2020 was a year where it was difficult to achieve success.
It felt like our life had to be put on hold for uncertain amount of time.
And you know what, who knows?
2021 might also bring in these bad news.
However, ladies, we do not put our life on hold anymore.
This got to stop now.
And in today's video,
I'm going to give you the exact tools you need to be able to make a comeback
in 2021, regardless of how the year will unfold.
My dear elegant ladies, welcome back to another video.
And I really want to give you some pep talk for 2021 to come because
I am tired of things and plans, and dreams being put on hold,
just because we are in a pandemic.
We can still create change in our life even though we have this blockage of
the pandemic on our hands that we unfortunately have to deal with.
But ladies, this doesn't mean that it's game over.
And this doesn't mean that we should now wait until the pandemic is over
in order to create change. There's so much we can do already.
And that's what I want this video to give you the tools of how you can still
keep on moving forward on your journey,
regardless of the situation in this world.
So let me start with point number one.
And whenever you want to achieve success in life or upgrade on some level,
you are going to have to face this big blockage in your life.
That's usually part of your past,
and I'm talking about letting go of things that are no longer serving you.
And ladies, these blockages can be actually categorized in two ways.
We have negative baggage and we also have negative circumstances
and both of them are actually holding you back.
So when it comes to negative baggage,
I'm talking about everything that has been happened in the past.
We talk about maybe some feelings of anger, resentment,
disappointments that you still holding on to,
or maybe you have some limiting beliefs or you have some fears.
You have jealousy.
You have any form of negativity that is concerning your emotion or
your memories or anything that is stuck in your emotional self,
but also in your mental self. And that's baggage,
holding your emotional self back.
Then we have the negative circumstances
and that's more related to people or situations.
So let's say, you have a job that's holding you back,
or you have a bad relationship that you know, you need to get out of.
One thing is for sure, ladies,
it might be your past that's holding you back or it might be your present.
Regardless, both have to be dealt with before you can even embark on the
journey of progressing forward because it slows down your upgrade.
How are you going to move forward if you have things that are holding you back
and just pulling you backwards, whenever you try to take a step forward?
That's why we need to eliminate whatever it is.
And that's what you have to actually ask yourself.
What is it in my life that is holding me back? Is it something from my past?
Or is it something from my present or it could also be both?
Many times we have many things that are holding us back and sometimes we just
have to understand what is the most biggest crucial ones.
And especially that is connected to the steps that I need to take forward
on this journey in order to achieve what I want to achieve.
But how do we let these negative blockages go? And of course,
there isn't a straightforward answer to that because it all depends on what
blockage we're talking about. Now, there are many different methods.
I personally think that it all starts with awareness.
And I've been speaking so much about this because when we become aware
of something, we actually end up starting to release it already slowly and slowly,
slowly just by being aware of it.
And the more we are aware of our blockages,
the more we start releasing them. But of course, it takes time.
Then there's a lot of spiritual ways of how you can let go.
And it has to do with acceptance or forgiveness or giving yourself love
as an example. I think generally speaking,
when you just try and stay more objective of whatever blockage it is,
and also to try and understand the situation.
This isn't particularly related to,
if you have things that are holding you back from the past.
It might be some disappointment,
some anger or anything that has given you some limiting beliefs that are
just blocking you from stepping forward.
You can also work with affirmations.
And I know a lot of people think that affirmation is a waste of time.
But I don't think so myself because what happens is when we say affirmations,
we actually start rewiring our subconscious.
And this has an incredible power,
which is actually a shame that affirmation has such a bad reputation because
they work a lot on your subconscious,
without you even being aware what's changing. But the thing is,
something is changing.
You just need to be patient and keep on being consistent
with those affirmations.
Now, lastly, ladies, as a little tip,
I do recommend reading books of the author, Byron Katie.
She has this really great way of looking at things,
especially emotional baggage and things that are holding us back from our past.
She gives tools on how you can better understand and let go of
that emotional baggage that is oftentimes tied to resentment,
anger, disappointment,
and basically just letting go of traumas that you might've had. Number two,
admit, accept, and decide.
So after we have worked on the blockages that have to do with our past and our
present, now is really a time to admit to ourselves,
what is it that I really want to do with my life?
And what is it that I'm actually the most unhappy with? In particular,
admit to yourself, are you really where you want to be in your life?
And if not, what is it exactly that you want?
And once you're able to really admit to yourself,
then that's when acceptance happen. Accepting the fact that maybe,
you are not where you want to be in life. And you know what?
That's okay because majority of us,
we're not exactly where we want to be in life. And that's okay.
So as soon as you're able to talk to yourself in an honest way,
that's when you're able to really decide how you want to step forward.
Because honestly, you can do whatever you want in your life. Okay?
You can create whatever life you want for yourself.
So now is really the time to decide what is it that you want,
but what is it that you really want?
Not just some limiting beliefs type of wants, and not just some,
I think I only can achieve this type of wants. We're talking now,
what do you want truly in your core?
And you can dream as big as you want,
because it's all about setting a goal for yourself.
Even if it might feel like it's so far away and so impossible to achieve,
but haven't you heard of all these people who achieve
the most impossible in this world?
And it's not just by pure luck. I want you to create your luck.
