have you ever started talking to a guy and it's just moving so slow
he is slow as molasses and look i get it no one's ovaries are getting impregnated from molasses we
need things to happen people and what's worse is our expectations for things to happen quickly
have become so freaking jaded from things like amazon same day shipping same day shipping and
then we carry these ridiculous expectations for speed for things that happen quickly in other
areas of real life such as dating if only jeff bezos would create amazon dating now that is a
trillion dollar idea same day man delivery this video is getting weird anyways in this video i'm
going to show you five signs that he does like you and one sign that he really doesn't keep watching
sign number one is that he's actively trying to make plans with you even if it's pretty far
out into the future if he's trying to make plans with you and it's not just late night booty calls
actually doing something together then that is actually a pretty good sign and when you're
dating a really high value guy who's got a lot on his plate then sometimes they need to be planned
pretty far in advance ultimately the way you want to think about is there are two people throughout
the dating process there's the initiator and the initiate d in the early stages of dating i want
him to be the initiator and if he's initiating these plans then good if he's not initiating
plans then it's time to set our eyes elsewhere the moment you start doing that he's gonna start
getting the sense that he's gonna lose you and then maybe he will start making those plans and
then if he doesn't then so what that's his loss and move on to the next sign number two is that
he finds subtle ways to touch you now i get this men touching women throughout the dating process
men can be very bad at doing this and they can be very awkward when they try i mean prior to
helping literally tens of thousands of you beautiful women attract love i actually used
to coach men and this is like 12 years ago now and one thing i used to coach a lot of men on
is the way to build a connection with a woman is by breaking that touch barrier and showing
her that you're interested so if he is making an effort to touch you even if it's sometimes
a little bit awkward and he's a little bit nervous then that's a really good sign that
he likes you even if he's moving just a little bit slow throughout the process
number three is that when he is with you he's fully present i mean have you ever
sat across from someone and you're hanging out maybe you're at dinner or brunch or whatever
and you just felt like they weren't in it i mean recently i went out with an old friend for lunch
he wanted to grab lunch i'm like okay fine i'll do this so we sit down and i started asking him
some questions but he literally wasn't paying attention anything i was saying he wasn't present
he had his phone up he was constantly checking his phone he wasn't asking me any questions
truly i felt like i was just a part of his task list for the day i am not a task i am a man and if
someone's wasting my time not being present with me then you know what they're not worth my time
damn right brother number four is that he opens up his world to you this is when you start to really
meet his world i'm not talking about just meeting one of his guy friends on a random friday night
when you guys are going out to a bar or something okay that's not his world i'm talking about when a
guy is just dying to introduce you to his family and his friends and the other people that really
make up his world his bubble if a guy's moving really slow but he's still trying to introduce you
to his family and friends this is a very good sign now here's the kicker if you're following my seven
little love steps to get out there and attract long lasting love you can find all that stuff at
lovestrategies.com we have this little love step called little love step number five and that is
where you pace the progression of your connections and when you're in the early stages of dating and
he wants to introduce you to his entire world i actually want you to slow him down a little
bit i want you to be the pacer and what tends to happen is when you pace things and you slow down
you are then in control of the process which in turn makes him actually want to speed things
up it's pretty wild how this happens and as a shameless plug i have a free training for that
at lovestrategies.com and the final sign is that he wants to see you during the day now if you're
only seeing a guy every couple of weeks because he's so busy and then the only time that you do
see him involves the bedroom past the hour of 1am then you my lady are in a situationship
situationship a casually complicated relationship that fulfills your short-term needs but leaves
you feeling empty and soulless when you catch feelings for him oh and you will catch feelings
for him on the other hand if he really does like you but he's just moving a little bit slower
he's going to want to see you during the day he's going to want to do an activity with you
he's willing to go for a walk down by the park or whatever it is it's really important for him
to build a real emotional connection and he'll be totally open to doing that and finally here is a
sign that the guy is not interested in anything serious and this is obvious but i have to say
it because it happens all the time the ultimate sign that a man is not interested in anything
beyond the casual is if he goes out of his way to tell you that he's not ready for a relationship
i don't care how much he's investing in you and how much time he's spending with you and doing
anything that we talk about if he's doing all those things but he also tells you he doesn't want
a relationship listen to him actions always speak louder than words except in one scenario when a
guy is being clear with you that he doesn't want a relationship for a guy to go out of his way and
say those words means holy crap he really doesn't want a relationship right now or he doesn't want
one with you either way we're walking away and saying that magic four-letter word which is
next and moving on to the next be patient throughout the process lean back let him come to
you and invest his energy into you and if he's not doing that then you know what it's deeply his loss