If you've ever been ghosted by a guy, odds are that if you're dating someone nowadays,
you have.
Ghosting is something that occurs frequently in today's dating world.
You meet someone who appears to be promising and start texting back and forth before suddenly
disappearing.
We are going to look at which zodiac sign will ghost you the most and make sure you
stick around to the end as I am going to share what goes through the mind of a ghoster and
why they do it in the first place.
Guys are frequently guilty of ghosting, which is when they stop replying to your messages
and you never hear from them again.
The frustration isn't usually related to the fact that someone doesn't want to be with
you; it's because they didn't have the decency to inform you.
At the top of our list, ranging from most to least likely to ghost you is Sagittarius…
Sagittarius individuals are often the ones who leave relationships quickly.
They want their freedom and do not care how they hurt others to get it.
They are good at being flakey and aloof.
If they want to forget you, they can do so quickly.
They often say what people want to hear and make empty promises without any intention
of keeping them.
Geminis are also highly likely to ghost you.
They are indecisive because they don't know what they want.
This leads them to not be able to commit to a relationship . They'd rather have their
alternatives open all of the time, even if it means ghosting someone or avoiding unpleasant
circumstances.
Next up is Geminis, who are excellent at sidestepping difficulties.
They will not face you if they don't think it's important.
This would be a fantastic opportunity to mention it in the comments if you've ever been ghosted
by a specific zodiac.
Aquarius does not want to deal with the emotions that come with commitment.
They will avoid any kind of emotional expression if they can help it.
When an Aquarius hooks up with you, they don't really think about how the other person might
feel.
They just go for it without thinking about the consequences.
Leos are also very focused on themselves and their own lives.
They will do anything to avoid having to focus on anyone else.
This includes getting out of relationships when it becomes too difficult.
They are so headstrong that they will not think twice about it.
They do not care about you as much as they care about themselves.
Their life needs to be about what they desire and everything else is just not important.
People who are Virgos usually don't like too much commitment.
They are careful and protective of their own space.
They don't like it when someone gets too close or threatens their privacy.
If they feel like it might turn into something more, they back off.
They would rather focus on their own lives and what they need to get done.
Being over thinkers, they would rather avoid a messy emotional relationship.
Libras are the type of people who love to have a good time.
They don't plan on leaving after they hook up with someone.
People who are looking for a casual relationship may be turned off if they think that the aftermath
of a hookup might turn into something more serious.
They want to have a good time and won't continue if it looks like things might get too serious.
Aries is a sign that craves change and newness.
They will depart after a hookup if they believe the relationship is wearing on them.
They will leave if they feel the need, but they will always be honest with you.
They think that it is important to always be truthful with themselves.
Scorpios become attached quickly to the people they are interested in.
If someone interests them, they will be loyal and protective of that person.
Even if a relationship does not work out, they will not just leave you behind.If you
are no longer going to be romantically involved with someone, they may still want to be friends.
People usually don't just throw away a connection if it doesn't turn out the way they thought
it would.
Capricorns never just throw away something if it means something to them.
Even if they are not planning on fully committing, they will still be considerate of others'
feelings.Capricorns are excellent at sizing up people, situations, and other issues from
a logical perspective.
They have firm moral convictions that prevent them from being emotionally inept in that
way.
A strong sense of family and connections motivates Capricorn individuals to be as loving and
caring to others as possible.
Tauruses are unlikely to abandon others.
They are down-to-earth and always fair, which explains their approachable nature.
This causes them to be considerate of other people's feelings.They also develop close
relationships with others.
They never want to hurt people if they can help it.
With a deep moral compass, they will never be the type to just leave someone in the dark
without an explanation.
Cancers are very emotionally attached to the people around them.
No matter how big or small those relationships are, they treasure them.
They are very aware of their own emotions and in touch with them.
This helps them be sympathetic and empathetic to others.
They would never just leave or cut you out after having a small connection with you.
The least likely to abandon you after getting to know you is the Pisces sign.
Even if they become aware that there are no fireworks after time, they will not throw
away anyone.
They always think of others and want to be as considerate as possible.
They are expressive and will tell you everything they're thinking so that relationships can
be deep.
Sadly the cold hard truth is that most men feel empty and nothingness after ghosting
you.
They are not thinking about you at all, there is no future with you and they have come to
the decision that removing you from the equation is best for them.
So they do it in the most immature way possible, by ignoring you.
And how exactly did they get themselves to this position, well it comes down to a few
factors, firstly the chances are they are with someone else.
1.
They're with someone else.
It's a bitter pill to swallow, but the person who ghosted you may have been seeing other
people at the same time they were dating you.
In the meantime, they kept on doing the things that would help them get ahead.
When things started to become serious—that you were looking for commitment or there was
a recurring argument about meeting each other's pals—they retreated and looked for someone
else.
Although it might be harsh, it is unfortunately true that they are probably a little bit commitment-phobic.
2.
They're emotionally immature.
And they are probably bad communicators too.
This person assured us they would keep their promises, but it appears they didn't.
Maybe they promised to go on holiday with you and planned it out, but when push came
to shove they backed out at the last minute.
I think that being emotionally immature is all about these inconsistencies between what
people say and what they do.
This inconsistency is usually what causes them to start ghosting you after they already
said they were ready to settle down.
On the subject of commitment…
3.
They're not interested in committing to you.
Sometimes, it may take a few dates or even a couple of weeks to get a read on someone,
and when a guy decides early on that they're not really into you, they may disappear, for
numerous reasons, but he might think that he doesn't owe you an explanation because
you hadn't been interacting with each other's feelings for long enough.
Or It's possible that he doesn't believe he can provide you with what you want.
They're probably also feeling like they can't live up to your expectations of fulfilling
a relationship with you.
And if that's the case, then you don't want them anyway.
On the other hand they could actually be going through something personal
4.
They're going through something personal.
This is one of those times when ghosting someone can be justified — and I think you can recover
from it.
Let's imagine you've just started chatting to someone, and their family member becomes
seriously ill.
They don't know who to turn to in this situation, let alone the new person they have started
seeing, so they end up not burdening them with this serious issue.
This may be a scenario where a second chance is valid.
Ghosting is a weird term to describe inexcusable behaviour, there is no need for it, yet we
feel with technology such as smartphones, we can hide behind with our feelings and thoughts.
In the most connected world we have ever lived in, we choose to disconnect just as easily
and quickly.
Paradoxically we have too many options and most of the time we make the wrong decision.
If you encounter a ghoster, ask yourself, do you really want to pursue this type of
person in your life?
There are too many irregularities at the start of the relationship to build consistent trust.
Maybe a ghoster is a good thing, in that you avoided a potentially hazardous future relationship?
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