What's interesting is that I have been doing this channel now for 2012.
It’s been seven years.
I remember that there was an old video that I used to put up called, should you text a
girl or should you call a girl?
There was a difference between when you would want to text and when you would want to call.
We're talking about when you first meet a girl (not when you're in a relationship),
you're dating them for a while because you might call then.
There is no question about that.
You should always be texting, it's the fastest way to get a hold of someone.
For whatever reason, it seems less needy when sending a text instead of calling them.
You're just waiting and if they don't call you back for some reason, that means they're
not interested.
Then you got to text them and now you double hit them and it's a whole mess.
The point is, texting is huge these days.
You’re going to be texting with any girl that you meet, date, get into a relationship
or you sleep with.
How do you know if a girl is interested in you over text?
There's basically three.
I know that's the magical number that you always see in a lot of the videos that I do,
but there really is only three.
Stick around for the last one because it is pretty much the biggest one that guarantees
that she likes you.
I've been working with a client and he's been saying to me like, I don't know if she's interested.
I don't know what's going on.
He sends me screenshots of the girl that he's texting and he shows me that she is initiating
conversation.
This is one of the biggest signs that a girl is interested in you.
She's taking the time out of her day to initiate conversation with you, saying something like,
how are you?
How's your day?
What's going on?
I'm looking forward to seeing you again soon.
It can be anything.
It can be hi, or the most boring text message ever.
If a girl is initiating conversation with you, you can almost guarantee that she's interested.
Of course, this is under the context that when you got her number in the first place,
it was a dating flirting scenario.
Don't just assume that if a girl text you first, but you've known her for years, and
you're in the friend zone, that she likes you, that's not the case.
Number two is, if she's replying fairly fast . I want to be careful here, just because
a girl doesn't reply fast, that doesn't mean she's not interested.
If she's at the very least replying to your text messages, and you see that it's pretty
fast, which means she's replying within anywhere from three seconds to about 10 minutes, and
she's engaging you in conversation, if that's happening, you can assume so far she's interested.
Now let's wait for the big boy, the biggest sign that a girl is interested in you over
text message, but before I tell you that, I want you to know that I have this little
audio called Text Shark.
This is one of the bonuses that you get when you get my program called Hooked which you
can check out in the description below or go to GetHerHooked.com.
Text Shark is a whole audio and a little PDF that shows you a diagram of what to do when
a girl doesn't respond to you over text and how to use text messaging as a whole to get
her to meet up with you.
If you're interested in learning about that and getting that bonus, then get the program
Hooked at GetHerHooked.com
Number three, the biggest sign she's interested in you over text is if she's agreeing to see
you again over text.
A lot of people these days were not calling anymore, we're texting.
That's what's happening.
We're in the text message age, at least now in 2019 as I put up this video.
If you're asking about over text, which is what you should be doing anyways because that
is what text messaging should be for not trying to get to know her, but getting to meet up
with her and if she agrees to that, and follows through ( just agreeing is only half the battle),
that is the biggest sign that she's interested.
Remember, texting is the little vessel, a little communicator or tube between you and
the girl to get you two to finally meet up in person.
This is good news.
You don't have to worry about trying to do attraction or flirting techniques, or special
mind blowing text messages.
You can just use it to get her to meet up with you.
Then that's where you build attraction.
Again, I go over all this stuff in the Hooked program.
Now you understand that is what texting is used for.
Here's a little tip, if she's not responding to your text messages, if you're not hearing
from her, chances are she's not interested.
I hate to break it to you.
I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but chances are, she's not interested in you.
Girls who are interested, they respond via text.
Once in a while, there are things you could do and I explain this all in the Text Shark
section of Hooked, there are things you can do to revive it and get her to respond.
If you're texting her and she's not responding, doesn't mean you're not interesting, it just
means that you initially didn't attract her when you first met her.
Understand that again, texting is the vessel.
Hope that helps.
Check out the Hooked program for more and I'll see you on the next video.