- I have been broken up with a couple of times.
- Lots of times.
- I have never been broken up with.
- I have been broken up with.
- No, yeah, I've been totally (laughs) broken up with.
I think most of the times I've done the breaking up,
but this last one, I got broken up with,
and it was really devastating.
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What's the worst way you've been dumped?
- I was pretty convinced this guy and I were dating,
and then he told a mutual friend of ours
that we were just friends and he was sorry
I misunderstood the situation,
and he never talked to me about that.
- So he was driving from New York,
preparing to break up with me,
and I was lighting candles in the hotel room
and filling the tub with bubble bath
and buying his favorite beer,
so we both had very different ideas
of how that night was going to end.
We both had to stay in that hotel that night
after he broke up with me.
- We were together for four and a half years
and he broke up with me over the phone.
- The shittiest way someone has broken up with me
is by showing up on a red carpet with another girl.
Yep.
What's the worst way you have dumped someone?
- I didn't make it clear that I was breaking up with him,
so I told him that I wanted to slow down
and to take a step back to being friends,
and I thought that he knew what that meant,
and then, a week or two later,
he was like, "You want to be done dating.
"I wish you'd just said that," and it was really bad.
- This one time I was talking on the phone
with a boyfriend, and he was telling me (laughs)
he just got a power drill and he kept whirring it
in the background, and at some point I said,
"If you do that one more time, I'm hanging up
"and I'm never speaking to you again," and he did it,
and I (laughs) hung up and that was our breakup.
I refused to talk to him (laughs) ever again.
- I basically was running after him,
and he thought that I wanted to get back with him,
and instead, I broke up with him,
and I took the keys to my apartment from him,
and it was really bad.
I think he was in a bad situation in his life,
and I dumped him at his worst,
and I think for him, it was like everything was crumbling
and the last thing that was going to fall was me.
How do you know when a relationship should end?
- When they can't laugh when things go wrong,
and I know that not all situations when things are going bad
can you laugh at, but I think that it's a sign
when instead of finding a way to kind of bond together
against whatever the bad thing is that happened,
you turn on each other.
- You stop getting excited to see them,
and that's kind of when you know
you're really not interested.
- It's very intangible,
but when somebody just doesn't like you
for you anymore, it's over.
- I think it's really hard.
I mean you just see a person that you're really close to
and you love, and you try to overlook a lot
of things all the time, and I don't really know.
I don't really know.
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