of love here are 10 signs that
your crush likes you just as a
disclaimer just one of the signs may
mean nothing but the more of these signs
the more likely your crush really does
like you 1 they fixate on you the eyes
are often called the windows to the soul
but is that really true can you
understand your crushes feelings just by
watching their eyes in a 2014 study
Wilmont
and others found that your eyes give
away your honest intentions you
unconsciously fixate on people places
and objects that you want the most if
you're staring at food you're probably
hungry if you're staring at all photos
you might be homesick if your crush is
fixated on you they may be in love
- they lean toward you love changes the
orientation of your body around friends
you lean back you're calm and
comfortable around someone you like your
body Springs forward you lean towards
your crush to show them you care imagine
your crush is talking about a sport
you've never played it's not your
favorite subject to talk about but you
lean forward anyway why because their
opinions matter to you without realizing
it your body changes shape so does your
crushes body lean towards you a little
movement can go a long way 3 they're
vulnerable with you it's not easy to be
open with someone in your daily life you
raise giant walls to protect yourself
from getting hurt but when you're around
someone you trust those walls come
crumbling down according to a 1997 study
by Aaron and others vulnerability
nurtures both love and attraction it
builds trust by fostering deeper
feelings of closeness but vulnerability
isn't just about expressing yourself it
needs to be mutual if your crush always
wants to know more about you you too may
be more than just friends or they smile
at you different smiles mean different
things some are closed and mysterious
others are open and happy but how do
people smile when they're in love
a 2008 teen research summary by a
Montoya and others explains that a
genuine smile can demonstrate trust
attraction and vulnerability in other
words your crush may be constantly
smiling because they feel close to you
five they open their posture when you
interact with someone you like you
instinctively open your posture your
arms fall away from your chest your legs
uncross your back straightens each of
these nonverbal signals creates a
physical and emotional bond with someone
so if your crush likes you their posture
may open up the moment you enter the
room six they look into your eyes when
you spend time with your crush your
brain releases a love hormone called
oxytocin this hormone circulates through
your brain and makes you feel closer to
the people around you that closeness
changes your body language encouraging
things like eye contact
in other words looking into your crushes
eyes isn't just romantic it's a great
way to express your interest if they
return the favor the feelings may be
mutual 7 they make physical contact if
you like someone tiny things can be
electrifying a small touch on the arm
their legs rubbing gently against yours
contact is so powerful because touching
another person especially someone you
like triggers the same flood of
feel-good hormones remember this each
time your crush brushes your hand or
touches your back it's not always an
accident
your crush may be trying to show their
true feelings 8 they make time for you
does your crush make time for you by
opening up their schedule they're
tearing down an important barrier
something that would stop you two from
being together invisible forces like
time and distance are common roadblocks
for young couples each time your crush
makes time for you
they're leaping over one of these
hurdles according to a 2010 study from
Rhodes and others that means your
relationship may have more potential 9
they copy your behavior have you ever
noticed your crush copying you every
time you smile they smile every time you
take a drink they do to this
psychological phenomenon is called
mirroring when you like someone you
mimic their posture actions and facial
expressions so if talking to your crush
is like looking into a mirror there's a
good chance they have feelings for you
and ten they invest in you how's your
crush ever lent you a jacket or a pencil
on the surface these little favors don't
look like much but they're often a sign
of romantic interest when you lend
something to your crush you're making a
small investment that item no matter how
small binds the two of you together so
don't let your crushes investment go
unnoticed has your crush been sending
you hidden signals
have you noticed signs we didn't cover
in this video let us know in the
comments below share this video with
someone who might benefit from it and
don't forget to click the like button
and subscribe for more psychology
content as always thanks for watching