How to visualize and get what you want. Here today at Limitless TV Kris Krohn and
I've brought, by raving fan review, Marianne Denovellis back. This is the queen of
visualization. And today if you watch this video and wait to the end, she's not
just going to teach you how to visualize and why, she's going to teach you how to
leverage it as a tool to manifest what you want.
Let's talk about how to get what you want.You know as a mom, I hear this all
the time. I want this, I want that, I want that. If you've ever been to the grocery
store or the supermarket with one of, with a kid, if you've ever been to the
grocery store as a child or if you've ever been a child you have heard this
phrase, I want this I want that I want that. So how do we do it? How do we get
what we want? Let me just share with you a story. I was at one point climbing up a
ropes course. And if you've ever done rock climbing, you've ever been to a
ropes course you know that it involves a fair amount of physical endurance. And I
can remember, I'm climbing up this ropes course wall. I've got a blindfold on. I
don't know where the handholds are. I don't know where the footholds are. I
don't know where my next grip is and I'm trying to get to the top of this 40-foot
wall. How do I do it? Well here's a couple things that I had with me, I had a team, I
had a mentor, and I had someone giving instructions. I also had a safety harness
and I had someone on the ground making sure I was safe on the other end of the
rope. But the end I'm getting close to this wall and I can't see where to put
my hands. I can't see where to put my feet. I'm getting tired. My fingers are
getting sore, my legs are starting to shake a little bit, and I'm still who
knows how far from the top. I had to shift something in that moment because I
could have easily given up. Now if I had fallen off the wall, no big deal. I'm in a
ropes course with the safety line right? Someone's going to catch me. But how
often in your life do you go for what you want?
and you get tired? and you get stuck? and you stop. And you can't see. And when you
let go, sometimes there's not a safety harness there to catch you to start
right back where you start left off from. So what do we? do how do we get what we
want in this life? Maybe you have a goal of reaching a certain dollar amount or a
certain income level. Maybe you have a goal of a relationship. Maybe you have a
goal of help healthy body. Maybe you have a goal of reaching a person of power.
Maybe you want to speak on stage. There's so many goals to choose from. There's so
many beautiful things we can do when we're in this life. What is it that you
want?
How do we get there? that's the key.
That's what we want to answer is, how do we get from where we are to where we
want to go? There's a pivotal tool that if you forget I can almost guarantee you
won't get there and here's what it is. You've got to be able to see it in your
mind, on your way there, before you actually get there. There's an Olympic
swimmer who is going for a distance swim. And what happened? She got tired. Just
like you and me. Get tired, lose motivation, and she was swimming miles
and miles and miles and she got a half mile before her goal and she gave up.
She let the tired overwhelm her and she stopped and had the safety boat come
pick her up.
When she found out that she was only a half mile from her
destination, you can imagine how she felt. She did it again. She said, I was only
half mile I could have done another half mile if I had only known the finish line
was right there. She got up and she did it again. She's swimming miles upon miles.
They're stacking up. There's muscle fatigue. There's help that needs to come.
She is going and she's going and she's going and she gets to that point again
where she's about to give up. But something shifted this time.
And when she
got to that finish line, when she reached that Island, someone asked her, how did
you do it this time? You felt the same thing you did last time of getting
overwhelmed, of getting tired, the fatigue set in and all did it but you made it
this time. We want to know why? what made the difference for you?
And here's what
she said, I saw myself at the finish line.
I saw myself at the end.
Same thing
happened to me when I was on, when I was on that ropes course. I was climbing that
wall. I was getting help from the top. I was getting help from the bottom. I was
getting help from all around this harness, the safety. Everything was in
place. But I felt so stuck on that wall because
I couldn't see my hand holds. I couldn't see where to put my foot. I didn't know
my next step and I didn't know I was going to get me to the top until this
moment when I realized I had to see myself at
the top.
I had to see myself climbing over that wall.
Let's talk about you, your
goals, your dreams, your drives, your ambitions. Everything that you're
shooting for. Can you see yourself there? Can you see yourself in that body of
health? Can you see yourself in that healthy relationship? Can you see
yourself crossing that finish line? achieving that financial goal? can you
see in your mind's eye the millions of dollars in the bank account?
And I'm talking details here. Let's imagine for a moment that you want to
build a house. You want to, that's your goal. You want to have this beautiful
home. Can you see yourself there? And I'm talking detailed. I want to get down to
the nitty-gritty. I want to know every little detail of what it looks like to
be in that house. Let's say you're building a house and I want this house
to be purple. I want the walls to be a beautiful white color in this bedroom
and I want him to be in a blue color in this next bedroom. I want this kind of
molding to be on the bottom of my walls. I want 500 thread count sheets on my
guest beds and 12,000 thread count sheets to be on my bed. I want the
dimensions of this king-size bed to fit here and I want my room to be 25 by 25
foot room. I want the pile of the carpet to be an inch and a half and I want it
to be that off-white egg color that I found at the hardware store the other
day. Are you getting the picture? do you see how detailed your visualization gets
to be? Do you see yourself in that home? Can you feel your toes in that carpet?
