IN A RECENTLY RESURFACED VIDEO FROM 2015, DJ KHALID
WRITES ABOUT THE FACT THAT HE DOES NOT PERFORM ORAL SEX ON HIS
WIFE, BUT THAT BUT THAT HE EXPECTED FROM HER BECAUSE HE IS
A KING.
LET'S TAKE A LOOK AT THE VIDEO.
I BELIEVE A WOMAN SHOULD PRAISE THE MAN.
HE'S A KING.
IF YOU ARE HOLDING IT DOWN FOR YOUR WOMAN I FEEL LIKE A
WOMAN SHOULD PRAISE AND THE MAN SHOULD PRAISE THE QUEEN,
BUT YOU KNOW, MY WAY OF PRAISING IS CALLED HOW IS DINNER?
YOU LIKE THE HOUSE YOU LIVING IN?
YOU LIKE ALL OF THE CLOTHES YOU'RE GETTING?
I AM TAKING CARE OF YOUR FAMILY, MY FAMILY, PUTTING IN THE
WORK.
YOU ARE SAYING YOU DON'T GO DOWN.
NEVER.
ALL OF THAT TO SAY DON'T GO DOWN.
COME ON.
I CAN'T DO IT.
I THOUGHT THAT'S WHAT HOLD YOU DOWN IS ABOUT.
I DON'T.
YOU DON'T LIKE THE TASTE?
I DON'T DO THAT.
NOT EVEN FOR HER BIRTHDAY.
JESUS.
I PUT IT WORK.
MY WORK IS GREAT.
YOU KNOW WHAT I'M SAYING?
WHAT IF SHE SAYS SHE DOESN'T, IS THAT OKAY?
NO, IT IS NOT OKAY.
BECAUSE YOU KNOW WHAT I'M SAYING --
YOU HAVE TO UNDERSTAND, AND THE DON, I'M THE KING.
THE KING OF THE HOUSE.
SHE'S THE QUEEN.
OF COURSE.
I DON'T DO THAT.
IT'S NOT FAIR.
IT'S DIFFERENT RULES FOR MEN.
YOU KNOW WHAT I'M SAYING?
YOU HAVE TO UNDERSTAND.
WE'RE THE KING.
THERE ARE SOME THINGS THAT YOU MIGHT NOT WANT TO DO, IT
HAS TO GET DONE.
I JUST CAN'T DO WHAT YOU WANT ME TO DO.
SO IF YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT MISOGYNY SOUNDS LIKE, WE
JUST GAVE YOU A MINUTE AND A HALF OF IT.
EVERY PART OF THAT VIDEO MADE ME SICK TO MY STOMACH.
WHEN HE STARTS GOING, WELL, SHE HAS TO DO THIS BECAUSE I
PRAISE HER BECAUSE I MAKE MONEY.
1ST OF ALL IT WAS JUST LIKE A DISGUSTING, AND THEN THE FACT
THAT HE EXPECTED FROM HER BECAUSE HE IS THE KING, THAT IS
HOW SHE NEEDS TO PRAISE HIM AND THAT HE WON'T DO IT FOR HER
BECAUSE HE JUST DOESN'T FEEL LIKE IT AND THAT SHE SHOULD
STILL DO IT BECAUSE SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO DO THINGS THAT
YOU DO NOT FEEL LIKE DOING.
JUST THE MOST DISGUSTING COMMENTARY.
THE ONE PART THAT I WAS AMUSED BY AND ONLY ME IS THAT
WHEN I GOT MARRIED MY WIFE MADE MORE MONEY THAN ME FOR QUITE
SOME TIME AND SO I WAS THINKING OF IT IN REVERSE.
I WAS THINKING OF HER COMING AND GOING LISTEN, I'M THE QUEEN SO
HERE ARE THE RULES IN THIS HOUSE AND IT IS PREPOSTEROUS.
OF COURSE IT IS.
A WOMAN IS MAKING MORE MONEY OR IF A GUY IS.
