Texting, texting, texting! Let's talk about texting. Let's talk about how often you
should be texting a girl you like. You have to learn this. Real quick, I know that one of the
biggest problems that guys have with texting is knowing what to say to get her to respond
and meet up with you. So I just got to tell you, I got something for free for you. It
is 7 Deadly Text Messages That Make Her Want You and Respond To You. If you want that, it is 100%
free. Go get it, it's down in the description below. It's copy and paste messages that you can
send, different ones to get her to respond and get her to want to meet up. Use those, they work, guys
love them. You need to have them. Let's talk about how often you should be texting a girl. First,
you got to understand if you are texting a woman and you're doing it correctly... if you're doing
it correctly, she's going to stay attracted to you. A lot of guys mess this up and mess up the
whole texting thing and then you end up losing attraction. One of the reasons is because when
you're texting with a girl, people are reading text messages in their own voice. You read the
text message in your own voice. That means that if you read something that someone else sends you,
you might read it in a different way than they intended it to be read. And so there's all this
room for error. With all that room for error, you might get her to not respond to you anymore
and not be interested in you anymore. That's why texting is a very fragile thing that I
don't think guys are paying enough attention to. So I'm not going to be teaching you exactly what
to text. You can get the 7 Deadly Text Messages down below. We're only going to be talking today
about how often you should do it. In order to give you an answer here, you have to understand what
texting implies. When you're texting a girl what you're basically saying... so let's just
say you're getting into a long conversation with her over text and I get it... a lot of people are
doing that these days. This is me with a fake phone. You're texting her, you're texting her.
You're basically sub-communicating to her that you have time and you have time to give her attention
and that you are not busy doing anything else. This is what it sub-communicates to her. A lot
of women are going to disagree with this video and probably hate this video because they think
it's like game playing and they think like oh, you're just going to completely ignore her. I'm
not telling anyone to ignore anyone. All I'm saying is you should not be texting all day.
You should be doing better things. And if you are with a girl who wants to text you all day,
you should not be with her. If she's like oh, well I want to have a relationship where I'm texting
someone. I'm telling you do not be with that woman. It sounds like she doesn't have anything
going on in her life that she can text you all day and that's going to make you also be texting
all day and being completely distracted from the things that you need to be doing in your life to
have an awesome life, to be the most attractive person you can be and have a fulfilling life.
To answer the question, how often you should be texting her, it should be practically never.
It should be practically never, which means that texting (which I've said many times) should only
be used to set up dates. Now I know that that is not necessarily practical. I understand that.
That means that women will be texting you and you can't ignore them. I understand that. If you
completely ignore her, she's gonna think you're not interested anymore and then she'll never meet
up with you. There is something you can do. I'll get to that in a second. But still just understand
here is that you should only be using texting to meet up. Even to the point where you can ask her
to hang out again when you guys go on a first date or even the second or third date. Meaning you'll
never have to text her, ever. Because you're just setting up dates on the dates themselves
so you can get to a point where you're literally never texting her at all. Unless it's just to
maybe confirm that you guys are going on a date that night. You're probably thinking okay Tripp,
we are at a time where people are texting. This is a main form of communication. How do you expect me
to avoid this? Here's what you do. If she's texting you about get to know you questions
or how are you? What are you up to today? Which I know feels good. You're gonna like that validation
there. It's okay to respond two hours later to set the standard here that you are a busy person.
I'm telling you, you get into long text message conversations, you now have a new part time job.
You are texting this girl or however many girls, because you might be dating multiple girls, you'll
texting all day long. You got to set the standard here that you're not a texter. That you'll only
text to set up dates and confirm dates and that's it. All right. As much as you are thinking oh well
it feels good, I like to text, I'm bored. If you're bored you should be doing other things
with your life other than texting. There's so much to do and so much to work on that it can keep you
on your path and purpose and creating an amazing life like I said earlier. If she text messages you
how are you? What's up? What's going on today? You can answer hours later, set that standard
and you can be vague and short in your text messages. How do you do that? Don't ask her
a question back. You can be nice. I'm not saying be cold. You can say like today is good. It's been
killer. I had an awesome day. And then if she asks you more questions you can say something like hey,
this is really interesting. Or you can answer a little bit and say but let's talk about this more
when I see you next. That's assuming you have a date planned. If you don't have a date planned
well, you should be setting up the date. And yes, it's fine to do that over text. That's okay. But
you can just set the standard here. Set the precedent you're not going to be texting and
that you want to push off any conversation to when you guys meet up. That should do it. That
should totally do it. If she responds in any other way than like okay, that's cool, then forget this
girl. This is not a girl that you want to be with. You're not trying to have a text buddy. And if she
can't handle that then this is not a girl that's going to be a good match for you. If she's not
cool with it, let her go otherwise she'll be cool with it and then you can do the real connecting
and the real building of attraction in person. I know you want to learn well how do you text them
to get them to meet up? Get the 7 Deadly Text Messages. It's a video that I will email to you
after you click the link down in the description below. And that should help you. Remember, no part
time job text buddy situations. It's not good for you. You should be doing other things than looking
at your phone and texting all day. If they can't handle that, that's their problem and goodbye.
And goodbye to you. Thanks for watching the video. I'll see you on the next one.