you
he never lied he always told the truth when he spoke he chose his words they were actually chosen
by Allah Subhanahu WA Ta'ala but he took his time he spoke very clearly never did anyone have to
say her honestly sometimes when we speak we speak in such a low tone you know we speak that shows a
complex mind sometimes not all the time sometimes you're just lazy but sometimes it's a complex my I
know I recall learning the sunnah of muhammad saw salaam of a handshake it's a nice solid handshake
you know you just below your thumb this part here meets the same part of the other person and it
actually plugs in and you grip it and you shake it and you look at the face and you break into
a little smile and you say a Salah Malik that's the proper Sunnah and then you have people giving
you the two fingers have you seen that it's like they don't want to shake your hand at all we are
they going to be loved by anyone you know they just do this and next thing it's out shake it
shake it properly don't worry the fungus on their hands not going to come to you it's a fact this is
something he says greet the people that's what he said he greeted with a smile he was a person
who used to smile often at the people such and it is reported that he was absolutely free from
hypocrisy so much so that when he was said you could see it in his face it wasn't hidden he was
said you could see of just upsetting because it was on his face with us we saw her to you
and you know you then you want to bash the person but you haven't managed to say anything let them
know you know sister I'm hurt what you said what you did is bad I'd rather sort out the
mess than to let it grow as a hypocrite or lie here we let the things grow like hypocrites and
the women are not the only ones it's seeped into the men honestly we smile at each other and we
hug each other and there's a dagger yeah you know we're gone I can imagine it it happens and these
are plastic smiles that cause hatred in the Ummah don't let it be I'd rather confront a person who's
a brother of mine brother I love you I care for you you are a human being you're a Muslim you are
my brother in faith I really have a lot of respect for you but I would just like to clarify this one
point it's a point that hurt me perhaps you have a clarification they may not like it but they will
appreciate it long-term that was the messenger he didn't mind he told people similarly when he was
happy you saw it on his face the hadith says kana either Sora Eastern Iowa Yahoo boo Qatar - come on
Sal Allahu alayhi wa something amazing when he was happy his face lit up as though it was a piece of
the moon sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he was so happy you could see it and then he had another
quality the Sahaba love the love enhance a lie a Cebu je su and I had an economy Islay him in this
is difficult for us to do you know what it means it means those who were seated around him at any
time and his companions none of them felt that there was anyone else more loved than they were
to him they all felt the same so he gave them importance he loved them he made them feel so
loved that each one of them thought I'm the one he loves the most that's what it is Subhan Allah
this was a gift but can't we try subhanAllah you don't have to actually get to that level
you won't be able to but at least be genuine with people learn to love learn to appreciate the good
in others we will be different we have to learn to sacrifice when the Prophet SAW solemn instructed
his companions to do something he participated with them to fulfill it give you an example of
the Battle of the trench the instruction came to dig a trench around Medina he wasn't like the top
shots of today sitting in the background letting everyone do the dirty work no he got in with them
he started digging with them and some of them were showing that they had literally at that time when
they didn't have food they would tie their bellies with the rock in order for the belly to become you
know compressed slightly or pressed a little bit so they showed each other their bellies and look
I got a rock tied here and I'm still digging and guess what when they saw the process along
he had two rocks time Subhan Allah Subhan Allah amazing he was a man and he didn't mind he worked
with them he participated so if you want to be endeared to the people learn to understand them
learn to participate with them do you know what he speaks what he says regarding those who worked
those who were servants he says wanna come have a look these servants of yours are your brothers
don't forget they are your brothers and a Hawaiian here refers to brothers ancestors because in the
Arabic languages cortically Talib meaning you use one gender while referring to both so these
servants are your brothers and sisters jalaja mala who taught a deacon Allah has placed them
under your authority from an kana a hobo Tata ad so whosoever from amongst you if your brother is
under your authority funny Otomo home in Maya : he should feed them with the same food that he eats
well you will be swimming my eldest and he should clothe them with similar clothing to his one
I took early for him my early born and he should never ever or he says you should never ever burden
them with something that is too difficult for them to fulfill for Inca left to move for a moment if
you really have to give them a task that is very hard for a person to fulfill you get up and help
them do it now that type of instruction he was so loved so loved even by the people who were serving
him and the cinematical of the allah and who was a young boy when his mother came with him and gave
him to mohammed salah salem as a servant he says wallah he Kadeem to Rasul Allah Allah Allah Masha
Allah singing I serve the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam for ten years I was his servant
how many years ten years think about people at home helping hands those who assist you at home
ten whole years he says farmer kaalia hoof in captain not once did he make a bad expression
or a sound never negative you know we call it the TSE sound back at home which means you heard
that sound you know they say I'm sure this part of the world knows what I'm talking about but that's
what it is he never did that there in the Arab peninsula they call it off you say oh that means
it's it's as bad as that WOM Alcala leah wormack i lelache in sana to lima sonata not once in ten
years did he say for something I did why did you do this he would correct it himself and carry on
with us forget your servants your spouse cooks for you mashallah brings the food for you every
day it's a story hello acaba may Allah forgive us so this was the prophesy salam he was considerate
compassionate he loved the people he had so much of care for them these were some of the qualities
that we lack today and yes one might argue these are prophetic but no the level upon which they are
may be prophetic but the teaching is for us all it's quite simple so I hope that we to you know
become people who are considerate of others we have hope in others and we are hard on ourselves
it's a sacrifice to be a who's loved you need to be a person who sacrifices you need to be a person
who tries you need to be a person who's upright earning the closeness of Allah I can give you
one hadith that brings tears to the eyes listen to it Muhammad sallallaahu Selim says in Allah
either a hababam nadege green fire Kualoa gibreel in allaha yuhibbu fool Annan for ahead back when
Allah loves a person Allah calls debris and Allah says o gibreel Allah loves so-and-so so you to
love him so jbeil begins to love that person and he calls out to the rest of the angels or angels
Allah loves such and such a person on earth you all love them too so they begin to love them and
they descend upon the earth with the love of that particular person Wow Subhan Allah and this is why
we say Ya Allah you know we say may Allah love us o Allah love me I love you Subhan Allah we say I
love Allah lavalla but we ask Allah o Allah you love me too because if Allah loves you there's
nothing more you need and the love of Allah does not mean you're going to have everything thrown
at your feet no the Prophet Muhammad sallallaahu Salam was the most beloved to Allah what did he
have he went through more difficult times than any one of us we ask Allah Subhanahu WA Ta'ala
to help us with a few of these qualities the Prophet SAW solemn never raised his voice in
a derogatory manner you know shouting screaming he was never vulgar he he was never ever saying
hurtful things with us we are vulgar and hurtful every single day and then we wondering why is it
that no one likes us no one loves us and so on you want to earn this go and study the Sira go
and study the Sunna take a look at the qualities when we say the way he spoke the words he used
to Allah he just to think for a moment this is what the Prophet peace be upon him taught this
is what he lived by he was upon the highest level of contentment ever where we may allah
subhanahu wa'ta'ala grant us contentment and may Allah open our doors design logic