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This is Tripp from TrippAdvice.com.
Today, I have a very special guest.
This is Amanda Cerny and she has been on the covers of Fitness magazine.
She's one of the top viners.
Is that the way to say it, viners?
Yes.
Check her out.
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You can find her on Vine and Twitter.
She does all these hilarious videos.
We're talking today about how to be attractive to women.
Off the top of your head, give us the first thing that comes to mind in terms of what
a guy can do to be more attractive to a woman?
I would say, have a good outfit going on.
Or just have yourself put together.
You groom yourself.
That's important.
Number one.
Let's go deeper into that.
You said, groom yourself and be more put together.
What's some practical examples, practical advice, you can give these guys to be able
to do that?
If you're going out in public and you have your hair all crazy.
Like, you haven’t shave in a year.
To me, that's important.
If you don't care about yourself, why should I care?
You know, the same?
Exactly.
It's like, guys who are going out, doesn't matter if it's at night or during the day,
always make sure that you're put together because it's those little things.
I mean, I even say to the guys, one of the things you should pay attention to, in terms
of your fashion is your shoes.
Yeah.
The shoe is such a little detail that most guys look over, but it's that little detail
that will subconsciously tell a woman, oh, I actually care about my lifestyle.
I care about what I look like.
If a guy pays attention to those little things, that also shows that he's paying attention
to all the other little things in his life.
Like you said, that makes it so you're more put together.
What is another tip for guys in terms of being more attractive to women?
I would say, of course, personality.
Sounds cliche, but it's true.
Some people can be just so in their own shell and makes you very bland when that happens.
Say, you go out and talk to somebody and you're all excited to meet them, I'm Amanda, nice
to meet you and the person's shy on their own world.
It's nice when somebody is just themselves, open, willing to talk and carry on the conversation.
It's fun.
I don’t know, I personally like somebody that can make me laugh.
That's part of my world.
It's important to me.
I mean, if you can make me smile, you're in.
Besides that, what is one of the most important parts of the guy's personality that you're
looking for?
Thoughtful.
Like the guy that you're going to date?
Thoughtful.
He has to be very thoughtful.
That’s a new one.
I've never heard that one.
Thoughtful.
What are some examples of being thoughtful?
For instance, I had this horrible carry on bag, I was walking around one on a date with
this guy, but I had my carry on bag with me because I'm always traveling all the time.
That is, I gotta move this to my other hotel room.
I'm lugging this thing around.
Did this a couple of times and I just put it in my hotel room and went on the date.
He remembered that and he remembered the purse I had to.
When we did on dates down the line, he surprised me with a roller, like this awesome carry
on bag that I love now, and it matches my purse.
Like, this guy thought of everything.
He thought, this girl is killing herself, breaking her back walking around the airport
with this bag.
I'm going to help her there.
She travels all the time, so she'll love this and matches her other stuff.
She's a girl.
She'll be all excited about that and it was thoughtful.
That is going a step further.
That's you being the exception to all the other guys because you're taking it a little
step further, paying attention to those details.
I love it.
Yeah, and even some guys are like, I'm not going to go buy this girl a piece of luggage
that match her purse.
It's expensive.
I don't want to do that.
But just in comparison, say the guy bought me a diamond ring.
I wouldn't be way more impressed with that piece of luggage than that diamond ring that
he could have bought me just because the thought behind it.
I'm not saying that because it has obviously is stuck in my head, and then I'm telling
you guys now.
Those little details really do stick with us.
I guess another big thing would be to have a little bit of, I hate using this word, but
swag.
A little broad.
I know what you mean.
Yeah.
Let's go deeper, what the swag look like to you?
It's a sense of confidence.
I think it's very important, just being like shirt not overly confident because that can
be a little much.
Like guys are walking with their muscle shirts coming up.
Like, yeah, this is me.
That's a no.
Just be sure of yourself and don't double guess, like question things that you're telling
me just because you're afraid I might not like it.
This could be another topic, but don't try to please me with your answers.
That's a good one.
Don't try to please you with your answer.
It's almost like don't be too agreeable with everything you say?
Yeah.
For sure.
I know.
I don't like that either.
Yeah, I totally agree with you.
I've met so many guys, that would just be like, for example, this is random.
I hate pineapple.
I love pineapple.
Pineapple is awesome.
Then they'll be like, I like pineapple too.
Pineapples, yeah.
You just said you hate a pineapple?
Then they're like, no, I like it.
I’m like, okay.
I think what we're saying here is, if you are too agreeable with a woman, or you're
just doing whatever she says, then you're actually not showing your personality.
You're just creating this fake, whoever it is.
Yeah, fake persona, to be able to attract that girl, when she really just wants to be
talking to you.
She wants to be talking to a human, a person who has all kinds of interests and all kinds
of opinions, and getting to know you rather than just some guy who's obviously faking
it and just being agreeable, or disagreeing with everything that you're disagreeing and
having this fake personality.
Don't be afraid of what type of guy you are.
Just be confident with who you are.
If you're faking it in the beginning anyway, it's gonna be hell down the line with this
girl.
I'll figure she's gonna find out who you really are.
Then it's not going to work.
It’s a waste of your time.
Yeah, absolutely.
I've been almost sum everything up.
What I think I'm hearing is like, at the end of the day, you got to be you.
You got to be authentic and be the best version of yourself that you can be and be real.
Meanwhile, you got to work on some of the other things.
Like being thoughtful, paying attention to detail, being confident and being sure of
yourself, but also working on grooming and working on your appearance.
If you can combine all of those, you will at this point have a much much higher success
rate of attracting more women into your life and maybe even women like Amanda Cerny.
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