So my date with Brandi, I was very
excited, I mean, super excited.
I mean, Brandi is a phenomenal looking female.
You know, I always like a woman with, you know, nice big eyes.
Hello, hello.
Sup, how you doing?
How you doing?
I think Brandi, she get my vibe.
Brandi, baby you was looking good.
You know that.
Go ahead, girl.
Do you ever do like, wine tasting?
I've done it one time before.
Wait.
- Oh, we got to cheers. - Yeah.
Oh it's because you said [INAUDIBLE] [BLEEP]..
Let me get something.
I know you ain't that type so I'm like, [BLEEP] it's Brandi.
Brandi don't care. - I do.
I know you do.
I'm just like, hello, cheers.
Cheers to something.
I don't know what he meant by it's Brandi.
Brandi likes to toast.
Clang, clang, clang.
So yeah.
You don't come off as difficult to me like most
people I'm running into.
And the reason why I wasn't-- there's certain
women that I was just wasn't concerned about.
And you definitely one them.
OK.
I think people don't understand that it takes time
to see the layers of people.
Exactly, it does.
And I think in this situation I'm
in being almost eliminated twice,
I think they try to rush my process.
Like I'm not really into, you know, I'm my own man.
I don't think I'm going nowhere because I vibe with all y'all.
Yeah.
You know, and I get eventually,
I got to like, say, all right, I want this particular person.
You know, but it's kind of hard to do
that if I don't do it my way.
People ain't understand that, how I was thinking.
They just thought I was like stand-offish
or you got to come to me, you know.
- That's what a women wants. - Yeah.
I told you that before.
A woman wants to be pursued.
So you got to let her know something.
You can't just keep it on.
I'm going to see you the next day, see you the next day,
see you the next day. - Yeah.
You might not.
Yeah, nah, I feel you.
Well, that's what it is about you.
I just want to understand where you're trying to take it?
Right.
So the reason why I don't be as aggressive as far
as calling and trying to get with people and stuff
like that-- - OK.
You know, I like to observe.
So I just watch.
You know, girl, you want to be over there doing that?
All right.
You know what I mean? - What's that means?
- Yeah, OK. - X'd out?
- Not X'd out, just checkmark. - OK, a checkmark.
- I see you, checkmark. - Yeah.
You doing a little too much, checkmark.
- Yeah, you notice. - You know what I'm saying?
Yeah.
And then at the end of the day,
because we are in the process, I look at my list I say,
all right, who got checkmarks and don't.
Now you know.
OK, but I still want to know who your connection is.
You're a connection.
OK.
That's my focus.
Oh, that's the focus.
That's why I'm here.
What else would I focus on?
I ain't even know that, shawty.
I'm here.
I could have walked out.
I think Brandi is kind of like in another lifetime
type of vibe for me.
You know, but most of the ladies are.
I think Brandi is one of the ones that
would be more understanding.
Flow with me, laugh with me, joke with me.
My question for you now.
Who you like?
Who I like?
Don't mess this up.
Not in front of these people.
I'm going to be honest with you.
Go ahead.
You know my strongest connection--
- Oh. - --is Big Mike.
- Is it? - Yeah.
You ain't know that?
You like him for real?
- I do. - For real?
Yes.
Hmm, you must be going [INAUDIBLE] on the phone.
I'm too late?
I'm just saying that's what--
You be honest.
You know, like, you haven't, like, shown me that.
Yeah.
You don't have my number and I said to you, I was like,
you don't even got my number.
You still ain't even asked at that point.
- You know what it was? - What was it?
You probably should've used your normal voice.
What's my normal voice?
Because I thought it was a joke.
You don't have my number, Justice.
Maybe you hit me with that.
But you-- [MIMICKING BRANDI] you know, I'm like, I don't.
You know, I say it back.
I do not know why Justice thought
he was my top connection.
And I'm not like being petty at all.
But me and Justice do not talk.
Like, there's been numerous occasions
where I've like said to him, like, you
never asked for my number.
You haven't asked my number.
It's just a bit of arrogance with Justice.
He wants women to chase him and I'm not going to chase.
I think that's good at this point
at least you have an idea.
Because it's a process.
It's still a long way time.
It is, it is.
Well--
So that's why I'm saying, like, things could change.
You never know, but I do have the idea.
- I'll be watching. - All right.
Mm-hmm.
Watch yourself because I'm going to be
looming in the background.
Like, Mike, if you mess this up, if I get it her,
he ain't coming back.
Oh, shoot, no.
That's what I'm talking about. - Yeah.
Let me know what it is.
It's a competition right here.
My connection with Brandi now.
She a great woman and I appreciate it
for being a great woman.
And I want her to get what she desires.
But Brandi like Mike.
When you tell a man like me you like another man on my date?
OK, Brandi.
OK.
I'm a little salty, though.
I ain't gonna lie.
Trying to play it off.
Trying to be all like, it's cool.
No it ain't.
Damn.
Mike [INAUDIBLE] got Brandi.
But you know, you got to put your feet in early.
So it's kind of, like, all is fair in love and war.
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