"Accident attorney gets HAMMERED, for her INFIDELITY".
I actually thought I would never be on a forum, but, here I am, sharing my story of my wife of 15 years, who is a prominent accident attorney, who I caught cheating on me with another attorney.
I don't have any kids, she has a daughter from a previous relationship, who shares a place with another woman, my wife never married, and I am in my second marriage, my wife is 46, and I am 48.
She had this attitude, that she was invincible because she was an attorney and the judge would see things her way.
Our bedroom life went straight to zero once I got injured on my job, I work construction, and most of the time our jobs are seasonal, so when work is slow, I have to take odd jobs to make up for the lost wages.
My wife was very supportive and attentive in the beginning, I wasn't mobile as much, and I had to depend on her in the beginning stages after many surgeries, my injury was, I fell from a scaffolding, and broke my left arm, and left leg, and foot.
I was in the hospital for a few weeks and had to have surgery to repair my arm, which they placed a metal rod in it, and in my leg, they had to put a steel plate and 6 screws.
It was a very long process of healing.
I was out of work for almost 2 years.
My wife had to take on a lot more cases because we had bills that still had to be paid.
She started working longer hours, and sometimes she wouldn't come home until late at night, I would already be in bed, because I was on so many different pain medications, that I couldn't stay up later than 9 pm.
She would come home, sometimes she would be in a bad mood, and I would ask her what was wrong, and she would say that she was just tired from working all day.
I started to notice little things that were odd like she would wear this perfume that I had never seen her wear before, and when I would ask her what it was, she would say, "Oh, I just found it at the store, and I liked it, so I bought it."
I also noticed that she was taking more showers than usual, and she started working out more.
I didn't think anything of it, after all, as a prominent accident attorney, she was swamped with accident cases.
When she started her law career, she started out making almost $85,000 a year, now, she has surpassed $150,000 a year, and she has carried the load for us for the last 2 years, I never made as much money as she did, I made pretty decent money, but, nowhere near my wife.
My wife was the first to go to college in her family, and she was the first to become an attorney, and she was very proud of her accomplishments.
I am very proud of her too, but, I started to feel like I was not good enough for her, because I didn't have a college degree, and I felt like she was always working, and I was just sitting at home, not doing anything.
Over the last couple of months, I started noticing she would come home and text on her phone a lot, I really didn't think anything of it, I thought maybe she was talking to one of the other attorneys regarding the case or one of her girlfriends.
One night, when my wife came home from work, we talked for a little bit, then she said she was going to take a shower, and she left her phone on the kitchen counter, I usually don't look at
her phone, but, I did this time, to my surprise I couldn't get in, she had a password on it, my heart started beating fast because she has never had her phone locked the entire time we have been married.
The next day, when my wife went to work, I asked a good friend of mine to come over to my place so I could talk to him, I told him what happened, and he said, if you suspect something, don't make ANY accusations without proof, don't make the mistake I did.
Then he said, listen, if you want, we can put a GPS tracker in her car, to see if she is up to something, or you could hire a private investigator, I told him, NO, I am not hiring a private investigator, I can't afford one.
We agreed on the GPS tracker and decided when she came home, we would do it late at night while she was asleep, well, my friend would install it.
We have a 3-car garage that sits away from the house a little.
A few days pass, and my friend installed the GPS tracker app on my phone, and I didn't notice anything suspicious the first 3 days, she was at work, and the tracker showed her leaving work and coming straight home.
On the 4th night, that's when my suspicions were confirmed, my friend had come over a little after 9 PM, and I made a comment to him that my wife is usually home by now.
The first thing my friend said was, "CHECK THE APP".
The GPS tracker showed that my wife was not at her job, she was in a residential area, in a wealthy neighborhood that I knew she didn't have any business being in.
I told my friend to drive there, we drove around the neighborhood until we saw her car parked in the driveway of a large home, we waited for about 30 minutes, then we saw my wife walking towards the car.
She was carrying a garment bag and a small suitcase, she put them in the trunk of her car, then she got in the car and drove off.
We followed her to a hotel, we waited for about an hour, then we saw her come out of the hotel with a man.
