Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com.
I want to teach you today some mind games which you might have already experienced.
Or maybe not and you might experience.
But some things to look out for and why women are doing this.
Here's the number one reason why women are playing mind games.
The reason they do this is because they want to get you to chase them.
And listen, I don't blame them.
We should be doing things as guys to get them to chase you.
Now listen, I want to be very clear here.
I don't believe in playing games.
I don't believe in being manipulative in any way.
Still, you should be acting as a guy who is not needy, who is not desperate.
And while that might seem like game playing, it's just the type of personality I want you
to embody.
There might be some things you're going to be doing that are going to be non needy, non
desperate to get her to chase you.
She might be doing the same thing.
And in another ways she might be playing games with you that are not good.
But we'll decipher which ones are which as we go through.
Let's start with number one.
The first thing is, she takes a very long time to text you back.
Sometimes she's actually busy and she's actually doing something.
So you shouldn't really look into this at all.
Because all you should be carrying about is when you're texting a girl is she willing
to meet up with you?
Those are the only text messages you guys should be exchanging in the first 1 to 10
dates.
Just getting her to meet up with you, using texting as the vessel to meet up.
If it happens to be saying to you hours later her response, that's fine, whatever, don't
worry about it.
But if she's doing that in a way that's causing it troublesome for you guys to actually meet
up with each other, like she says to you two hours before that you guys are about to meet
up that she can't meet up.
You asked her to meet up at eight o'clock and then six o'clock, she's like "oh yeah,
I can't."
That's a little annoying.
So I wouldn't be playing into that.
But if she's responsive to you still on some level, that's fine.
Don't look too much into it.
Unless she's doing it in a way that seems disrespectful.
Now here's one and listen, I don't blame women for this.
They're not approaching you.
A lot of guys get really angry.
Like, why do we have to do all the work?
Why is it always up to us?
When really, you're just not understanding that you're qualifying her as much as she's
qualifying you.
However, in this day and age, women well, actually not just in this day and age.
For many, many centuries, women were not the ones who are doing the approaching.
You need to be the one to do the approach.
You just have to suck it up and just say ok, listen, this is going to happen.
This is how it goes.
But you got to understand, this is not so much a mind game as it is her trying to test
for your masculinity.
She wants to know that you are someone who is masculine and dominant.
And that's gonna be the person who's going to go up and do the approach and say hello
first.
This is more of a test than it is a game.
But I thought I'd throw this in here because I know a lot of guys think that this is this
is a mind game but I wanted to just make sure you understand what's really going on.
Let's go to the next one.
This is a bad one.
They try to get you to buy things for them.
If any girl that you're dating seems to be using you for your money.
And I don't mean that you're the one who's offering to pay and she says yes.
But she's kind of being sneaky with it and she's like, let's go to this nice restaurant,
oh let's go this nice restaurant or she's saying like, oh man, I'd really love it if
you buy me this or if I were to get this.
Oh man, I really want this.
Just always talking about material possessions, really trying to kind of persuade you to get
her things.
This is bad and she might be flirting with you or having sex with you to get these things.
This is such a rare occurrence.
But I know on some level, it does happen, especially if you're living in some sort of
superficial city, ie New York, Miami, LA.
Those are common places for it to happen.
Be very careful that you don't fall into this trap.
This is bad.
She doesn't like you.
She likes you for your money.
Be careful with that.
Here's another one.
She cancels the date but doesn't pick another time.
Some women do this as a way to play games with you.
I'm not saying that she's doing that for sure to play a game with you.
It's kind of up in the air.
But sometimes that's what happens.
She'll cancel the date and then she won't pick another time because she's getting you
to chase her.
Here's the thing, if a girl cancels the date on you and she doesn't pick another time or
she goes hey sorry, I can't make this Friday and she doesn't say after that, you know,
I'm around next week or maybe we should do it another time, or anything that gets you
to tell you that she's available.
Don't text her back.
Drop her completely, very disrespectful and very...
I mean that's pretty much it.
It's disrespectful, it's her canceling on you, which is fine.
People are allowed to cancel, they don't have to go on the date with you, things come up.
But it's rude for her not to throw out another date and for her to expect you to do the chasing.
Make sure that you just don't text her back.
You drop her unless she says to you in that text or another text like can you do another
time?
You will not be chasing her if she's not going to give you that respect back.
Here's another one.
This happens more so in relationships than anything else.
If she's overtly, and I mean overtly, I'd be very careful her.
You might be interpreting it as not overtly.
But if she is overtly flirting with other guys, that's not good.
She's doing that to make you jealous.
When you guys are first dating, whatever, not a big deal.
When you get into a relationship and she's obviously flirting with other guys.
What does that look like overt flirting?
A lot of it is going to be touching.
Or maybe if you hear her complimenting another guy in a way that's complimenting him in a
way that's saying like, oh she could be attracted to him.
And again, it's okay if she says to one of her guy friends that he looks cute.
Don't think that that is flirting.
But I mean, we're combining like her getting really close to a guy, maybe touching him,
throwing in a compliment, like very obvious multiple signs of her flirting.
That's somewhat disrespectful.
And she might be doing this to make you jealous and you shouldn't stand for that.
And here is the kicker.
Don't show your jealousy.
Because when you show your jealousy, she wins.
Instead, I would completely drop it.
I would not say a word, because that's going to teach her hey, that is not something you're
going to react to.
And if she continues to do this, then you should end it with her.
That's right, you should break up with her.
If she's flirting with other guys a lot overtly, overtly and doing it all the time.
This is disrespectful, because that is not the way to get the attention of a man, that
is a insecure way to do it, which is a red flag.
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I'll see you in the next video.