Hey welcome back to the Six Figure Mastermind.
Marriane with you here today.
Today, we're talking part 2 on how to become a good public speaker.
So stay tuned.
Now, a good public speaker is what I like to call relevant, okay?
And let me explain to you a little about of what that means to be relevant.
You know, a lot want to get on the stage and they feel this burning inside of them to share
the message with the world.
And then they'll stop because they don't think that they have had a life changing enough
experience to be on stage.
You know, you hear this amazing speakers like Nick Vujicic who...
No arms, no legs, no problems, right?
He is an amazing speaker who is born with without arms and legs and clearly has something
to speak about.
And does so masterfully.
You'll listen to the other speakers who maybe have a skydiving incident where the're shoot
did not open and impacted the earth and lived to tell the tale.
And maybe...
You can think of a hundred incredible life changing stories.
And yet not everyone has experienced that.
You know, I am not going to poo-poo on that and say it's not effective because of course
it is.
Of course there's life changing experiences.
I have a dear friend who's had 3 entire long transplants and who is an opera singer.
She's incredible and delivers a very powerful story.
At the same time, many of us who want to speak on a public stage haven't had an experience
like that.
And while those experiences are valuable and there's massive, massive lessons to be learned
from them.
Maybe it doesn't make sense for everybody.
Maybe it doesn't click for anybody.
Maybe.
The most impactful experience you have had in your life was one like I had.
Just two days ago.
You know, my son, he's 5-years old and he's a brilliant boy.
And even...
More and more often he's coming up to me and saying this mind blowing profound statements.
And this one was just like all the rest.
And he comes out to me and he says, "Mom, you know the movie a little prince where they
all have their own little worlds in the prince's planet.
And the business man has this planet and the sheep herder has her planet.
And all...
The whole planet is just filled of what they love?"
He said, "Mom, I think if you you we're a little prince, I think your planet would be
the work planet.
Because you work a lot."
And I have to tell you that hit me like a ton of bricks.
I am a trainer, I am a speaker, I am a mom, I am an entrepreneur.
I even train and make videos on how to balance work and home life and yet you guys...
This masterpiece's not complete.
I still have days where fall flat on my face.
And that gets to happen.
And I get to learn lessons from that.
And my son was willing and bold enough to share that feedback with me and it took me
completely off guard and it made me stead back and re-evaluate somethings and saying,
"You know what?
I totally get where you're going from."
Now, I share that experience with you for 2 reasons.
One, because it's a relevant experience.
It happened to me literally 2 days ago.
And my son just sharing a simple nugget with me.
Now, I know a lot of you, you're moms just like me.
You have kids who give you feedback and sometimes, it can stop you dead on your tracks.
And that as a masterful speaker is something you can learn a lesson from and share with
your audience.
For me, it was a huge lesson on how my balance is doing.
How am I doing creating a harmony?
How am I doing in my children's lives and creating impact and setting an example for
them?
And for me, that was a big deal.
Was it jumping of a building?
Or was it cliff jumping?
Or was it , you know, almost getting eaten by sharks?
No, it wasn't.
But it was just as deep and just as impactful.
And maybe even perhaps more relevant because so many more of my audience members can relate
to that than can relate to a near death experience.
So, if you want to be a great public speaker, find the lessons in everyday life and stay
relevant.
Things that happened to you 24 hours ago.
Things that happened on a way to delivering your signature presentation.
Find a lesson in it and share with your people.
One of the last things you need to keep in mind when wanting to become a good public
speaker is to get out there and speak.
I know it sounds, like, "Duh?
Of course you want to do that."
But if everyone was.
you know, willing to do it, it wouldn't be doing it.
Not everyone is actually willing to get out there open their mouth and speak in public.
Open your home to people.
Invite them in, tell them you're delivering a presentation.
Start doing Facebook lives.
You know, I offer challenge people all the time.
Do 50 Facebook lives in one month.
That's more than 1 a day.
They're not have to be long.
Just share your message for 2 minutes, for 3 minutes, for 5 minutes.
Share something that's relevant that's going on in your world.
In fact, if you want to challenge, I going to challenge you to do a Facebook live based
on something that happened to you in the last 24 hours that you ;earned a lesson from.
Get on Facebook and share the message.
Because if you want to be a public speaker, you;re going to have to to get in front of
the people.
You''re going to have let go of being afraid of being in Facebook lives.
You're going to being afraid of being afraid of speaking people in your home.
You're going to have to let go of being afraid of being in front of people exposing the vulnerable
parts of your life and being okay with it.
Because like I said, if you want to be an informational speaker, that's fine.
You can get that anywhere.
Anyone can find that anywhere.
But if you want to offer a real transformation, become not just a good but and excellent public
speaker, you've got to do perfect practice.
Which means practicing doing what you love and practicing it perfectly.
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All of that aside, I want to know if you are going to be my next public speaker.
You see, I have this classroom that I call pressure cooker.
And if public speaking is your scariest thing to do, then my classroom is the scariest place
on earth.
But that's exactly why we do it.
Because I want you to be superb public speaker.
And if that's you, hit me up in the description.
There's a link in there that you can click on that will hook you up with me and my team.
So you and I can have a conversation about what it looks like to get you on the stage.
I'll see you tomorrow.