They were laughing and joking, and they all of a sudden kissed each other, my friend who thinks fast on his feet, whipped out his phone and took a photo and a small video clip of them kissing.
He looked over at me and said, I am sorry man, I had tears in my eyes, I was in shock, I couldn't believe what I was seeing.
I told him, it was ok, I needed to see it with my own eyes to believe it.
We sat there and watched as they got in her car and drove off, we followed them to a restaurant, and we watched as they went inside, as they were walking into the restaurant, this man had his hands on my wife's butt.
My friend just shook his head, I was fuming, but, I couldn't do anything, with a bum leg and bum arm from my fall.
I told myself, right then and there I need to get a grip and start taking care of what I needed to, my friend told me, If I needed a place to stay, I can stay with him until I get on my feet again.
As the days went by, my friend and I continued to spy on my wife and get as much video, and photos as we could.
We later found out that the guy she was seeing, is another attorney who works with her, and he is married as well.
But, we both wondered where his wife was, come to find out, his wife is in the hospital FIGHTING covid.
So, my plan was to call an attorney here in Georgia, and he opened my eyes a little, first thing he said to me was, if you file for divorce, and you sleep with your wife AFTER you have filed, you won't get any
alimony, I said to him, why is that, he said, if you sleep with her and you know she has cheated, you will NOT get any alimony, it means you have "FORGIVEN" her!
So, what do you want to do?
I told the attorney to go ahead and start the divorce process, and I would be filing for alimony as well.
I immediately got on the phone with my friend and asked him to meet me at my house to help me pack some things while my wife was at work, she has been coming home late anyway, so, we had time.
I get to my house and my friend is already there, I just took most of my clothes, my computer, and some other odds and ins, and followed him to his place.
16 in the morning, my wife sends me a text and asks where I am, I don't respond, I just let her wonder.
To my surprise, when I didn't respond to her text, she didn't reach out anymore, maybe she knew something was up, I don't know.
The next morning, my attorney calls me and says that my wife will be served with divorce papers soon, and he asked me what my living status was, I told him, that I moved out of the house temporarily and I have NOT slept with my wife since I found out.
Later in the day, my wife calls me, I don't answer, and she left a voicemail, asking me to please call her, she is worried about me, I am thinking, BS, she isn't worried about me.
I simply called her back and told her, I knew she has been cheating on me, and I filed for divorce, she was blown away, and she denied it, of course, I told her I had proof and hung the phone up.
Over the next few weeks, my wife was served with divorce papers, she was highly upset, and told me in a text good luck getting anything in the divorce, she displayed a side of her, I never knew existed.
She was saying, I am a lawyer, I will make sure you don't get anything, you are nothing without me.
Just belittling me.
At the divorce hearing, my lawyer presented evidence that my wife was cheating, she had a divorce lawyer as well, so he couldn't refute it, to make a long story short, I got spousal support for 7 years, in the amount of $3,500 a month.
My now ex-wife was livid, she thought just because she was an attorney, she would get her way.
The judge also gave me 30 days to get the rest of my things out of the house, it only took me two days, my friend had a big enough home that I could put things in.
His father had recently passed away and left him MILLIONS, and my friend also owned 2 coffee shops.
I didn't care about the house, she could have it, and she made enough money to pay the mortgage on it.
In the coming weeks, my friend and I learned that the wife of my now ex-wife's AP recovered from her battle with covid, and found out that my ex-wife was having an affair, with her husband.
She went to their law firm and confronted them both, in front of the other attorneys.
They didn't get fired, but, they were both reprimanded, and my ex-wife was told, that if anything like this ever happens again, she will be FIRED!
The law firm didn't take kindly to that type of publicity.
I found out in the craziest way, the wife of my ex-wife's AP called me one day and told me everything, I couldn't believe it.
And to top off the crazy stuff, my ex-wife sent me a text wanting to talk, and offered to cook me dinner, I read the text and deleted it.
Since the divorce and finding this all out, I have been getting better with my mobility, exercising more to regain my strength.
My friend, who is a godsend, offered me a job to help him run his 2 coffee shops.
So, things are looking up for me.
I won't be ready to date anyone for a few months, I am not mentally ready for that, I don't think I can trust any woman right now.
Thank you everyone for all of the encouraging comments.
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