1ST OF ALL, WHY ARE WE HAVING THAT CONVERSATION KUESTER
WHAT DOES MONEY HAVE TO DO WITH THIS BUT IT GIVES YOU A
SENSE OF KIND OF THE BACKWARD WAY THAT HE IS THINKING.
I PROVIDE SO I SHOULD GET THIS AND HE SEEMS TO ALMOST BE
PROUD OF THE PROGRESS HE.
HE IS LIKE THAT IS A DOUBLE STANDARD AND IS LIKE YEAH.
WE GIVE TOO MUCH CREDENCE TO CELEBRITIES.
WHY DO WE EXPECT DJ KELLY TO BE SMART OR HOW SOCIAL
COMMENTARY THAT WOULD MAKE ANY SENSE AT ALL?
I DON'T KNOW, PEOPLE LIKE HIM A LOT.
WHAT DOES HE DO?
HE DOES THE SMILEY THING, THE KEY THING KUESTER WHAT IF
YOU DO HE IS SUPPOSED TO BE A LOVABLE GUY.
HE SAYS DJ COLLETT ON A LOT OF TRACKS.
WELL, ON THE OTHER HAND.
HERE I THOUGHT HE WAS AN INTELLECTUAL THOUGHT
I HEAR WHAT YOU ARE SAYING ABOUT PUTTING'S LIBERTIES
ON A PEDESTAL AND EXPECTING THEM TO HAVE SOME SORT OF SOCIAL
AND POLITICAL COMMENTARY.
I THINK EVERYTHING THAT YOU SAY IS POLITICAL.
I AM A FIRM BELIEVER THAT EVERYTHING IS POLITICS BUT
ON THE OTHER HAND, HE DOES HAVE A PLATFORM AND YOU NEED TO
USE THAT WISELY.
I THINK WHAT HE IS SAYING WHEN HE IS TALKING ABOUT HIS
RELATIONSHIP WITH HIS WIFE, IT IS NOT LIKE HE IS MAKING
COMMENTARY ON POLITICS, BUT HE IS TO SOME EXTENT.
HE IS TALKING ABOUT THE POLITICS BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN AND THAT
IF YOU ARE A MAN THEN YOU ARE ENTITLED TO SOME SORT OF SEXUAL
GIVE BACK, SEXUAL PRAISE FOR THAT, BUT THE ISSUE WITH THIS IS
THAT IT PERPETUATES A STIGMA ABOUT WOMEN AND IT PERPETUATES
THE STIGMA ABOUT GOING DOWN EVEN CHARLEMAGNE, WHEN HE
COMMENTS HE SAYS WHAT, YOU DIDN'T LIKE THE TASTE?
EVEN THAT PERPETUATES A REALLY BAD STIGMA THAT ALL SO MANY
WOMEN ARE ALREADY SO CONSCIOUS ABOUT BECAUSE OF THE WAY WE
TALK ABOUT THIS.
ONLY 25% OF WOMEN CAN ORGASM FROM PENETRATION ALONE.
THAT MEANS THAT THE REST OF THE 75% OF WOMEN NEED SOME SORT
OF CLITORAL STIMULATION SO FOR DJ KHALID TO SAY NO, I AM
NOT EVEN GOING TO PLEASE MY WOMAN, PLEASE MY WIFE, IT
IS SO BEYOND INFURIATING AND SAYING THAT ONLY HE DESERVES THE
PLEASURE IN THE RELATIONSHIP, WHICH AGAIN PERPETUATES
ANOTHER STIGMA THAT WOMEN ARE JUST TOOLS, THAT WOMEN
MIGHT NOT ENJOY PLEASURE AS WELL, THAT WOMEN MIGHT NOT WANT
SEX AS WELL OR HAVE A RIGHT TO BE PLEASURED DURING SEX SO IT IS
PROBLEMATIC ALL AROUND AND A LOT OF CELEBRITIES REALIZE THAT IT
STARTED COMMON THINK I WANT TO BRING UP SOME OF THEIR TWEETS.
