We are extremely pleased that you're here
how you doing extremely well good good so there's there's one thing I want to
mess around with a little bit I have been from past experience of you know
the Abraham sessions where you talk about filling in the grid I've been
filling in the grid over a subject for about I don't know it's a year and a
half two years the grid feels in itself okay you just achieved the you achieve
the the properties that caused the grid to fill in law of attraction fills it in
you just choose so just choose the the disc that will fill in you're not
filling it in you're just choosing the disc so I have been thinking that my
action is filling in the grid we're really the whole time it's been how I'm
feeling about the subject is family in the grid
yeah and so I'm really not filling in my own grid other than I'm choosing like by
action I'm not feeling my grid by action I'm just not being as clear with my
thoughts as I could be to create the path sometimes it's easy to to get in a
very active mode and and think that you're deliberately creating through
your action where your action is really a byproduct of the grid it's it's a
byproduct of the vibrational choice it's the vibration it's the byproduct of the
disk you're spinning on doing something because of what's showing up yeah so
it's the inspiration it's the inspiration so so if you're on if you're
on the worried disc the path of least resistance that is the the the vortex
and the path of least resistance that's filling in for you is quite different
than if you're on the high flying disc sure and the path of least resistance
and the more Texas filling in okay so it so so if you
can just accept that everything possible is out there spinning because you've
been and everyone else too you've been all over the place on just
about every subject so there are a lot of possibilities and now it's time to
accept that the momentum is what it is it is what it is and that I have a
choice right here and right now where all of my power is to just flat-out
decide where I want to be because if I'm depressed
the grid will fill in with depressing things if I'm angry the grid will fill
in with things that make me even more angry if I'm overwhelmed the grid will
fill in with things that cause me to feel more overwhelming if I'm angry the
grid will fill in with more things that make me feel angry if I'm frustrated the
grid will fill in with more things that make me feel free if I'm hopeful the
grid will fill in with more things that make me feel hopeful if I'm elated
if I'm clear the grid will fill in with more things like that sure it's just a
law the grid is responding the Law of Attraction is responding to the grid you
are choosing the question is you're choosing it on purpose you're choosing
it by default you're choosing it through observation your are you choosing it
through focus are you choosing it through focus wheels are you choosing it
through the movie you watched are you choosing that are you choosing that
based on how you want to feel are you choosing it because you want to be
intellectual in a conversation with somebody that's snarky and talking about
something are you are you choosing it because because you've practiced that
vibration and it really is who you are are you choosing it because you are you
choosing it because your founder you're choosing it because you're lost in other
words those are the questions okay so basically what I take from that is is
you have a choice to have lazy focus or a little bit more solvent concentrated
focus well momentum is gonna that lazy focus or concentrated focus that's the
subject of momentum so you choose lazy focus that feels good like floating in a
pool somebody rubbing my feet petting the cat watching a sport event
that I like you choose lazy focus that feels good and stay there for a while
sure and it won't stay lazy it will because momentum must ensue it always
does nothing ever stands still law of
attraction will compound it and compounded seventeen seconds brings more
a bang 17 more seconds brings more a bang in other words you can't stop
momentum but you can choose the direction off the momentum we like this
conversation the funny thing about is like I okay so
let me just get cut to the fat then I fell in love in love with a human being
another another young lady in love best I've ever felt in a relationship before
and I knew I was choosing to feel in love okay then
circumstances started to change in it and at this point in time I no longer
feel in love with that person would like to but now wondering well maybe that's
just not the person I want to feel in love with anymore or can I get my focus
back to feel in love with this person again as I know that's my choice do I
really care about that that much to do it with this person or should I move on
well the thing is law of attraction will keep yielding to you and so what
happened was we what happened was in the earlier stages where there was less
momentum sure it was easier for you to stay in love sure but because you didn't
maintain your high flying disk then that momentum wasn't the momentum that
increased definitely it really is it's just that simple so they sometimes it's
easier to just have another fresh start somewhere but the thing is having
another fresh start we're not talking about finding another
beautiful girl we're talking about another fresh start with you and that's
the long slow hard way get up here little dummy
now you gotta learn to walk man you gotta get to you I wanna be you know
what and so and so and so the best thing always to do is to we liked your
question can I can I be in love again are you really asking are you really
asking us are you really asking us is the potential for what's in my vortex
here or do I need to look somewhere else yes but okay okay
what I feel is it's here yes because it's here
you see you want you want the perfect person to appear in perfect form
absolutely just swoop me up man we don't we want you to create the perfect person
through your focus on her perfection so why am I feeling resistance with that
crazy yeah I was gonna say it ain't true we're just I know you are you feel
resistance because because I said I don't want to give that to her based on
how we got to where we are now yeah yeah so how do I just give that to her yeah
can't get there from that son-of-a-gun I know I'll get there from there because
because you got on the competitive disc you got on there you got on the
resentment disks so and I didn't realize I got on there until we got yeah till
the momentum yeah showed showed you more yeah yeah so just chill be in the
question because there we have to say to you like it's not a place to make a
decision from just for sure for sure for sure okay for sure that's why I haven't
done anything how does I feel and something else that's really important
to know that there is no perfect person there's just your perception of a
perfect person so it's okay to want something different if I want something
different of course but just knowing that though it's something different
ain't coming unless I'm different perfectly said but there's a but but
there's but there's another piece that we really want you to hear and that is
this perfection we know that's not even what you're reaching for but but let's
just use it because it's easier than starting through and trying to find
another word perfection is in the eye of the beholder mm-hmm and so what most
people are doing is looking around for the person that is just there that just
Wow's you and bedazzled you and just sweeps you over and but what we want you
to understand is that it's an inside job and so you've got you have to it's like
you're the miner for the gold nobody just shows up with all the gold you mind
for it you see and and the more you find the more you are likely to find more and
the more you find the more you believe until and that's what true love is true
love is your ability to stay in alignment while you look at someone you
want to be an a true unconditional lover not a conditional lover because no one
has the capacity to hold their conditions in a way that will please
another it's not a possible thing you say so this is a good place to practice
God and if you will remember where you were and how you felt when you met where
you were and how you felt when it first got going and just do your best to
return to those thoughts to the it will stirring you again and more untapped
resources of perfection from this particular person will reveal themselves
to you this is an untied resource of profound and never-ending
joy that you were about to throw away
okay good okay so I think we're good with that one for now okay so we heard
it but he didn't feel it and that's all right well you heard it you can't feel
it because because you've been in this sort of defensive place in other words
you're in your head more than you're in your vibration here sure which just
makes it a wonderful conversation but you're gonna you'll you'll get there in
other words it's going to take you a few days of returning to those feelings that
felt so good before and you see here's here's what you're saying like I don't
feel in love with her right now at this moment of course not because I practice
the other thing so here's a good way to look at it so so here's here's here's a
person in here's a person and and you have and and you are focused on each of
them and but you're focused upon this one from your high flying disc and
you're focused on this one from a lower flying disc well even if it is the same
person it seems like two separate people absolutely I'm living it there's the
person yeah no I'm serious and then you say you need to be more stable
I do the best I can to not do that but I am totally understand what you're saying
you