jessica henriquez wrote the great peace and salon where she talks about how she
depicts purity pledge which is a teenager anish actually waited until
marriage to loser virginity notion that made really young she was twenty years
old
and she married her high school sweetheart
and uh... before she got married all they would really do is maybe some heavy
petting but they would actress and she said that she liked kissing him um...
and down to zero four three of their
it's such a funny thing we will just people and i was like this when i was
ever to some degree two
so i don't have been created sped up and i've been wrong about that
but have you had
like god is looking down on your part of severe rub up against what ok but don't
take offense auxiliary with this
building that's how it works
if any report while you know we've talked about how ob alter religious
girls world like guys in the back door
and i've got scared like compromise which is the best certificate
like it and picture of the day delivery down like
uh... you got me on that one rabbi that loophole covered a lot to do i know you
know about going to go
so how can that man her high-school sweetheart any oceans really looking
forward to the day and then on the day of our wedding she got really sick she
started bombing it was because she was
you know excited or or or nervous about you know reading her bowels or anything
you know winking at her and i could add killed and that is that we like
his of those are all over our about the candidate
the easy way out the laureate remaining super uncomfortable it of course
primaries when she got married so young is because she took the fury pleasure
she's like they can't wait anymore let's not sites
so anyway com on their wedding night actually mentioned how to get into like
this like negligent thing
you know they're about to have sex which you feel sick jurors something she
doesn't want to do it pregnant she doesn't feel like it's right
and they finally do you have sex and she didn't enjoy she says the following
three minutes later when he finished he appeared please with himself
and i was glad that it was our humble way no liquor
okay event and i have a bad guy but i don't believe it
so first of all
you to use this guy like three years
he put up with it when he should know
which later ship i sharper than and then now they he's finally gets to have says
first let's try to get out of it and i
of corporal icy come on man
and instead of all the smoke three minutes later or you got
demerits of late so she's making fun of them in a sense like and i didn't get
anything out of it well
maybe should assess something i think i think that she
wrote the article in
the wrong way and the reason why i say that is because like i'd emailed her
uh... and i i want to get a sense of who she really is because the way she wrote
the article you're right a it makes it seem like she is putting him down
needlessly abut in reality you know in in my back and forth with her she said
look he wasn't in could inconsiderate and he wasn't the bad guy but the
reality was she was twenty years old and she was a burgeoning right
self it seems like she gave up on their sex life in the very beginning but the
reality is
after they had bad sex for the first time she didn't know what good sex lies
she didn't know how to communicate about what she wanted because she had export
sexually
well look i agree with her on that i agree with her did uh... you know
remaining aversion to right is a disastrous idea
it is much more likely to lead to a quick divorce
on the substance like we were there
but the more extreme writes the less i had said to be forever
she feels the way that she does it's because you have an export anything when
it comes to your sexuality and you get married
and you know she talks about how she was homeschooled from like second to ninth
grade and that you know her her family really pressured her into you buying
into this whole purity pledged and it was peer pressure which which made her
hold onto that pledge
is that a lot of her friends
i didn't follow through with the pledge that they made but she was kind of
stubborn about it she said no i made this promise i'm really gonna stick to
it and ended up really hurting her marriage so they were together for about
past six months
and then she couldn't take any more
they kept having sex she didn't enjoy she didn't let me read you some like
somebody dropped in on this one
occasions is that as it uses robotic chain for moving on
i got a urinary meaning like from him to getting married vis a communities is
another urinary tract infection on the same day of our honeymoon
i sighed in relief when the doctor told me that should not engaging in sexual
activity
until i'd finished antibiotics
bike okay like etc another my feeling is another thing to the house mike todd
sorry that you have to a blogger
well we are
quietly you've got an year and gotten away three years i have a problem now
why you think that she is like trying to throw her ex-husband under the bus
that's not what this is really about it was more about her feelings about their
sex life
she'll enjoy sex because she didn't know what sex was or what he's or that's what
she said seven days later my wife who do business in the oval silver drummer
close them up
my mind signature can assume notice that during those few
minute intervals of sex began it was among the most beautiful in the rules
sax
of my mind was focusing something else anything else
she went on to say this was not lovemaking there is no by no se kabhi
this was not amazing sex sells promise from the pulpit so this is this
appointment three to four times a week