I want you to become the producer of your own movie.
You have the power in your hand to really create a change.
I don't want you to miss out on this opportunity,
no matter if we are in pandemic or not. Because you can see,
there are so many things you can do regardless of pandemic. Most of all,
it has to do with yourself and the inner work, upgrading your mindsets.
Because when you upgrade your mindset,
that's when you start moving forward on this path.
Anything is possible when your mindset is aligned with what you want to achieve.
Point number three,
find your fuel and do not depend on fueling your motivation only when
you watch, let's say videos like this,
or if you wake up in a good mood and you just feel motivated that day. You see,
this is where a lot of the journeys stop for a lot of people.
They are only proactive on days when they feel motivated
and all the other days,
they do not work at all towards their goals because unfortunately,
the motivation was not there today.
Now, ladies, as you understand,
that is not a sustainable way of trying to work on your goals and on your dreams.
And it's just not logically that it's going to happen for you.
So you need to find your motivation every day and you have to fuel your
own self with motivation. So how do we do that?
Well, that's when we ask ourselves this question every day.
How badly do you want to have a change in your life?
How badly do you want to achieve your dream?
How will you feel if you just stay the same and keep living your life the way
it is today? Now when you ask yourself these questions every day,
you are going to actually fuel yourself because you are going to connect with
your own desire for what it is that you want to achieve.
And every time you remind yourself about your desire of triggering
that lust, that want that almost fire in you,
that's when you get the fuel to really work hard,
even work during those moments where you feel like this is the last thing that
I want to do. I can only speak for myself,
but this is how I have been able to sustain all the
discomfort that I've had to
sustain in order to get where I am today. And trust me, I still do it.
I still have low points in my life where I feel like I just want to give up.
I just want to quit. I just want to forget about everything.
But then you ask yourself these questions and then you remind yourself and then
you get fueled up and that's when you continue and find the strength and energy
to just keep on going,
even when you feel like you just want to forget about it all.
So we've spoken about removing the obstacles,
we've spoken about being honest with yourself and really decide the path you
want to move forward on.
We've also uncovered how to get the fuel into your ship
to move forward on this journey. But there's one more thing.
And that's number four, strategize without excuses.
Because we are now equipped, we are on this journey. We are on this ship, right?
We're going to move forward, but what direction are we going to go to?
And how are we going to kind of go around the obstacles are going to come?
That's why we need to strategize.
But when I say strategize without excuses, first, I want to ask you a question.
How are you going to get yourself from where you are right now
to where you want to be?
You are in the ship, so how are you going to move forward? Many of you,
I know and be honest now, you're going to actually say,
I don't know. That's an excuse.
I don't know, does not exist on this map.
Even if you don't know,
that's when you need to actually start thinking outside of the box.
That's when you have to starting improvising.
That's when you have to start using your imagination. And you know,
also one thing that you have to do,
sometimes you just have to kind of start and figuring it out
as you start walking forward.
Now, in my case,
I did not know all the answers to everything that I've managed to achieve
before I started my journey. Surely,
I had a vague understanding or a vague idea,
but majority of what I have been able to learn and to achieve has always
been as I started walking forward on my path.
Because what happens is that this whole experience
become this massive learning curve.
And you are going to discover a lot of things that you actually didn't even
think about before starting. That's why you need that experience.
That's why it is so important to sometimes accept that you don't need to have
all the answers before you start. Sometimes, it's just all about starting.
When I created Secrets Of The Elite Woman program,
I created it because I wanted to give women help forward
in order to package everything,
every single step that I personally took on my journey,
package it so at least, they have a little shortcuts, a little fast track.
And I know that you don't have to take my program in order to have success,
but it will definitely help you forward.
It will definitely make the journey faster,
even faster the time I personally did this transformation.
Because when I started, I didn't have anybody guiding me forward.
And for that reason, I have to do a lot of trial and error when I started.
And that took me longer than anticipated.
But when you have guidance and when you know a little bit of how to move forward
and how to strategize, that's when the journey becomes easier. But ladies,
I don't want anybody to tell yourself, I don't know. It's too complicated.
It's difficult. No, that's why we strategize without excuses.
Because even if you don't have the answers,
you don't need to have all the answers. You will be able to figure it out.
And you know, one more thing,
those ladies who I have noticed have the best success are the ones who actually
just start thinking outside of the box and start thinking creatively.
And don't limit themselves by just accepting that they don't know,
they don't have the answers, etc.
Those are the ones who just end up doing nothing with their lives.
But the women who all the time, trying to figure things out,
those are the ones who achieve success, because I want you to be that woman.
I want you to become the winner in the story.
And the thing is that anybody can become the person, but it's all about you.
How are you going to decide that for yourself
and not let a year or two or three of pandemic to hold you in your life back
And yes, there are some restrictions that are totally real that we just have to face.
But this is where I want you to strategize without excuses and really start
thinking around the obstacles and try and come up with creative solutions.
Because anything is possible in this life,
but it will only be possible if you're able to look for the answers.
Now, ladies, in my next video, Seven Life-Changing Tips from myself,
you are going to be able to find more inspiration and motivation of course,
on how to move forward on your journey.
Because I want 2021 to be the year of total upgrade for you
because it's now or never.
I will see you in the next video.