now I'm sure you've had this happen to you while you've been talking to a guy
you're talking to him things are going really well he's starting to actually be
vulnerable to you it's starting to show that he's really interested in you and
then out of nowhere he just suddenly ghost disappears out of nowhere nowhere
to be found and then you're standing there thinking
what the and then worse every once in a while just like a haunted house you feel
the remnants of the ghost but it comes in the form of a late-night drunken text
or a heart on your Instagram post and then you're sitting there wondering what
happened why do man ghosts and how can I avoid this horror movie that is my love
life right now keep watching
hey there Adam little chick from sexy confidence calm where I hope you create
your love story and as a bonus part of this video I have a free training for
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training so let's talk about why guys ghosts now before you get all annoyed at
me in the comments right there below while I talk about the reasons why guys
ghosts just realize I don't condone any of these behaviors I'm just giving you
the real deal as to why guys do it number one is he just straight-up got
scared maybe he had a really bad experience in the past with getting
cheated on a bad relationship or he just has never been in a real relationship a
lot of guys just ghosts when they have a major fear of emotional intimacy if this
ever happened to you leave a comment right there below number two is he got
what he wanted and now he's moving on sadly back in my early 20s I was guilty
of doing this right I was at a time in my life where I wasn't interested in
anything serious and I was too immature to just be real with a woman when I was
no longer interested in pursuing anything much more and weirdly so many
guys do this past the age of like 25 like I hear all the time from you sex
with single ladies of men who are in their 40s and 50s and Beyond
who are just trying to get laid and then ghosts out of nowhere which just like
blows my mind you'd think they'd grow up but they don't
number three is he's avoiding the confrontation that goes along with a
breakup maybe he's just gotten to a point where he's not feeling it anymore
maybe something happen that he didn't like or he's just not
have seen this actually go anywhere sadly we live in a time where people are
just less confrontation whether it's because we all live our lives on our
phone and we don't know how to have real conversations with people or maybe this
is just way people have been all time and we just know a little bit more about
human behavior but the reality is a lot of people nowadays just ghost instead of
sitting you down or at least calling you and being like hey look I don't see this
working out it's beat and it shouldn't be the way it is but this is just what
happens and sadly a lot of women do the same thing and if you're in a situation
where you would normally go son a guy put some good dating Carla into the
world give him a call and let him know that you just don't see it working out
now you have just won yourself over a little bit of dating Karma and hopefully
the universe will reward you number four is he's just a narcissist a classic
narcissist just isn't concerned about you and your feelings so they're gonna
be much more likely to just use you in every way possible
whether emotionally or sexually and then just completely discard you and it's
horrible and I am so sorry if this is something you experienced finally number
five is that he's really just a little boy he's not a man yet a boy will ghost
on you because he's just a little scared boy a men will tell you how it is even
if it's something you don't want to hear and the more of all of this is if you
find yourself getting ghosted by a guy I want you to sleep well at night just
knowing that you've avoided the pain of being in a relationship with a scared
little boy who doesn't have the balls to break it off with you I know that sounds
really harsh but I'm just getting to a point in my career where I'm getting
tired of women being so upset getting ghosted on by these EDS who just don't
deserve them in the first place so I promise you stay the sexy confidence way
keep getting out there and I promise you you will attract them in that you truly
deserve just keep following the process and if you need a little help in this
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