Alright; leaving this Airbnb and going to be moving on to the next one. Just
currently putting away the key and gonna be leaving Malaysia and headed all
the way to Sri Lanka. Let's go.
Alpha male, beta male, gamma male, omega male whatever you want to call it; these
words are thrown around a lot. Especially in the dating advice community. We're talking
about how to be the alpha male, how to avoid being the beta male. What I want
to do today in this video is I want to give you a distinction between what an
alpha male is versus a beta male so to speak explain to you why it's important
that you do want to have these "alpha male" type qualities. I like to just call
them masculine qualities and then I'm gonna be telling you the 3 daily
habits that you could be doing to start to become that more masculine version of
yourself. That "alpha male" so to speak. What are
these masculine qualities, these alpha male qualities that I'm speaking of?
Dominance, decisiveness, being in control, being the one who is taking the lead,
confident, doing confidence, going after what you want.
I was also about to say fearless but really it's almost impossible to
completely take fear out of the equation because it's a natural and normal reaction
to daily life. It's just one of the emotions in our bodies but a masculine
quality is seeing fear, observing fear and still doing the thing anyways that
you're scared of. It's about controlling the fear, another masculine
quality. One example of this in dating which I'm sure you're not doing and if
you are, you need to stop immediately, is this idea of cat-calling.
A lot of guys will see a girl, think she's really pretty and then all of a
sudden just cat-call and say something about her looks and whistle at her or
say something obnoxious to her and this is acting out of emotion. If I really
were to sit down with one of these guys and ask them "Do you really think that that
would work in attracting a girl?" I think we all come to the conclusion that no
that doesn't work. And now from our friend Jerry Seinfeld "Honking the car
horn amazes me. This has got to be just the last living brain cell in this guy's
skull that comes up with this idea. I don't understand, she's on the street, beep beep.
I think I made my point" Made it to Sri Lanka in the airport. I should have been
filming earlier but we had an insane last-minute arrival to the gates to get
to Sri Lanka. It's crazy that we even made it here. I'm talking within minutes
of gating before they closed the gates. It was a sweaty experience.
Okay habit number 1; this is something that you can do every single day and
it's gonna be more of a nighttime activity that's gonna help you form one
of the characteristics of being an alpha male and that habit is planning your day
ahead. Basically what you're doing is somewhere after dinner before bed
you're gonna write out what you're gonna be doing the next day. Now I
understand this is gonna be different for different people. We have maybe
some of you in school, maybe we have some of you who are entrepreneurs and
probably a lot of you who have a job so it's gonna look very simple
like okay I'm just gonna be going to my job tomorrow. But when you have an actual
plan of not just doing work but doing anything else in your life that you want
to do and you write it down and you're planning ahead, this is you being more
decisive. This is being more directive and having a plan, having direction and
being decisive are alpha male qualities. Here's the best part about the
things I'm teaching on this video; it's not just about being an alpha male.
It's really about having an overall better life because there are some
amazing masculine characteristics that do way more for you than just finding
a girl.
Finally made it to Sri Lanka here in Colombo. Made it to the beach. It's
beautiful so moving forward with the last thing that I said about planning
your day ahead. Obviously it's very good for your productivity; it's one of the
number one tips for productivity, but it also helps keep this mindset of doing
what you're doing, what your goals are, what your plans are and staying decisive
and staying in control of basically where you want to go. These are very
masculine traits and yes they actually will come out when you are, "Hello I'm
good thank you good okay thank you from the USA.
This happens quite a bit here. USA yeah you have a friend there. Is it me?
It's not me. Al right I lost my train of thought but I think you get
what I'm saying here in terms of having the mindset of always being decisive
knowing what you want to do and where you want to go next very masculine. Let's
go on to the next daily habit. The next daily habit is gonna have to do with the
way that you carry yourself, the way that you look people in the eye and the way
that you project your voice in the way that I'm doing right now so you can hear
me over these waves. This is how I want you to be talking to people. This is a
very masculine presence and no I'm not saying that because it's manly to have a
deep voice. Oh god, here we go I'm good thank you.
And no I'm not saying that because a manly person has a deep voice and speaks
up and is not scared to give you eye contact. What I mean is when you're
projecting your voice when you're looking at someone in the eye you're
saying to someone hey I am okay with being heard I want to be heard
I respect who I am, I'm confident in who I am as a person and so I'm willing to
look you in the eye and talk loud so you can see me and feel my presence and a
lot of people who would be I don't know beta so to speak or not as masculine or
people who were kind of cowering in the corner afraid to speak up on their
opinions, their thoughts and their emotions. But no when you practice every
single day projecting your voice like I'm doing right now, looking at someone
right in the eye then you will build that presence. Now to
turn this into a daily habit, 3 times per day I want you to talk to people. It
doesn't have to be a stranger. It could be someone that you already talk to daily and
practice projecting your voice and looking them in the eye for the entire
conversation. I'm gonna put a link in the description below to a video that I do
that's gonna teach you exactly how to project your voice. You're gonna see
exactly how to do that. Al right, let's go on to the next habit. If any of
you been watching my channel and know me well enough, you know that I'm probably
gonna be headed towards the direction of a habit of practicing conversation with
girls. Well then you were absolutely correct because
the next habit is the practice of what I call doing confidence. So a masculine
trait is confidence, someone who is sure themselves, very similar to the last
habit that I talked about and same here and so confidence is something
that's gonna come in the form of an action. The way to build confidence is to
do confidence. you do confidence. It's not something you have. It's part of an
actual verb, you're doing something and so that means in order to get confidence
in anything, in order to do confidence, you have to go out and do the thing that
you're scared of. Every day if you build the habit of talking to 3 new
girls every day then you're gonna start to get less scared of being able to
approach girls. So every day I want to approach 3 new girls and start a
conversation with them. Go up to them and just say hello. That's all you have to do.
Now you got these 3 daily habits and 2 of them are gonna be having 6
conversations per day. 3 with strangers and 3 with whoever
you want to practice being able to look someone in the eye, feel your presence
and to be able to start talking to people who you normally wouldn't talk to.
All this together ties together and makes you a more masculine and so-called
alpha man. Which habit are you going to work on? Write down below if you're
gonna do all 3. I want to see you guys doing all 3 of these every day
for the next week. So if you are write down in the comments "I'm gonna do three."
Or you can say "Take three" that's what I want you to say down in the comments and
also I have something free for you if you've gotten this far in the video it's my
little course called Chick Crack which teaches you the conversation topics that
women that love to talk about and that's gonna help you in these conversations
that you're having with women if you're doing these habits every single day so
go get that because it's 100% free for you to learn how to talk to girls. Alright.
Keep watching because I'm in Sri Lanka now. And it's gonna get interesting. Peace.