Hi everyone.
Did you know that statistically five out
of every 10 people report that they are spoken to
rudely every single day.
That's right.
This basically means that maximum people that you encounter in your everyday
life, they are the victim of somebody who has been rude to them
at school at work, maybe even their spouses and so many
other people who have been rude.
But do you know how to encounter and respond to a
rude comment?
Well, there are ways to do that.
In fact, I want to show you the best ways that I use to
respond to root comments because I think that such people need to be
put in their place.
But are you going to be rude to them?
Well, let's find out.
So the first way or the first sentence you could possibly say is,
wow, someone seems to have woken up on the wrong
side of the bed.
Now this is a very sarcastic comment.
You know, there are some people who just have a bad mood and they think it is
pretty okay to just vent their bad mood on anyone
that they come across.
That's when you can say, wow, someone seems to have woken up on the wrong side
of the bed.
I'd rather speak to you when you feel like having a civil
conversation goodbye until then.
Now this is you shutting the conversation altogether,
which you must do the what civil means polite.
So you're telling the guy, hey, I will only talk to you when you are ready to
have a civil or polite conversation until then I'm not
available by that was probably the
most unintelligent thing you've ever said in
your entire life.
Now.
I believe that people who are rude are not very clever because they don't know how to
control their words and use words to their advantage.
And that is why I prefer to call them unintelligent.
So I would use this.
Maybe you should try to, sometimes you could say,
hey, you need to stop embarrassing yourself.
Like I said, if someone is rude, they're unintelligent
and if you are unintelligent, the truth is that you are only embarrassing
yourself.
So you know what make the person realize that look, you are embarrassing
yourself, stop it.
Or you could say you look like you are totally out of touch with your
emotions, which is actually true because people who are rude do not know how
to control and regulate their emotions properly.
They get angry flustered and they think it is okay to take it out on you.
Well remind them, hey, you look like you're out of touch with your
emotions.
You need some help or you could say, I think
you've clearly overstepped your boundaries.
It would be best if you stopped right now.
Now this is the more direct way of just telling someone
that hey, you cannot talk to me like that.
And here you've got to like stop the person who is trying to attack you
with their words and the way they are behaving, that's when you say
you've overstepped your boundaries?
Time to stop.
Okay, we will just have to agree to
disagree minus minus means without all of the name
calling.
The truth is that some people when they are rude, they start calling you names.
Like the other day someone said that, oh, you are really dumb.
You're really not smart enough.
Why?
Because I do not agree with them.
Well that's really rude.
They can agree with me or they can disagree with me, that is there option.
But they must do it minus without all the name calling.
So you can actually use this when someone resorts to name calling when they are
being rude with you, that comment does not even
deserve a response period.
Now, sometimes I don't think you need to dignify someone's
comment with a response because some people are really plain mean.
That's when you will say that comment does not deserve a response so I'm
going to stop right now.
Let me also tell you why we've used the word period because period means a full stop
in other words, you are putting a stop an end to the conversation, which
is what you must be doing.
Did you know that being a jerk is really uncool?
Well, if the person is being rude, he's unintelligent and therefore he's a mean
person meaning he's a jerk, which is a slang word for someone who is
totally mean and horrible as a person.
That's when you can say, hey, did you know that being a jerk is really uncool.
You've got to tell people that being rude is not being cool because nowadays in
movies, people tend to think that, you know, being rude and saying
mean things at school, but being a jerk is not cool.
It is totally uncool, you seem to have let yourself
down altogether.
Like when people are rude, they're acting immature, they're acting
childish, they are acting pretty stupid.
If you ask me, that's when I like to tell them, hey, you seem to have let yourself down
altogether.
Not good, not cool at all.
Okay.
Now sometimes I don't want to be rude or I don't want to
really give it back to the other person because maybe they don't realize what they're doing
and that's when I use a little bit of empathy.
I kind of try to make them think about what they're doing.
That's when you could use a question like this, you could say, would you like it
if this is an if actually would you like it?
If someone you love were spoken to like that.
Like a lot of people don't realize how it feels to the other person when
they are being spoken to rudely, but that's when you step in and tell them, hey,
what if the person you love were spoken to like that, get them thinking about
what they're doing okay.
So I would possibly in some cases do that or you
could say, hey, your words don't make things any better.
The truth is that everybody in life is struggling one way or the other,
right?
So maybe I'm struggling with, you know, waiters, shoes or I have my personal problems
at home.
But if you're being rude to me, are you making it better?
That's when you want to point out to the person that they are being really bad?
It's not guilt tripping, but you're telling them, hey, your words are not
making things any better.
So stop.
That was petty and totally uncalled for if you
remember I said that people who are rude are immature.
So people who are immature end up in the end up saying and doing
petty or very insignificant things or trivial
things.
And that's when you can say, hey, that was very petty and totally uncalled
for, which means you don't have to do it.
Why did you do it?
Why were you petty enough to do it?
Or you could say that's totally unacceptable, right?
Because if you're rude, well that's not going to fly with anyone.
And you can't, you can't use those phrases, You can simply say that's totally
unacceptable.
You will not and you cannot use those words with me okay.
Or you could now be like a little, you know, you could give it back to the person by saying,
hey, I hope your day is as pleasant as you are a very sarcastic comment, which
means if that person is rude, I hope Karma comes to get you back.
So you say hey, I hope your day is as pleasant as you are, goodbye.
Very sarcastic or you could say it must be hard to
have such a miserable life that makes you so bitter.
This is again a very sarcastic comment because I really believe that people who are rude don't have a
great life and that causes them to be rude and bitter.
So you want to use this sarcastically, you need to get some
serious help goodbye again.
You're kind of telling the other person that look what you're doing is not normal, like a
normal human being does not function that way or does not talk some
way does not talk that way.
That's when you will say you need to get some serious help by
or you could say you are the epitome of rudeness.
Well, by Okay, so epitome is basically the highest
form or like the standard of rudeness, like the worst
standard of rudeness and this person is trying to be one which is not a compliment.
Okay, you can be an epitome of good things, but if you are an epitome of rudeness, that's not a
great thing.
Okay, so I hope you can take your pick out of
all these comments and use it when people are being rude to you as you can see some of these
comments are very direct.
Some of these comments are sarcastic.
Some of these comments also show empathy.
So pick the ones that you want depending on who you are responding
to and use them in a way that really shows that you are
assertive and that you will not take rudeness has something that they
can do with you.
So please use these comments and tell me which ones you really liked.
I would love to hear these comments and and I'll respond to them when
I get the chance.
Until then keep learning, keep practicing and don't be
rude but learn how to respond to rude comments.
Take care.
Bye bye see ya.
Mhm.