so sick of this world that does stuff
like this oh my god
hi in this video i'm going to be as
honest and open as possible
guy talk i'm a guy and i hear
guy talk all the time guy talk is
basically
conversations about women about sex
that some of them can get disrespectful
and some of them can get sexist guy talk
happens to many guys in private it
happened to me in private
but one day it happened to me in public
some tv host in albania invited me
on his tv show for a quick interview i
said yes
and i brought my girlfriend elene with
me but
little did i know that throughout the
whole conversation
the guy was talking to me in guy talk
and that made me feel a bit
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uncomfortable
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but
he would make sexual jokes he would
disrespect
women and me in the process and he would
force women
to ask questions on his behalf
i tried to let it go and laugh it off
uncomfortably but my girlfriend elene
didn't
yeah i know that she's have like really
breathable
but this is too far no she's she said
that
yeah he has a problem which is
disrespecting it
and to be honest at the time i thought
that was a bit too much but at the end
of the day
she was right what it's like
this is funny rape humor is not funny
no talking about women i'm sorry
it wasn't it was a stupid uh
idiot so
the tv show host thought this was not a
big deal
why because he thought it was funny and
two
because many people do it if i'm sexist
then what are these hosts you didn't
think i was going to look down there
mutual respect yeah that's what i have
for you mutual respect
yeah fantastic yeah i
i would love to respect you like crazy
what's going on and that's exactly the
problem
guy talk is everywhere in the world it
starts in private conversations
we laugh it off because it didn't harm
anyone
this is funny but this experience has
taught me
that when guy talk is okay in private
slowly but surely it becomes okay in
public
slowly most tv shows are sexist
slowly we find this funny and
okay
when in fact it's wrong and terrible for
society
slowly it hurts
when they
when day after day year after year you
are treated like an object you are
treated like less
when you are objectified and sexualized
and even if you are not when you see the
people around you treated like that
it gets really old really fast
at the end of the day i laughed off his
sexist remarks
hoping the interview would end fast
but to be honest with you laughing it
off was not
enough and guys like me should have
stopped it
what i learned from this video is that i
need to control my reactions when i get
angry but what i also learned is that
i'm happy that i at least
try to speak up because if we're not
speaking up when sexism happens to us in
our daily life it's just gonna keep
happening
we need to put an end to guy talk
wherever
it happens in private conversations
or public ones even if they happen
or talent see you
this is so funny it's not funny what
it's like my girlfriend
this is funny