hey guys Mike here of MKchip today's
video I'm going to be talking about why
people do not have time to care about
what you want to do or what you're
thinking of doing in other words i'm
going to be talking about why you should
not care about what people think and why
you're wasting your time if you are
coming up right at you right now so stay
tuned
I am MK at the CPA and along with my
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so in today's video I just really want
to talk from the heart I'm working super
long hours right now but I still wanted
to put something together for you guys
it's really it's going to be raw footage
primarily and i'm just going to be
talking one-on-one with you guys about
why you should not care what people
think a lot of the things in life we
want to do we are fearful to start doing
because we are so fearful of what people
are going to think about us what they're
going to say to us you know whether
they're gonna like it whether they're
gonna hate it you know it really gets a
hung up and from at the age of now 32
I want to share with you guys some of my
experiences about this particular topic
but what I can tell you at the age of 32
is that I have learned more than ever
that when I used to really be concerned
about what people thought about me or
what I was trying to do or even what I
wanted to do I found I was completely
wasting my time because what I
discovered is that people are too busy
to care about what you want to do or
what you're trying to do and that is the
harsh truth do you think people care
about you that much you're wrong there's
a group of people who are very close to
you who do care about you but what I'm
saying is the majority of people just
don't have that much time that they can
invest in your life and so with you're
trying to do something or that you want
to do something you've never done before
don't let that fear of judgement of
rejection hold you back because it truly
will waste your time and they'll waste
your life now I grow up I was an only
child
very much kept to myself not very
outgoing back in at that point in my
life and I would hardly be able to talk
to anybody until my got my first job and
my first job was actually working at a
grocery store and until that point I
really didn't come out of my shell but
one story I want to share with you guys
and I don't know many of not even many
of my friends know this story but I
remember specifically back when I was in
junior high I was very fearful about
making mistakes and about what people
thought of me and I just really wasn't
that good socially and I remember
sitting it was in a math class it was my
seventh grade or 8th grade math class
and the teacher called me to the front
of the board and at the time I think it
was geometry or some sort of algebra and
I just remember being so scared to
perform in front of the entire class and
not being able to think clearly and just
really really nervous in fact I you know
I got up to the front of the board and
because he wanted me the teacher wanted
me to work on a problem an algebra
problem and so I walked up to the front
of the room and I must have been
terrified and I didn't realize it at the
time but as soon as I got up to that
board and starting writing and trying to
fill in whatever that math problem was
people were starting to thicker and
laugh and the teacher asked me Mike are
you okay are they are you are you
nervous so what was happening is my
knees were actually shaking and I had no
idea it was even happening I was so
embarrassed I was so I must have been so
nervous about what people thought of me
and just the fear of rejection and
whatnot but I can tell you now that
although that fear was real at the
moment the overall conclusion I came to
as I went throughout my life and tried
to do different things is that you know
people are just so busy we're all so
busy in our normal life we all have our
financial responsibilities we have our
family obligations things that we have
continuous that competes with our time
and truly we that we cannot fully invest
ourselves in any other person's life
either if you think about it you just
don't have time to worry about every
situation another person's going through
you just don't you know we just can't
you can't have a capacity to do that and
I'm not saying that you can't be caring
and loving towards people and look good
and I'm not seeing people or generally
on caring loving but I'm saying that
life is just busy so if there's anything
you want to do or have been thinking
about doing whether it's you know
starting writing a book dancing a scene
whatever whatever it is that moves you
whether it guess I'm for some people
actually want to join the military and
they're afraid with their families going
to think so there's all different things
or career paths or our activities you
want to do well just go do them as what
I'm encouraging to do because if you're
you're wasting your time not doing them
because you're so concerned about what
people are going to think about you when
you start doing it but you'll be
surprised at how little they actually
care they might take a glance at you for
a second they might look at you for a
second give you a comment but that'll be
it then they're going to go right back
to live in their life so what I'm saying
is do not waste 10 years of your life
wondering what people think you want to
start doing something start now do it
now especially like take these videos
for example you know I'm new to this as
of the beginning of january of this year
of 2017 that's when i started producing
new videos trying to get better each and
every time but no matter whether it's
videos whether it's seeing whether it's
writing need time to develop you're
going to sell your way to success
because that's how life works you don't
know all the answers you can't predict
everything you need to know until you
actually go start doing it so that's why
