what's up man an artist in here from the attractive man i'm here in Manila the
Philippines getting ready ready for our annual asia trip two weeks of traveling
with a few students all around India and I wanted to take a quick second to make
this video on how to start a conversation with a woman because this
is the key
really i mean going up to her starting the conversation is absolutely necessary
for there to be a relationship obviously so I mean imagine all the beautiful
women that you're seeing every single day whether it's going out to a bar club
or you're at the coffee shop you're walking to work at the gym
wherever you are I know you've seen that beautiful woman and you just wondered
like how do i start the conversation in such a way that builds a connection
attraction and leaves her wanting more
that's the key right it's not just starting a conversation but starting an
attractive conversation where she wants you and she starts attracting you and
chasing so that's what we're going to talk about now
first I want to say this it doesn't really matter how you started it really
doesn't
one of our trainers Josiah his ex-girlfriend of think about a year they
dated
he met by saying you should have that sandwich they are at some kind of coffee
shop or some kinda i think it was an earl of sandwich actually in vegas and
he just said you should try that sandwich
not very clever not very interesting but it worked
anything can work so I mean there's all sorts of things you can say
you can make observations about her something that she's wearing or
something that she's doing or something in the environment that's going on
you can even just ask for directions that can get the ball rolling but then
you know it's probably gonna end pretty quickly if you don't keep it going
so the key to starting the interaction starting the conversation whether you
start with some kind of comment like that or not is to be direct
at some point is to state your interest you can do it verbally or non-verbally
verbally would be giving her a genuine compliment about her looks
if you'd say hey cool shoes that's just like oh cool thanks you like my shoes
it's like yeah not a bad compliment but it's not gonna make her jaw drop
it's not going to sweep her off her feet that's what we want to do right want to
sweep her off her feet
so a genuine compliment something that's honest that sincere it's the easiest way
to start a conversation with the girl you see something about her
what's the reason you want to go up to her because she's beautiful so go tell
her that you have to do it the right way
can't do it in a cheesy way and be overly interested hey you're so
beautiful i wanted to come say I do
hi that's just gonna be nice and make her feel good but it's not gonna make
her feel anything on the inside it's not gonna rouser it's not going to turn her
on the key is to be very grounded being very present very calm and casual when
you deliver the compliment so let's pretend you see a beautiful woman
walking down the street like where we are here
I would walk up to her and just say hey real quick
I know this is crazy people don't do this but you are absolutely adorable
I had to come say I do hi something like that
you could say beautiful adorable stunning attractive whatever you want to
say or you can just use an implied compliment just stop and say listen I
saw you here and I had to come over and meet you
hi I'm Matt that works really really well
this is really random I just saw you I was over there and I thought you were
absolutely adorable
I just want to say hi I'm Matt Matt Matt and then listen then
nice to meet you I have to go back ok and we're doing some filming but real
quick
tell me one cool thing about you because when you show your interest in her
you're displaying confidence you're telling her
subconsciously that I believe you're going to like me you would not approach
a woman that you didn't believe you had no chance of it
so the fact that you're going up to her and giving her that complement stopping
her
is showing a lot of confidence that you believe she should like you and showing
a lot of masculine energy and masculine power because the man's job to approach
women stop using excuses you don't need an excuse to approach women are
attracted to her
that's your Excuse go up to her and tell her that now in other situations like
nighttime situations you can still be direct
just go to a group of girls that's usually groups at a bar club you say hey
you girls are cute
I want to say hi that works really well what i usually do i do that sometimes a
lot of times I just walk up and say hi I'm Matt what's your name is introduced
myself to her or the entire group because again it's showing confidence
and say I don't need an excuse to talk to you
we're in a social environment where people are expected to talk to one
another
I don't need some like hey you know you know some excuse like you know any other
clubs around here or what drinking are you drinking
you can use that if you want it's not bad it still works
but really don't even need that sculptor and introduce yourself hi I'm Matt nice
to meet you
so where do you go from there well you started the conversation
now think about like this even if you went kind of interact and you said hi my
name is Matt or you some observation or something like that
now she knows that you're attracted to her you've shown interested in her
basically like her looks are you're getting your foot in the door
that's all they are it looks got your foot in the door now you're trying to
decide if you want to get a number now you're trying to decide if you want to
date her but looks aren't good enough
she's more than just looks right I hope you have some standards
so next you gotta qualify her challenger you need to start chasing you you shown
interest now you suddenly take it away and find out if she's cool enough to
even date you or even cool enough to get your phone number and that's where the
real powerful attraction takes place that's where she starts getting invested
and if you're getting a lot of phone numbers but they're not turning into
dates and you're not getting a lot of text or called calls back
it's probably because you're you're able to start the conversation but the next
part isn't working very well you're not challenging her enough
so check this out we got some advanced training for you
click the link below i'm going to show you how to be a challenge
how to keep the conversation going and such a way that she starts chasing you
and i'm going to also show you how to start the conversation and go through
all the little details and nuances because it's all about how you do it you
can go up to a woman compliment her or start a conversation on any way you want
really what it's all about the body language the tonality eye contact
that's what's going to create the attraction for example if i go up and
say hi you're really cute i want to say hi
that's okay nice still think I'm a nice guy
which isn't always the best thing but I say hey real quick
you are absolutely adorable
I had to at least at something like that is gonna work a lot better so we're
gonna teach you exactly how to do that click the link below for the advanced
training and make sure to subscribe to this channel we got a lot more tips for
you and I look forward to seeing you next time peace