Hi there!
It’s Brad Browning here… relationship coach and author of The Ex Factor Guide.
In this video, I’ll be talking about what to text your ex girlfriend if you want her
to come back to you.
Now before I jump into this, you need to know a few things before texting her.
First, you need to understand that you simply can’t just start texting your ex girlfriend
directly after a breakup.
If you’ve watched my other videos in this channel (and if you haven’t, I highly suggest
you watch all of them), you know that applying my “No Contact” rule for at least 30 days
is crucial.
If you don’t allow enough time to pass, your ex girlfriend is going to think that
you’re desperate for her attention… and for women, this is a huge turn off.
So before texting or communicating at all with your girlfriend, you need to make sure
you send her the right signals first.
If you have any questions about my “No-Contact” rule, then please leave a comment below this
video and I’ll try my best to get back to you with some advice.
Step#1: Don’t Text Her Something Boring
A lot of guys will start off by saying something hollow and unprovocative.
Simply saying “hey” or “what’s up” isn’t going to stir up your ex girlfriend’s
emotions.
Remember, women are extremely emotional, so what you need to do is say something that
will compel her and FORCE her to write back to you.
Think of something that will capture her imagination and grip her emotions.
If you really want your ex back, you’re going to have to use some creativity.
My video on BreakupBrad.com will teach you a little bit more about how to affect her
emotionally to the point where she feel like she has to respond.
Again, the URL is www.BreakupBrad.com -- I’ll have a link in the description below as well.
Step #2: Make Sure You Text Her For Good Reason
Texting her for no other reason than to say “hello” is not a good enough reason to
text her.
At this point, you shouldn’t convey to your ex girlfriend that you want to talk to her
at all.
So when you do text her, make sure that you need something from her.
For example, this text usually generates a response:
“Hey, do you remember the name of that Italian restaurant we went to on your birthday last
year?”
Remember that all you want to do is just open the lines of communication with your ex girlfriend.
You’re not trying to attract her back into your life or seduce her.
You just need information.
Once you get the conversation flowing, then you can start planting the seeds of desire
in her mind, but until then, keep things light.
Now… that text message that I just showed you is good for a number of reasons.
First, it doesn’t convey any neediness.
It isn’t a boring text, either.
It also brings back a positive memory that she had of you.
And finally, it gets her thinking about you and possibly getting jealous.
She might be thinking…why is he asking?
Is he going to take another girl there or something?
Step #3: Make Sure You Don’t Talk About The Drama
Texting your ex girlfriend regarding your past relationship is a huge mistake.
You don’t want to make your ex girlfriend think that you still care about her… at
least not yet.
You’ll scare her away.
So don’t bring up the past, don’t bring up any negativity or drama, and don’t ask
her if she’s dating anyone new.
At this point, you need to act like you don’t even care about what’s going on in her life.
Step #4: Be Funny!
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Remember, girls get bored easily.
If you aren’t holding their attention, then they’re going to ignore you and move on
to the next guy.
Your ex girlfriend is no exception to this rule.
One of the best ways to open up the lines of communication with her is to text her something
funny and entertaining.
You can bring up a hilarious memory or just make fun of a mutual friend together.
If you don’t think you have any funny memories to text, then just send her a link to a funny
YouTube video.
Again, the only reason you’re texting her at this point is to open up the lines of communication.
Now, if you want to escalate your text messaging to the next level (and make her possibly fall
for you again), you need to watch the video on my new website.
The address is www.BreakupBrad.com.
I also have a link in the description below.
And once again, if you like this video, then please click the like button right below this
video and subscribe to this channel.
It really helps me out!
Thanks for watching my video!