Heya playas, I'm sure you're wondering why she's here, so I'm gonna tell you what that's
all about.
You see a lot of people have submitted relationship questions to me and I figured, you know I
could give my thoughts on relationship questions but that's kind of one sided.
So I decided to reach out to someone who I felt can give a lot of good advice and that's
where Adonica comes in.
The very first question is, why are guys shy?
This is The Josh Speaks.
You're watching The Josh Speaks.
I feel like everybody can be kind of shy sometimes actually.
Like I don't feel that it's targeted specifically towards guys that are shy and girls are all
of a sudden outgoing and bold and brazen.
Some guys particularly, probably insecurity.
That's where shyness stems from, being judged, fear of unacceptable, fear of being rejected.
Is it possible for a girl to feel rejected because she's not approached and things like
that by guys?
Oh of course, ha ha.
Yea.
If you're a girl and you're going out and you get all dressed up and you're looking
as hot as can be and there's guys there that you would totally be into but nobody's approaching
you, you kind of feel like, what, what's going on?
The shy guys need to maybe break out of that and start trying to be a little more outgoing.
It could also be social conditioning due to the fact where guys feel like they can't be
outgoing with all of their emotions so they shy away from that and they keep it more inside
because guys have to be macho.
Now when approaching a girl like I said, you know, best way to go about it, compliments
are always nice but tasteful compliments.
Something like you would look good, on my dick.
Yea, no.
Don't do that.
How could a girl tell right off the bat whether a guy is confident and just keeping to himself
versus being shy and keeping to himself?
The shy guy is gonna be sitting kind of like, it's all in body language.
You can tell, shy you're like.
The mysterious guy is looking at you but he's not saying anything.
The mysterious guy tells the bartender "Order her a drink" but doesn't say anything after
that.
He'll leave without saying anything.
Do you think that there are any real external factors or is it all internal?
It's all internal.
If you're pushing it like oh, well.
What if she doesn't like me, you, you don't have enough confidence in yourself.
Half of the fun in anything is just trying.
And seeing where you can go with it.
You gotta make mistakes sometimes.
Exactly.
Take chances.
You gotta make a lot of mistakes in life.
But you won't know until you take chances and make mistakes.
Girls that are shy, it could be upbringing, um, I feel a lot of it is uh, physical insecurities.
My tits are smaller than hers and he's looking at her and he's not looking at me and if I
go over there and talk to him he's just gonna think I'm weird and I'm not hot enough.
That's where girls come down with being shy.
Guys will self reflect rather than say "Oh my god, everyone is better than me."
They'll simply say "Oh my god, I'm not good enough".
You can take one medium looking girl, put her in a room and then put a bunch of random
regular guys in there, she's gonna get approached by everybody.
Of course, the princess effect kicks in whether the girl thinks wow I'm hot shit because everyone
is talking to me.
Even if you did have the hugest tits in the world and the nicest ass and flat abs, it's
never going to be enough.
So just start learning how to love yourself.
Let's say, you're a girl for example, right?
For example?!
For example.
You see a guy who you think is really attractive but you see that he's shy, do you think then
that it's possible for a girl to break that guy out of his shyness?
Um, if I saw a guy out wherever I was that was 100% gorgeous, and he was just really
shy like, afraid to talk to me.
I'd talk to him.
It's worth investing some time into but if it's not going anywhere then he's just a really
hot boring person.
If you're standing in the corner and you see a girl you like, what is the first step to
get over that shyness?
First step away from where you're at towards the girl.
You have to get your feelings hurt, you do.
And you have to know what it tastes like and you have to know how to handle it.
You have to actually get out there and go and you have to be confident.
You have to like who you are, don't be a complete douche.
And don't use cheesy pick up lines.
There goes half my material.
As always guys, love and peace.
Peace.
Like this video if you've ever broken out of your shy zone before.
Leave a comment letting me know some of your tips on how to battle shyness.
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I totally thought you were going to say Adonica's tits.