- I'm always surprised but when men treat women badly,
we blame women and society does nothing
to stop men treating women badly.
(upbeat music)
So in today's video, I will share with you five ways
on how to stop men from treating you badly.
Hello, my name is Greta Bereisaite.
I'm dating and relationship coach for women.
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So without further ado, let's get on.
The number one is do not provoke him.
We must take responsibility for our own behavior
and some women are known to provoke men.
An example can be that you lost all emotional control
and you slapped him on the face
just like in the movie you saw the other day.
She slapped her boyfriend and walked away.
It looked kind of not so horrible in the movie
and maybe even cool.
In reality this is not cool at all
and if your boyfriend decides to hit you back,
well, there might be some really ugly consequences.
And what about name calling?
I had a girl once tell me a story
about her boyfriend pushed her really hard
because she called his mom the nastiest word in an argument.
Obviously he had no right to touch her
and she could have avoided the name calling also.
The point is practice self control and stop provoking.
Number two, like attracts like.
If you have noticed that all the guys
you have been dating ended up being toxic men,
you are attracted to this and you relate to it.
The way to stop attracting them in the first place,
you need to start changing yourself.
You must change yourself to the point
that you can no longer relate to the drama
and this is how you're not going to be
attracted to the man who bring it.
Number three, do not ignore the red flags.
If you have noticed something off
about someone you are currently dating,
or you have heard about something he did
and you absolutely know it is wrong or morally incorrect,
but you are to choosing to ignore it
in hopes that he will change in future,
well, let me tell you now, that is not going to happen.
Ladies, you cannot enter a relationship
with an idea to change a man.
First, you cannot change him,
and second, he will get turned off
as he will see you as controlling.
Number four, do not be naive.
The world is not a Disney story.
If you have been on a few dates with him
and he has said all the right things
and charmed the hell out of you,
he is putting his best foot forward for you to like him.
And you now, after a few hours of dancing
think he is a love of your life.
Please don't be naive.
Take your time at getting to know him,
get to know the real him by dating him and observing him.
How does he behave in social environment?
Does he have manners?
How does he speak?
Does he take care of you on your usual dates?
If in six months he is still great,
then that is a really good sign.
This is when he might potentially be the love of your life.
Number five, set boundaries.
In dating and relationships,
it's very important to set boundaries
at the very beginning
and not let things that bother you pile up
as this is when you end up exploding
or being taken advantage off.
Ladies, if you do not like something that he is doing,
acknowledge it straight away
and set in a boundary with him,
but set it in in a polite manner, in a logical way.
You're setting in the boundary.
There is no need to come across angry or uptight.
There are plenty of ways to set in boundaries
in a lighthearted way that will grab his attention much more
and he will respect you for it.
I have an amazing video about how to set in boundaries
in the relationship that you can find
just by following the link right here.
Ladies, if you want to avoid bad treatment
you need to educate yourself
on manipulative strategies that people use on each other.
Please remember knowing all of this information,
but not applying it is same as not knowing
and for the manipulative strategies that guys play on women,
I have an incredible video for sale
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