and she goes i think you can say about all my guy like
uh... it was like
i was reading from a grocery list
citizens trying not to pass it on the sex in any way shape because it's not
that there was something wrong with her battle and fight in fact that we missed
at this point
he was in a virgin when they got married right not he was already experienced so
she was under the impression that he knew what he was doing
but since she hadn't experienced it before she thought she was broken but
there was something wrong with heart which is why she couldn't enjoy it
another thing that she mentioned was the fact that
before they got married of course like they're kissing and that they're doing a
little heavy petting because that's all they have right after they get married
he said he's been waiting so long to have sex with her
and he doesn't buy passes all of the foreplay all the kissing all the passion
and you know when you don't have any effect seasonal right for the sax
frozen enjoyed that
it's not it's not like she's trying to say like all everything was wrong with
him for four point of the piece was to say look
saving it until marriage
might work for some people but for a lot of people to not a good idea because
it's important to the exporters sexuality
know what you like prior to finding a partner that's of society and i come
back to an issue says afterwards when she got out of the marriage
kidwells images like are that i started to apartments and as i did know reading
but you know my second there was also right
if that was by its up with a had offered to replicate the
but it seems to me this is like how
unload the baghdad's will give it to him on the first night
baghdad was really nice to meet
and listen to me it would have said to be put three pop in the years
why buses balls every single night all that'd reinvented how you feel like
and i did having sex with a and i was just thinking about gross raising yadda
yadda and of course is that they are not married o why are you planning at this
time above open for business
so i felt bad that i got up and i can understand why you feel bad for the guy
but i'd like you just weird that you got that perception because when i was
reading it i didn't feel like she was putting him down at all
right i got the sense that she made a horrible mistake she was really in
experience making the sex which he got married
issue me a horrible mistake because you know it cause a lot of pain and
suffering within her relationship drop it
i would go just the system
towards the session
justice jackson
very important vote here
what's your thoughts that use look do you should see what he said
he she kiltie na
visiting them
dad any moment
to her husband
the that the basis hope that you know
and was not guilty
okay nursing watches this i mean there's i think there's more to it a lot of
times
than there are no time limit it just kind of national interest in our you
started their space suits the screws were in most of the stars to about who
did that's
units that's terrific um... general board
fanny it's not our faith in history away and everyone knows who may be the first
time record i think i think as it seemed like the intentions of the
wasn't to say cartoons alcohol regarding what
didn't seem like she moves in
he was such a bad guy he was on a emotionally abusive
not really a person ever says that in
she defended some of the ways of satara
and i don't think that's the case of the article and in fact i agree with the
intention of our okay
but as i'm reading the article will certainly some of the sky
and i feel like she was very
she played with
issues like it
generator that i have a rich can teach the carrying pledged to you know if you
helpline cars that okay
i liked his diet and some sort of moron who can't make decisions for himself he
was a relationship with her she is that
i'm not going to have sex until i get married
and when where young we're not gonna get maritime soon so you have a decision to
make and you decided to stay with her ida okay dot so you know n_f_o_ pointers
i will government bonds
doped
dole beloved says all you know what to say it ever three years
while we do have eli pending in making out with three long years
but is it that it will be great
always shipment date that the hell out of that relationship
don't put all without bullshit which indicated that she'll leave you and then
betting the first as she sees ok it's a caramel mistake
don't make that mistake
well but that's a nice not plan from the beginning instead of making her seem
like she's a horrible banks what you say hindus it's a bad idea to wait until
marriage to have sex
that something that we can both agree on but instead he lied optional horrible
proceedings maa gold jesus but when i win over the last month was a margin
thank you secretary aspin had
i'll just have to covers of the day i was a radiohead as a kleenex while we
were having sex hardik dot denied ever tried
and that this is a gut feeling for both of you and and and we had this whole
excess of the
and then wedding et cetera that quite a bit late immediately and i don't have
any problem with that
but might want to talk with a guy did not want i'd be good for your ego it
sounds like a personal problems with that night
that is fair
okay but those who did it but it did not the thing is
the gardening levant unceasing soon like the leaning towards
this woman all disguise so much
and if you have a good sexually set the time when each other to eat
to enjoy yourselves
i feel like i was just goes to accurately see strong lawyer blue balls
maybe she had
the woman it probably won't
purple designer
