we talked ourselves into a lot I'm tired
I'm so tired I'm so tired you keep
saying that
you're gonna live a tired life you don't
wanna be married to that person you
don't want to be a friends with that
person you don't wanna be led by that
person who's constantly tired so
actually the people we really admire are
not tired people they're actually
energized people who love and have
energy to give and value to give if
you're not living it don't shout it from
the rooftop
everyone does not have to believe what I
believe but I want everyone to feel like
they matter
they have purpose they have someone who
loves them we listen to them care for
them before you know it you know we
could have a lot less lonely people in
the world and that would be pretty
awesome
share with people what's really changed
your life and what you're really living
out and your words will have a lot more
power I actually think we're suffering
from a lack of love on a grand scale on
an epic scale it might be the greatest
epidemic in the world maybe it always
has been
I think things horrific things like
racism are symptomatic of the fact we
don't feel loved we don't feel like we
matter we don't feel like we're valued
and so we devalue each other and we
fight and we war most people don't say
what they want in life where they want
to go who they want to be they take it
as it comes which is really disturbing
and sad but it's true wait like for
instance we take friendships as they
come we just like well I guess we kind
of met and you like juice boxes and I
like juice boxes so let's just hang out
and like you know talk about Capri Sun
or whatever and I think we ought to be
more intentional and and be honest what
do I want what kind of friends do I want
what kind of life do I want and then I
think speak that out first of all like
declare that be honest recently I did an
exercise again back to our team and they
said why do we exist Judah why do you
exist why do we exist not the answer you
think you're supposed to give but the
answer like the truth of what you want
and why you exist and creating a safe
space with the people that you
intentionally have have chosen your life
to go all right we're gonna like we're
gonna get bare-bones honest here this is
actually what I want in life this is
actually why I exist and then and then
we've got to like hold each other
accountable to that like bro you can't
wake up at 11 p.m. every day if that's
what you want and I think there's a
that's what I'm a big proponent of
community I don't think people can be
who they're supposed to be without
community and community doesn't have to
be 10,000 people it can be five it can
be three it can be the right people not
just a bunch of people but the right
people you know it's been said show me
your friends I'll show you your future
it gets to it's real I can tell you
where you're going right now by the
people you're hanging out with on a
consistent basis
we are you know so off on our own worst
enemies right we we keep ourselves you
know off the stage
you know for fear of bad reviews and
don't even realize that you know in the
process we're you know forgetting how to
dance and losing the joint it right and
it's just such a shame we're all masters
of our own universes right alone in our
own worlds and I certainly think
everybody you know should figure it out
you should figure it out for yourself
because time is going to go by either
way and you could live a life of
happenstance of reaction you know or you
can take some time to figure out how you
want to spend your time who you want to
be who you want to be at work you know
you want to be as a parent who you want
to be as a spouse and on and on and on
and and you know you can you can try to
be that person you try to live that way
so that's what I have in mind when I say
you know you you really should define
your success or purpose and labor
towards it everything is a choice
every moment of your life and is a
choice how do you want to spend that
moment who you want to be it is not the
circumstances we confront that dictate
the lives we experience it just cannot
be there are counter examples all over
the place
choose to be happy literally in every
moment and again I'm not saying it's
easy again and I'm not you know I'm not
saying so it's easy for me but it's
certainly a worthwhile endeavor I mean
you know you spill on yourself or you
you knock something over or you know
you're late for a meeting or you know it
can derail you it can be you know
something quote-unquote awful or you
mean while most of the world is worried
about you know health care and food and
clothing but you know or you can choose
to laugh about it and you can choose to
have fun with it you can choose to let
it go and again every I think every
moment is
you know an amalgam of precisely those
choices and I think it behooves us to
spend some time thinking about our
answers you know you're the master of
your reality and you know once you buy
that once you're willing to take
responsibility for the fact that you are
literally creating the life you are
experiencing the reality your reality is
your creation and not enough time on
this moment right now what is my best
next step what can I do right now to
make progress and you know the truth of
the matter is the world changes you know
a million times a day you're gonna
change a million times a day who knows
what's going to happen on the journey
from you know from A to Z just focus on
getting form A to B and get that done
and we'll worry about C disease later
every single you know human being every
human faces their own discrete
constellation of a challenge as part of
the human condition
there's nothing special or unique in
facing these these big challenges or
obstacles but how we handle it and how
we choose to look at them that makes all
the difference in the world life is
choice and I said if you keep if you
tell yourself you're gonna live this
small unremarkable pathetic life and
you're you know not gonna love or
respect yourself and you know you're not
gonna find a mate nor you can make that
happen for yourself or you can choose to
have a different life
there's one way you should see life life
is an opportunity you have this
opportunity for reason that reason is to
succeed succeed far past fears past
doubts pass your insecurities empowering
yourself toward the finish line now is
the time to make this opportunity your
opportunity is more than this
it's your potential to succeed use your
potential use it as your superpower
because that's what it is power power to
succeed to achieve how badly do you want
something how much do you want it
there's only one way to get it it's to
work hard motivate your life toward a
future where you can succeed where you
can achieve
how much do you appreciate this
opportunity how much do you want this so
respect the path you're on take the
journey become the path make this define
you your future relies on this so be
this opportunity take the risk and
become the person you want to be you're
there you're present so act like it
be prepared to struggle but more
importantly be prepared to succeed today
will not be the day you fail today is an
opening the opening to make it take the
path you're on the path all you have to
do is take a step
close your eyes and imagine a reality
reality but with everything you've ever
wanted
surrounded by everything you've ever
wanted to achieve believing that you
have it knowing that you have all this
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this is how your mindset should always
be to know that you have this potential
within you that this picture isn't so
far from reality that this picture can
be executed your potential is your power
and this power can strengthen your
progress the progress you need to
achieve you have this so use this grasp
this opportunity take this now to make
it past your imagination and make this
your reality work harder than you ever
have nothing nothing comes easy so what
are you going to do how are you going to
change your life can be so much more
than what you think it is right now time
is power you have more so much more than
this use this you have this grow and
strengthen your potential strengthen
your power
think about your success like you have
it you will have it believe you have it
then you'll have the chance you will
have the opportunity what have you done
today what did you do yesterday and what
are you going to do tomorrow life is
fueled by progress fuel your life to the
next level think about your life it's a
place you live and will always live so
why now are you sabotaging your future
you need to make your life something
something better than just some where
you live so what are you going to do
today you can make a change little
switches actions that can make you
define you wake up an hour earlier
replace your sandwich with a salad these
changes will become habits habits that
can transform your life forever you will
become a better person you are the
better person all you have to do is
stand up to that role stand up for
yourself and start living your life for
what it is an opportunity an opportunity
to succeed to be a leader to have power
and control over the decisions you make
you have the potential all you have to
do is use it spark your potential drive
your motivation be creative and design a
life where you see yourself succeeding a
life where you can respect and have the
confidence in the choices that you make
so work on be strong
have courage start the journey and
succeed