I want to get a divorce.
Well, this is a major--
[sobbing]
I have a tough question for you.
If there is no attraction, how did you guys have sex?
We'll just skip that one.
Well, Kate can answer if she wants to.
I think he is doing it because he knows that I want to,
but we don't really--
he's just doing it to make me happy.
Do you want to stay married, or do
you want to get a divorce?
I think--
I'm not sure if this could get to a point
where we would both have what we need in a marriage.
I think it would be best for us to go our separate ways.
It's not healthy to be so emotionally drained
all the time.
And I think we should get a divorce.
I fight for marriages.
I normally do.
But not this time.
OK, the time has come to tell us what you've decided to do.
At this point, we've decided to get a divorce.
And I think the best decision for us
is to go our separate ways.
What do you think were the biggest
differences between you?
You know, I really, truly think that Vaughn
needs to live some more.
In about five years, he's gonna be a great husband.
[laughter]
For me, definitely it would be chemistry.
I just think a relationship has to have that foundation,
and I felt that we never really were able to create that.
I'm sorry that this didn't work out for the two of you.
I know you both really wanted that.
MONET: We are just in two different places in our lives,
so that's kind of a moment to exhale and be done with it.
Done and done.
Here's the keys.
All right, be safe.
Get home safe.
You too.
Take care.
IRIS: When it comes to my virginity and sex in general,
I feel like Keith has shut down.
Do you want to stay married, or do
you want to get a divorce?
I do want to see where this goes,
so I do want to stay married.
Right now, I do think that we are in different places
individually, and for that reason,
I would like to get a divorce.
IRIS: So I thought that you know,
we both went into this wanting to be married.
For me, I think that experience plays a really big
part in marriage, relationship experience,
and I don't think you have a lot of relationship experience
right now.
Like, I can't change how many relationships
I've been in to distinguish if I am a viable wife or not.
I'm disappointed, a little bit stunned actually,
it's not turning out the way I had hoped.
You know, I really wanted this.
I wanted this so bad, and for then it not to work out,
it's just devastating.
Davina, what is your decision?
My decision is that I want a divorce.
Sean, what is your decision?
My decision is I want a divorce.
Davina, what do you think you learned about yourself
through this process?
I've learned that I need a really strong man.
I'm not a weak person.
I know I'm strong.
There were a lot of times I was told to be
present, jump through hoops.
That wasn't jumping through hoops though, Sean.
I just wanted you to be present.
Well, let me finish speaking, please.
I did come around.
I did become president.
And you didn't know the background of everything
that was going on.
You didn't ask me.
You jumped to judgment immediately, and that hurt me.
For a long time I saw her as almost, in my eyes, egocentric.
Wow, this is the first time I'm hearing this.
Well, by egocentric I mean, just, things
have to go a certain way.
And I guess that's the best way to describe it.
We watched both of you fall apart.
Can you look at yourselves and say, I
fully, fully committed to this?
Probably not.
Well, here we are.
There's been times where I was like,
I just don't like her right now.
I'm so mad, and that the other half my brain's thinking like,
you know, because love's there.
I'm falling for here.
You know that I want to stay married.
You know that's my decision.
I really wanted it to work.
And I feel like pursuing this any further--
that wouldn't be me being true to my-- to my feelings.
I think the best option for us is we get a divorce.
[sighing]
I felt so betrayed and disrespected.
I just-- it's a hard place to come back from.
The emotion underneath, would that be fear,
fear that you can't trust him?
It just-- it doesn't--
it didn't work.
I wish that wasn't the case.
I really do.
To me, anything in life that's worth a damn is difficult.
And it just seems like you're just making excuses.
We did just like, do this whole thing together.
We did.
Ashley wants to stop and have a conversation,
and I'm sure she does.
But there was a lot of time to talk for the last six weeks.
And if there's one silver lining in this part of today,
it's that we're no longer married.
I get to do what's best for me right now.
You know what's best for me right now is to leave.
I cherish you as a person and I cherish you as my husband.
And for that reason, I do not want a divorce.
What frightens me the most is that he's
going to ask for a divorce and that I'll deserve it.
For me, there was a-- there was
a strong feeling that I had that something was missing for me.
I want to get a divorce.
PEPPER SCHWARTZ: This is a major--
[sobbing]
I'll go.
I'm so sorry.
SAM: (SOBBING) Please, oh, please, please, please, just--
I feel terrible.
[sobbing]
Hello.
How are you?
I'm OK.
SAM: Last night I was really sad,
and I left because I was embarrassed.
Well, I just want to say a couple of things.
My intention was to never, ever hurt you.
I do care about you, and I want you to be OK.
I know this is a very--
I am OK.
I know.
You-- it's actually very surprising.
You know, I've been trying to get this boy
to talk to me for weeks, and he finally said how he felt.
Wish he could've warned me a little bit beforehand.
Do you want to stay married, or do
you want to get a divorce?
I do want to stay married to Will.
Will?
So I guess, unfortunately, I would say I want a divorce.
I think that I really tried my best to meet your needs
when it came to communication.
And I think that I failed.
What she can contribute to your life
would be stratospheric.
My best friend, Raven, saw him talking to a girl at a bar,
and then he left with the girl.
I saw your face on these screenshots of messages.
You were asking someone to go on a date.
Can-- can you respond to that?
Yeah, I mean, looking back, I think
I felt we were just friends, but I also was holding out hope.
What kind of constraints or restraint
did you not expect from yourself?
Holding out hope while you're dating?
You set her up to be humiliated.
I don't understand why you're letting yourself off the hook
here.
This is the time for your decision.
Matt, I don't think you, like, put your heart into this
and really gave me your full effort.
I want a divorce.
I think that with everything that we've been through, the--
getting a divorce would be the best option.
Why didn't you walk away when you didn't feel
the spark or the connection?
Because, like, you could've saved
me a whole lot of heartache, because I'm hurting right now.
One thing I've learned through this whole thing
is that maybe I'm not ready for commitment.
I definitely regret doing this, 100%.
That was huge.
I've never acted-- talked to someone like that.
OK, well, let this be-- let this be a standard.
OK.
I'm proud of myself for finally confronting Matt.
It wasn't easy, but it was needed.
I'm really sad that our marriage didn't work,
but I feel more empowered as a result of these eight weeks.
And I do feel stronger.
I deserve true love, and I deserve a good relationship.
I'm going to get through this.