i encourage you to start right now start
going down that path and learning and
failing and learning what you need to do
because you might find yourself if
you're trying to do something with the
intention of truly trying that help
other people you know for some people
that you it might be
starting a business it might be
inventing a product it might be
entertaining somebody if you're doing
something with good hearted reason I
don't see why you should hold yourself
back now obviously there's people on our
life whose opinions do matter such as
the people who are closest to us you
know who are your top 10 friends who
cares about you the most their opinions
probably matter and so you want to you
know take it they're gonna if they give
you constructive feedback and I mean
constructive feedback not destructive
feedback listen to what they're saying
because they're probably trying to help
you achieve more or even do better and
what you're trying to do is so if you're
trying to write let them read your work
let them you know ask for their feedback
ask how you can improve let those people
who truly care about you give you you
know give your opinion oh and open your
ears so I don't want you think I'm
telling you to ignore everybody because
that's not the case but in general
please guys people just do not have the
time to care about you about everything
you're trying to do so just go do it
guys and you know you're going to be
fearful when you first start there's
going to be a lot of fear and but that's
okay it's completely normal I steer
filter making these videos every single
time I make one wondering if it is this
going to be good are people gonna watch
it I don't know what is what are people
going to think but I can tell you that
you know you'll be surprised if you if
you truly try to get better and better
and better at something and you put your
passion to it and your time into and you
strategically try to improve to be
better and better for yourself and for
your audience or whatever you're trying
to do people are going to notice and
there you might find you're going to get
compliments on your work and I can tell
you that happiness does not come from
obtaining thing or achieving things yeah
I mean it does make you happy some
degree but happy the huge part of being
happy in life is really going after and
doing the thing you want to do that's
what will make you happier than almost
anything that I have experienced in my
life so far so I want to wrap up the
video here guys
I hope I've encouraged you no matter
what it is you've been thinking about if
you've been fearful or have this fear
about what other people think please
that fear is yeah it's there but it
doesn't mean you should enact just go
ahead and do what you want to do and do
it with your best intentions do it to
help people and people will follow you
or at least hopefully give you
constructive feedback to make you better
and at least you know the biggest risks
you face I think the biggest thing that
can happen you're not guaranteed to
succeed none of us are guaranteed to
succeed to anything you're not going to
be the person who died with their dreams
out of them it's in my personal life
that's my biggest fear or one of my
biggest fears is that I'm going to die
without ever trying to have cheap of
what I've wanted to achieve so I
encourage you no matter what it is to go
after it I myself I'm an accountant in
real life you know that's what I do i do
taxes for a living look at people don't
look at accountants and see them as
people who make videos they just never
see it why not why can't I be why do I
have to care about what they think I can
go ahead and start doing what I want to
do and try to get better and better and
better and that's what I encourage all
of you to do so with that being said I
just want you to let you guys know that
you know felling you know if you're
worried about felling at this about what
your want to go after and so worried
about what people think you know if you
don't ever try you've already failed so
you virtually have nothing to lose by
going out there and starting to do and
try to do what you want to do and just
keep learning and keep improving in that
in your craft profession and who knows
where it will take you you're the word
courage it's not acting within lack of
here are in absence of your courage is
acting despite the fear so the fear is
going to be there but the fear is fake
okay because once you know what you want
to go after you know once you have your
dream or the idea of what you want I
don't know if you guys can see it on the
backboard on that white board I have
back there but it says dream your dream
dream is greater than your fear and once
your dream is big
and greater than your fear you will go
do it you will act upon your desires and
go after it with everything you got and
that's one I wanted to this makes quick
video about I hope this has inspired you
but I would love to hear from you guys
these for me this YouTube channel is the
one thing I wanted to start I never
thought I would enjoy I truly wish I
have started just 10 years ago but here
I am now here we go I'm doing it anyways
you know people that wouldn't expect
someone like me to ever start doing
something like this but you know what it
makes me happy and I'm going to keep
doing it whether they think I'm crazy or
whether they like it so that's it and
you know it's just it's one of my
passions out want to keep doing it and
hopefully keep making videos for you
guys so that being said I would love to
hear what things you guys have always
wanted to do that maybe you haven't done
because you're afraid what people might
think of you or afraid that you might
sell let me know in the comments section
now below one thing is that you thought
of doing but haven't started yet because
with a certain sphere love to hear hear
from you guys and with that being said I
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