answered kids complex
you wanted to let you know what their one once the
intensifying the is is that
is not the fuck is the one in that this is like
blew out windows something
this man and a half
so i think
armando it and decide whether or not is that the guy is expecting much workers
by by the way
women to be born in the two
that we've had a consistent in the form of one of them a
them
what was going to be doing right now distracts isn't selected as it's not
like changing it's not
fuckin crazy shit even when it's good it's not like
haven't been the most times with it
it's like but what you think you could have met so if you wait for a while and
then
networks on the was given the admit there's no chemistry that
you sucked maybe grown people feel that that is good maybe guy was wild and
crazy
in the political will go with that so that we all agree on a cooling-off
the don't wait
don't do that it's a bad idea
imbedded in over there about turnout but that g justice for a tremendous amount
of molesting okay probably by him not given or anything
sky was faulty
he has rushed passivity catalonian one investor and a half action and i mean
come on like
is not really carry money in the bus if that's the truth like if he's just like
my mother put it in
mailing a document uniting our active frisch
and in everybody's first-time and everybody's first relationship briefings
here is a police chiefs is little learning experience i would say
man there are some people that use
to have their first learning experience
marriage
and and sometimes it works out and sometimes it doesn't
i think in this case she came to like a harsh realization that it was a good
work out that she needed more experiences
she didn't admit that it was a morning experience she started assigning blame
he was too short and we were compatible or are we would waited too long or jesus
desert grocery list that
killed your daughter jumping
password tied up
commander of the armies of the east rapid city
in the court right now uh... anti-sniping norway transfer but rather
what was the day
he will be the break uh... the that uh... the hundreds of times godson
deciding vote
uh... justice white side
i believe this is my first time really interest in the court that's surely did
under the same
they're both guilty
offer crying saying that as i did not have i don't know much about this case
but i do know that he was not a virgin and she was a virgin so he's guilty
because he opposed her
their first time this was this something special
and stop of for us to marathon
to within our own article had a gun
debate centered on the right way off and i don't know any note he would ask for
like if she wanted something
wishes that you know whatever tomatoes and get out of mister gray whoever that
none of the title they would ask me that i wanted a little gentle or like this or
whatever it is that whatever i have already checked out
something about the high matters relating his father's law if that was
even mentioned it was time for leads accurate that business
it was an article
and she was on tape
she just is to relax and
maybe smoke some weed disrupts because he is putting way too much pressure
deadlock signup and let the best issue have look at the time
the let the people decide birthday
i guess if it's a tie
tigo said not guilty
circle
while that's a big relief you i'm sure
acabo
what i kept in the best for you have anna and they're not on email she wrote
you is i was young
and so i kept i keep one and this is a read the article why didn't you say
something good guy
at least him a chance
is subject to the house
settlement a lesson i'd like this or i'd like to do that because you can read a
lot of last year last year
din
you are the things
what do you think and a chance
and so i'll take that i don't know that first letter of what it is right
but he got they have said that i could play this issue came from but the good
place
it in general as she's trying to teach a lesson that's important issues right
but overall it's a
look bad it's a two-way street so in some ways erin is right
a lot of times if you let women alike ought not dahlia non-business of right
uh... became open speak up
you you can talk to all
all right let's move on to another sorry at fear anger but i know that's not a
puppy angry enough money
at sears and one one
precise looks
let's take a break seriously
that's this the first time severna
i'm actually read it
okay and so tonight u_n_ not is not ban is bullshit
does not mean being a feminazis misses me giving someone credit for putting
herself in a very vulnerable situation
when she talks about the most
personality intimate details of her sex life
apparently she
wong in not communicated
sure but at the same time when you're twenty
here's all in europe virgin and you've watched into american you mean by rain
watched
by releasing your entire life
and if you really really blame her for not knowing what to do or how to handle
it
she said that she felt like she was broken
and he was in a virgin here when he was doing but she had no idea
so she's like what's happening why don't i enjoying that's right
so she's a tough situation and when i read the article honestly i didn't get
the sensations during her acts under the bus
on its own every read article make your own that decision up by
but i feel like nobody ever sticks up for that that right out but i understand
what you're saying my final point is an israeli about one thing for certain
which is that it did take courage for to put herself out there anna wright this
which is deeply personal
mission her own faults and that does take courage
and you have to give her credit for that