Gentlemen, welcome to Mantelligence.
Have you ever been in an out of sight, out of mind
situation?
Oh, you know!
You make contact with a girl you like, and for a moment there,
you actually believed you have a shot with her, but then all of a sudden, she ghosts
you?
Well, you're not alone.
That is why I'm here today with Kay and Larry
to give you some love tips.
Today, we're teaching you how to make a girl miss you.
Today's video was inspired by Apollonia Ponti's topic about why women lose attraction
to men.
And because we want you to get the girl, we're also telling you the number one
thing you shouldn't do if you want to make her miss you.
So don't miss out.
Get it?
Okay.
Let's move on.
5.
Food for Thought Dating isn't just about figuring out whether
or not a girl wants to talk to you.
There are a lot of factors you should consider too.
Apparently, the old saying about the way to a man's heart being his stomach doesn't
only hold true for us gentlemen.
It checks out
for the ladies too.
One way to make a girl miss you is through food.
Did you know that there is such a thing as "courtship feeding"?
If you're still on the wooing stage in your relationship with your would-be lover,
taking her out on dinner dates might just make
you the most irresistible man in her eyes.
Do you want to know why this works?
According to anthropologist Helen Fisher, humans, along
with other species, give their partners food to
demonstrate their worth as providers.
Around the world, men have been accustomed to
giving women presents before lovemaking.
A fish, a piece of meat, sweets, and beer are among the delicacies men have invented
as offerings.
In fact, in his study about
human nature, psychologist Thomas Alley found that couples tend to be both more
attracted and more intimate when they fed one another or shared food.
This proves that for humans, sharing food is linked to perceptions of attractiveness
and intimacy.
The strategy here is to make sure that when she thinks of food,
she thinks of you too.
If you don't want to go broke by spending too much on dinner dates,
here's a piece of valuable life advice- learn how to cook.
Seriously.
Scientists have discovered that men who cook are often
considered to be more attractive to women.
Psychologists Dr. John Gottman and his wife Dr. Julie Gottman of the Gottman Institute
demonstrated through research that women deem domestic participation, such as cooking,
by men as a sign of love and, therefore, are more drawn to them.
If you're still asking for signs before you make a move on the girl you like,
this video breaks down all the signs a girl wants to talk to you.
Watch it and go for it already.
4.
The Benjamin Franklin Effect Here's another trick to make a girl miss you-
ask her to do things for you.
Simply put, the Benjamin Franklin effect works by asking people for a favor in situations
where you believe that doing so will cause them to like you more.
So the trick to make a girl chase you and make her miss you is by asking her little
favors.
She'll be so flattered you asked for her help that over time she'll constantly think
of ways to do stuff for you.
The reason is that she'll justify her actions to herself by assuming that she did you a
favor
because she likes you.
Are you getting the idea?
Out of sight but never out of mind.
How do you ask a girl for favors?
Here's a love advice.
First, find a common ground.
Maybe she loves to cook or maybe she has a knack for painting.
And then use that common
ground as a reason to ask her for a favor.
If she likes to cook, ask her if she could teach you a recipe or
two.
If she's a painter,
maybe you can ask her to give you a private painting session.
That's pretty easy right?
If you wanna learn the tricks to make a girl chase you,
this video will show you just how.
Watch it here.
3.
Scents and Sensibility Ever wondered why the smell of grass reminds
you of early mornings at summer camp?
Or why a particular scent of perfume can remind you of a special person
in your life?
When you smell something, not only does your brain's smell center
connect right to its memory center, but it also stores long-term memories in-house.
This explains how smells trigger vivid memories.
So if you want to know how to become more attractive, aside from
coming up with sweet things to do for a girl, you might want to start paying attention to
scents and smells.
In a study led by Dr. Rachel Herz at Brown University in 2004,
a group of five women showed more brain activity when smelling a perfume with which
they associated a positive memory than when smelling a control perfume they had never
before smelled.
This study proves that if you want to make a girl miss you, make
sure that you also give her a feast for her nose
apart from taking her out on an unforgettable date.
"How do I do that?" you might ask.
For starters, you can give her a bouquet of sweet-smelling flowers.
Think roses, peonies, sweet peas, or freesias.
If you have a ride, make sure to keep your car smelling great.
I mean, you can't expect her to miss a dirty, smelly car.
Women hate messy guys.
This is one of the reasons why women lose attraction.
You know what they say- dirtiness is perceived by all; women pursue
cleanliness.
Besides, you want to let her know that you actually cleaned up for her, right?
Last but not least, make sure you smell awesome too.
Put on an indelible scent but go easy on that perfume.
After all, less intense odors tend
to be rated as smelling better by women, according to psychologist Kelly Gildersleeve.
Did you take note of all that?
You better.
Are you unlucky in love?
If you're wondering why you're single, maybe you need to up your
wooing game.
Watch this video where we give love advice for men on sweet things to
do for a girl.
Check it out
Are you enjoying all this relationship advice we're giving you?
We're down to the last two items on our list but before we continue, we'd like to remind
you that at the end of this video, we will be
revealing the number one thing you shouldn't do if you want to make her miss
you.
So if you want to keep the girl, keep watching.
Let's continue.
2.
Mere Exposure In an experiment that aims to explore the
relationship between familiarity, similarity, and
attraction, researchers have found that familiar people are regarded as both more likable and
attractive.
And as it implies, women like men who are more familiar.
This means that if you
want to make her miss you, make sure that the cute gal you like knows you're around.
You don't have to be all up on her face all the time.
Aside from spending time with her, there are other subtle ways you can do to
get her familiar with you.
If you two follow each other on social media, make sure to give her photos or posts a heart
emoji every chance you get.
You can even add a cute comment to make it sweeter.
If you know the type of music she likes, send her songs you're sure she'll love.
You can also send her flowers at work.
Or even food.
Here's a piece of universal relationship advice for men- be
consistent.
The number one reason why she loses interest is inconsistency.
Don't be hot and then cold all of a sudden.
You got to keep the spark alive, gentlemen.
Trust me.
She won't be able to get enough of you pretty soon.
1.
Happy Pill In his study entitled "Sexual Selection and
Humor in Courtship: A Case for Warmth and Extroversion," Jeffrey Hall found out that
the more times a man tries to be funny and the more times a woman laughs at those attempts,
the more likely it is for the woman to be interested in dating.
Hall added that people like to be around others who make them laugh
simply because the physical reaction of laughing is pleasant.
It's like saying,
"I like having you around because you make me happy."
If you're going to make a girl miss you, make sure you can make
her laugh first.
Now, humor and confidence go hand in hand.
You can't expect to make someone laugh if you don't
have the guts of a comic.
Not the funny type?
That's okay.
If you want to know how to be more confident when telling a joke,
there are ways to help you improve your humor.
Google it.
There are a lot of articles online to help boost your confidence about these
literal laughing matters.
Now that you know all the ways to make a girl miss you, we're now telling you
the number one thing you shouldn't do if you want to make her miss you.
Don't be too aggressive!
Take things nice and slow.
Keep the spark alive but don't over do it.
Whatever you do, make sure that you don't act needy, clingy, or desperate.
Do you know any more ways to make a girl miss you?
We'd love to hear tips from you.
Share your answers in the comment section below.
Never be in an out of sight, out of mind situation again.
These tips will make her miss you for days.
If you're still asking for signs before you make
a move on the girl you like, this video breaks down all the signs
a girl wants to talk to you.
Watch it here.