SMASH MOUTH, GOD BLESS HIM SAID:
DWAYNE THE ROCK JOHNSON
SAYS:
EVAN RACHEL WOOD SAYS:
LOOK, IF A SENATOR SAID IT, IT WOULD BE MORE WEIGHTY ALTHOUGH,
YOU KNOW WHAT, TO BE FAIR PROBABLY A LOT MORE PEOPLE
LISTEN TO DJ COLLEGE BEEN A STUPID SENATOR.
HE HAS MORE OF AN INFLUENCE PROBABLY ON OUR CULTURE
RIGHTLY OR WRONGLY AND I NEVER UNDERSTOOD THIS.
I REMEMBER THIS ONE GUY IN NEW JERSEY, HE SAID I NEVER DO THAT.
IT WAS ALMOST VERBATIM WHAT KHALID WAS SAYING, REAL MEN
DON'T DO THAT.
WHY NOT, IT SEEMS FUN KUESTER I WAS LIKE IF I COULD.
THAT IS THE FLIPSIDE OF THIS AS WELL.
IT IS COMPLETELY DISREGARDING, BESIDE THE FACT THAT WOMEN
DESERVE THAT AS WELL BUT IT IS DISREGARDING ALL THE MEN
OUT THERE WHO ENJOY DOING THAT.
YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN?
SAYING YOU SHOULDN'T DO IT, THAT'S NOT MANLY, YOU ARE
NOT A KING IF YOU DON'T ENJOY PLEASURING YOUR WOMAN WHICH
IS ALSO A REALLY PROBLEMATIC THEME TO PERPETUATE AND SPREAD.
THEIR FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS DON'T MATTER IS A HUGE PROBLEM
BUT ACTUALLY TO ME THE BIGGEST PROBLEM WAS WHAT HE SAID AT THE
END THERE WHICH IS, HE IS LIKE NO, YOU HAVE TO DO IT FOR MEN.
I DON'T CARE WHAT YOU WANT TO DO, YOU HAVE TO DO IT.
I HOPE THAT HE WAS EXAGGERATING AND HE DOESN'T ACTUALLY DO
THAT AT HOME BECAUSE THAT IS REALLY PROBLEMATIC THE
IT IS CALLED MARITAL RAPE, FYI.
I THINK I WAS DEFINITELY PROBLEMATIC ANOTHER COMPONENT
WAS WHEN HE SAID THEY'RE DIFFERENT FOR MEN AND WOMEN AND
IT IS LIKE OKAY, WE UNDERSTAND THAT THE PATRIARCHY IS IN PLACE,
WE'RE TRYING TO MOVE PAST THAT, TRYING TO CREATE SOME EQUALITY.
Q PUBLICIST STATEMENT SAYING HE IS DEEPLY SORRY AND
NEVER MENTIONED IN THE FIRST PLACE AND WAS JUST JOKING
AND THREE, TWO, ONE.
LASTLY, REALLY QUICK I WANT TO SAY ONE MORE THING ABOUT
THIS BECAUSE WHAT'S INTERESTING IS THIS VIDEO CAME ON
20 15TH AND IT DIDN'T SPREAD, NOBODY BAD AND I BUT NOW, THERE
IS A DIFFERENT CULTURAL TONE AND PEOPLE CARE MORE ABOUT WOMEN
AND SO NOW IT IS RESURFACED AND IT IS BECOME A HUGE STORY
AND SO I ACTUALLY THINK THAT IS POSITIVE AND ENCOURAGING.
ESPECIALLY GIVEN THAT HIS REPUTATION IS PARTLY BASED ON
GALANG HIS NAME AND PARTLY BASED ON BEING KIND OF A LIKABLE
GUY, THIS IS A DISASTER FOR HIM.
THERE'S GOING TO BE LIKE 28
PUBLICIST STATEMENTS PRETENDING HE DIDN'T REALLY MEAN IT.