Imagine all five of these senses coming to you. You've got five senses, let's play
with them all. When you go into your visualization, here's what I do. I take a
moment, I close my eyes, and take a deep breath.
What does it smell like in my new home? Does it smell like fresh baked bread coming
out of the oven? Does it smell like crisp clean linens in the bedroom? What does it
feel like? What are the curtains feel like on my hands? what does the wall feel
like when I touch it? How do the bricks feel on the outside
that built my home? What are the colors that I'm seeing? What are the flowers
that are growing? What foods do I eat in my home? What is the first meal that I'm
going to eat in my brand-new home? You've got your eyes involved. What sounds am I
hearing? I've got my ears involved. What does it sound like to be in my new home?
What, what does it sound like when the fireplace is on? What does it sound like
to hear my kids running through the halls?
You've got your smell, what are the smells I take, I smell in my new home?
what are the smells I'm experiencing in the kitchen? in the office? in the bedroom?
what do I want it to be like when I walk in there? You got your taste, we've got your
touch, you've got all five of your senses playing at once so that any given moment,
you can be there in that home. And when your goal manifests, it's no different
from what you experienced beforehand. I got to share with you how this story
translate from my world. This goal I achieved. For so long, my dream was to go
to Hawaii. I felt like I was Polynesian on the
inside and I got to tell you, I've even had my Polynesian friends tell me I'm an
inside-out coconut. White on the outside, brown on the inside. And I saw myself
there for so long. Ever since I was a kid, and I remember watching a little mermaid
I was like, oh I gotta be in this tropical place. It just called to me. I
could feel it. I can feel it. I want to be there and it took me years and years and
years to get there. But I remember the first day I gave myself permission to
even try it on. You know, so many times, we're getting this idea of, am I lying to
myself by trying this on? by experiencing? by saying to myself I'm in Hawaii right
now. Am I lying to myself to get my brain to do something? You know what? You're
telling the truth in advance. This is called manifesting. This is called
bringing the past your reality and living as if right now. I visualized, I
sat there and I would put my toes in the water at the pool and I would pretend
that it was the ocean. I would put my hands in the sand on the beaches of the
river and pretend it was the hands that were in the sand on the beaches in
Hawaii. I would put on my swimsuit and I would go outside and I would feel the
sun and and know that it was the same sun that was shining in Hawaii that it
was same sun that was shining on me at moment. I had all of these bits and
pieces that I had gathered up to create this experience for myself and then I
gave myself permission to buy my plane ticket for the first time. And I got to
tell you, walking down to that beach after already having been there in my
mind was the fulfillment of my manifestation. When you manifest, you
visualize. What you're creating has already happened.
And what you're
creating goes from impossible to inevitable.
It has to happen. Think about
this, this system is already at work in your mind. Your mind already functions
this way. This is already happening in your world. Tell me if you've ever said
these words, man I knew that was going to happen. Or even this, I saw that coming.
This is how your mind is working. You already have visualized and made and
brought to pass and created everything in your world that you want to bring
together. This is already coming together in your world and here's the key I want
you to take away, it is no harder to create what you do want than it is what
you don't want.
Take your mind, shift it into the gear, put into overdrive and
manifest what you want. So how do we take it from visualization to action step?
You're here, you haven't got your goal yet. And your goal is way over here. Guess
what's in the middle? this big gap between you need to fill in the gap or
make a bridge. So here's what I want you to do. When you're visualizing, when
you're building, when you're creating all the details and creating this beautiful
experience in yourself, there's a one question that you have to ask yourself
and here it is.
What do I get to do today that brings me toward that next step?
When I was on that wall, I was climbing. I wasn't at the top, I wasn't at the bottom.
I was on my way. My next step wasn't get to the top of the wall. My next step was
I need some place for my left hand to go so I can lift myself higher. That's my
next step in this moment and that's something you're entitled to when you're
manifesting you are entitled to the inspiration that gets you to your next
step. I guarantee you there is one single step that you can take today if
more to get you where you want to go.
Marianne, thank you so much for sharing
that awesome vital information with us. Didn't you just love that? We're going to
keep bringing Marianne to do some more things with us here in the future and
you can always catch her at limitless. She's one of our main facilitators. Super
gifted at teaching people how to manifest the life that they want.
Tomorrow on Limitless TV, we're going to be jamming on how to get a loan with bad
credit. See you there.