Everything seemed great between you and your man, then slowly but surely, you’ve noticed
that he’s been acting strange.
Perhaps he’s no longer intimate with you, or maybe he seems distant when you’re together.
Whatever the signs, you’re probably wondering why he’s pulling away.
My name is Amy North, I’m a relationship coach from Vancouver BC, and today I want
to talk to you about the reasons why guys lose interest and pull away.
Trying to understand why men lose interest in women is like trying to teach your cat
french; ittttt’ssss impossible.
While ladies are usually able to offer an explanation when they lose interest in their
partner, be it that he was too clingy, lacked motivation, wasn’t attentive, and so on,
men have a tougher time making their reasons clear.
For instance, men can go on a few great dates with a woman, text her daily, think she may
even be “the one,” then poof, just like that his interest disappears and he has little
desire to talk to her.
That said every situation has a reason or rhyme, whether you can see it or not.
Instead of trying to figure out your guy’s reasons, try to see the picture through his
eyes and consider these five reasons why your man may be pulling away.
Before I jump into it I just want to quickly say that if you like this video then please
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Now, let’s get started.
1.
Your Emotions Show Allow me to explain.
When you first start dating someone, you’re not yet emotionally involved so it’s easier
to be come across as cool, calm and collected.
Whether you know it or not, men find this kind of confidence extremely attractive, which
is why they enjoy being around these kind of easy going women.
But as time passes, women become more emotionally involved and start showing their feelings.
Men, on the other hand, may not even be thinking twice about what’s going on yet.
This difference in behaviour can be a problem.
From a guy’s perspective, the beginning of a relationship is enjoyable because it’s
straightforward and carefree.
However, once women become more serious about how feel, they tend to start looking into
the future, or worrying about losing their new dream guy.
When guys see this happening they don’t know how to respond, and so they pull away...which
brings us to number two.
2.
You’re Insecure If you’re the kind of woman who is constantly
nagging your boyfriend about other women or complaining about your body image then it’s
no wonder your boyfriend is losing interest in you.
Questioning your man’s female friendships or pointing out every time he innocently glances
at someone else are quick ways to push him away while making yourself seem jealous and
insecure… or as he may put it, “insane.”
Yes, it’s rare to find a woman who is 100 percent happy with her body, but at the same
time those aren’t feelings to project onto your boyfriend.
They’re your own personal issues that you need to deal with.
If you’re interested in learning how you can become your guy’s dream girl then visit
my site www.CoachNorth.com and watch the full video presentation.
Oh, and spoiler alert, it actually has very little to do with your looks.
3.
You Seem Desperate If you boyfriend is pulling away it could
be because you’re emotionally unequipped.
In other words, if you’re not happy with yourself, then it’s near impossible for
you to be happy in your relationship.
Now you may be thinking, “But Amy, my boyfriend makes me feel great,” however if he’s
your sole source of happiness then he may be feeling suffocated.
It’s important for both partners in a relationship to have their own life.
This means own hobbies, interests, passions and friends.
If your boyfriend is your be-all and end-all then you may be scaring the poor guy away.
Think about it from his point of view, you wouldn’t want to be with someone who was
desperate for your love and attention; no, it’s a major turn off.
When your desperation shows you man will run a mile.
4.
You Gave It Up Too Soon Showing someone you like them by having sex
with them is probably the worst move you can make when wanting to form a serious relationship.
That’s because when it comes to sex, women are the opposite to men.
Where women can sleep with a guy and feel more emotionally connected and attracted after
the fact, men on the other hand, see sleeping with a woman as a challenge.
Once their pursuit is over, it’s not uncommon for them to lose interest and move on.
Even if he seemed like he was into you and happy to sexually engage, if he didn’t have
to work for it then chances are it doesn’t mean much to him.
Just remember, what starts fast, ends fast!
And now, last but not least…
5.
You Tried to Force Love As I mentioned earlier in this video, one
of the key differences between men and women is that men live more in the moment, whereas
women are constantly looking to the future.
This means that a guy might be crazy about you one week then change his mind the next.
That’s why it’s important to keep your heart out of the situation until you’re
in a serious, committed relationship.
When you let yourself to get emotionally involved too soon, it’s likely that he’ll notice.
Even if you don’t say it out loud, your reactions and behaviour speak volumes.
When men sense that women want more from them they start to pull away.
Since his idea of dating is about pursuing you, making it known that you are readily
available takes away his urge to go after you.
Sure it can be hard not to get wrapped up in the situation but remember, if you want
to keep him close then you have to play his game.
Well, that just about does it for this video.
Thanks so much for watching, I hope you found it helpful.
If you have any questions or comments please feel free to post them below and I’ll do
my best to answer each of you.
Until next time, take care!