(man speaks foreign)
(slap)
- And he deserved that.
- He deserved that.
(woman speaks foreign)
(theme music playing)
(slow upbeat music)
- Hello. (chuckles)
- Hello.
- Hi.
- Hello. (chuckles)
- Hey. (chuckles)
- Yes I am.
(old movie projector revving)
(woman speaks Spanish)
(man speaks Spanish)
- That's fact
(laughing) (both argue in foreign language)
That's my breakup I don't want
to do it over the phone
(continue to argue in foreign)
(Hyshler growls)
- Don't break with someone
like when they are all hold up
doing like a big thing like their birthday or an event.
(man speaks foreign language)
(sad ominous music)
- Shit
- I wasn't that cruel though
that's kinda fucked up. (laughs)
(woman speaks in foreign language)
- Let's go home girl he does not love you.
(woman continues to speak in foreign language)
(man speaks in foreign language)
(hums)
- How is she laughing? (woman laughing)
Now she's crazy
- Oh shit
(woman continues talking in foreign)
(Hyshler sighs)
(man speaks in foreign language)
(woman replies in foreign language)
(man continues speaking in foreign)
- Also like don't cheat
(man speaks foreign language)
(slap)
and he deserved that.
- He deserved that.
(woman speaks foreign language)
- Why is my heart beating fast
as if I just through a break up.
(door slams)
(old movie projector revving)
- Damn
- [Man] All right - It really do be like that
(sighs)
For my personal experience I actually kind of went
through the same thing except I was the one
breaking up with him and he actually also said I love you
and just said okay cause its weird
really dating for three months
I was like that's way too quick
and then I ended up breaking up with him in my driveway.
- I really don't understand why someone
would cheat on someone like just break up with them
if you are gonna cheat save some hurt feelings.
- I know many of people who have broken up
with on their birthday or like went over to a party
that they were thrown and they were like hey
I'm not to actually party I'm here to breakup with you
catch you later have a fun rest of your night.
- I was in a relationship we were just both really insecure.
We constantly weren't trusting each other
and so I'll never forget it I got an alert on my phone.
It was a really long text but to sum it all up.
It said it was really fun, the memories that we did have
but I can tell that you are not
where you want to be as far as this relationship
with me and I feel the exact same way.
And then followed up with but we can still be friends.
Over text, a text and in that moment
I was just trying to find some resolution
to where we could still make it work
but it just we weren't compatible with one another yap.
(old movie projector revving)
(upbeat music)
(cross talks)
It just looks very chaotic
(crowd continue chatting)
whatever is about to brew up.
- You dad said I should go with you, you know
- Oh its that so.
- Hey hey
- Hey
- Hey who's this guy.
(barks)
- Hey
- Wait this is your boyfriend?
- Yeah Miguel relax this is Robbie.
He works with my dad.
- Oh with your dad okay that makes a lot of sense.
- Red flag immediately.
- What is this supposed to mean?
- Red flag
- Jealousy is tough man-
- Wait have you been drinking
- That's sometimes its the biggest reasons
why people break up.
- You don't get to turn this on me
I texted and called you all day
and you couldn't answer me back once?
- No I literally couldn't
- Oh
- My mum took my phone
- Oh that's so convenient.
- Hey, hey men-
- And it's get outta here (body thuds)
- Dude stop it. - Not a fight look oh my God.
- Hey man you wanna try that again
- Let's try it again.
- Don't
(smack) (Sam grunts)
(thud)
- Sam I'm sorry
- Oh shit.
- Hey asshole what the hell was that?
- Jeez
- Rich I was right about Cobra Kai
- Oh she's pissed
- Good luck at the tournament I won't be there.
- Sam
(Miguel groans)
Sam wait
(footsteps fading)
- Hey
(sad ominous music)
- Jeez
(engine revving)
(old movie projector revving)
(Lacey disgusted)
- Girl if my boyfriend pushed me too.
I will break up with him don't put up
with the abusive toxic sedutes not worth it guys.
- Anytime a man is trying to tell
who you can and cannot talk to
or who you cannot spend time with.
Is always a no no.
- When people are insecure about themselves
and when they don't feel completely secure
in the relationship it leads to them being jealous.
If you are not confident
and you have that jealousy then relationships
are tainted and that's something
that you have to fix if you wanna to save that relationship.
(old movie projector revving)
- I am not breaking your heart.
- You definitely are.
(water rippling)
- Why would like someone like me?
- See you go doing that self depreciating thing.
- It's deprecating.
- Come on words.
- Do you that self deprecating thing
where you think it's about you.
- What you are saying is I'm done liking you.
The thing is I have excellent taste.
- He sounds like he is gaslighting him
low key. (laughs) - You are very confident.
- I am very confident - I don't know if that's just me but-
you know most people find that attractive.
- Oh boy.
- I'm suspicious of confident people.
- I am too.
- Whoa I'm confident enough to be okay with that.
- Well I am not confident okay I have never
have been and I have a brain injury
and I have done this terrible things.
That I am never gonna get away from.
I am not a good person and you have this
like king of the world joke thing.
So I'm never gonna win an argument
with you about why we shouldn't be together.
You are gonna have to just take my word for it.
(sighs)
(birds cooing)
I'm gonna walk away now.
Please don't follow me.
- That goes for Instagram as well don't follow me.
(old movie projector revving)
- I know exactly what that's like
to want to be around someone to want their energy.
To be with someone and you can see that disconnect.
And even if you try to make it better
or even if you are trying to reason
with the person they have kind of already
made it up in their mind that they are done.
That sucks , this therapy.
(laughs)
- I've definitely been there I feel like
a lot of people have been there.
Like you don't really understand
why someone likes you.
You know after coming out and being able to date
whoever I want it was really hard for me
to understand why people liked me.
'Cause I was like do you actually like me are you sure?
Are you sure, sure?
- I've been that person be like why are you with me?
Like I don't understand, I don't feel like
I'm that good for you or like you are so much better
you deserve so much better you know.
I'm in a relationship right now
I catch myself saying that all the time too.
Throughout my life I've struggled with depression.
During this mindset where you feel so helpless.
You just can't see yourself being so blessed.
So sometimes yo try to run away from it.
Sometimes it's easier than facing what you truly
think about yourself.
- Actually my friend told me these
when I went to her crying about this breakup.
She said it will all make sense in three months.
Just give it time really give it time.
It will all make sense in three months.
- Time give it time.
- Be okay knowing that you are enough.
- You will find someone else
who you will think the same way about
but it will be *10 *20.
It will be so much better.
- For all the emotions you know you can feel sad
you can feel angry then you can like go like do
whatever you want you know.
Eat all the ice cream and watch all the Netflix.
Yeah.
(old movie projector revving)