Translator: Lela Selmo Reviewer: Denise RQ
Raise your hand
if you have ever been asked the question,
"What do you want to be when you grow up?"
(Laughter)
Now, if you had to guess,
how old would you say you were when you were first asked this question?
You can just hold up fingers.
Three, five, three, five, five; OK.
Now, raise your hand if the question
"What do you want to be when you grow up?" has ever caused you any anxiety.
(Laughter)
Any anxiety at all.
I'm someone who's never been able to answer the question,
"What do you want to be when you grow up?"
See, the problem wasn't that I didn't have any interests
it's that I had too many.
In high school I liked English, and Math, and Arts, and I built websites,
and I played guitar in a punk band called Frustrated Telephone Operator.
(Laughter)
Maybe you've heard of us.
(Laughter)
This continued after high school,
and at a certain point, I began to notice this pattern in myself,
where I would become interested in an area
and I would dive in, and become all consumed,
and I'd get to be pretty good at whatever it was,
and then I would hit this point where I'd start to get bored.
And usually, I would try and persist anyway
because I'd already devoted so much time and energy,
and sometimes money into this field.
But eventually, this sense of boredom, this feeling of, "Yeah, I've got this!
This isn't challenging anymore,"
it would get to be too much, and I would have to let it go.
But then, I would become interested in something else,
something totally unrelated,
and I would dive into that and become all consumed,
and I would feel like, "Yes, I found my thing!"
And then I would hit this point again
where I'd start to get bored and eventually I would let it go.
But then I would discover something new and totally different,
and I would dive into that...
This pattern caused me a lot of anxiety for two reasons:
the first was that I wasn't sure
how I was going to turn any of this into a career.
I thought that I would eventually have to pick one thing,
deny all my other passions and just resign myself to being bored.
The other reason it caused me so much anxiety
was a little bit more personal.
I worried that there was something wrong with this
and something wrong with me
for being unable to stick with anything.
I worried that I was afraid of commitment, or that I was scattered,
or that I was self sabotaging, afraid of my own success.
If you can relate to my story and to these feelings,
I'd like you to ask yourself a question that I wish I had asked myself back then.
Ask yourself where you learned
to assign the meaning of wrong or abnormal to doing many things.
I'll tell you where you learnt it.
You learnt it from the culture.
When you were first asked the question,
"What do you want to be when you grow up?"
you were about five years old,
and the truth is that no one really cares what you say when you are that age.
(Laughter)
It's considered an innocuous question
posed to little kids to elicit cute replies.
Like, "I want to be an astronaut," or "I want to be a ballerina,"
or "I want to be a pirate," - insert Halloween costume here.
(Laughter)
But this question is asked of us again and again
as we get older in various forms.
For instance,
high school students might get asked
what major they are going to pick in college.
And at some point, what do you want to be when you grow up
goes from being the cute exercise it once was
to the thing that keeps us up at night.
Why?
See, while this question inspires kids to dream about what they could be,
it does not inspire them to dream about all that they could be.
In fact, it does just the opposite.
Because when someone asks you what you want to be,
you can't reply with 20 different things.
The well meaning adult will likely chuckle and be like,
"Oh, how cute, but you can't be a violin maker and a psychologist.
You have to choose."
This is Doctor Bob Childs.
(Laughter)
And he's a luthier and a psychotherapist.
And this is Amy Ng, a magazine editor,
turned illustrator, entrepreneur, teacher, and creative director.
But most kids don't hear about people like this.
All they hear is that they are going to have to choose.
But it's more than that.
The notion of the narrowly focused life is highly romanticized in our culture.
It's this idea of destiny or the one true calling.
The idea that we each have one great thing
we are meant to do during our time on this Earth.
And you need to figure out
what that thing is and devote your life to it.
But, what if you are someone who isn't wired this way?
What if there are a lot of different subjects
that you're curious about?
And many different things you want to do?
Well, there is no room for someone like you in this framework.
And so you might feel alone.
You might feel like you don't have a purpose.
You might feel like there is something wrong with you.
There is nothing wrong with you.
What you are is a multipotentialite.
(Applause)
A multipotentialite is someone
with many interests and creative pursuits.
It's a mouthful to say.
It might help if you break it up into three parts:
multi - potential - ite.
You can also use one of the other terms that connote the same ideas,
such is the polymath, the Renaissance person.
Actually, during the Renaissance period
it was considered the ideal to be well versed in multiple disciplines.
Barbara Sher refers to us as scanners.
Use whichever term you like or invent your own.
I have to say I find it sort of fitting that as a community,
we cannot agree on a single identity.
(Laughter)
It's easy to see you multipotentiality
as a limitation or an affliction that you need to overcome.
But what I've learned through speaking with people
and writing about these ideas on my website, Puttylike,
is that there is some tremendous strengths to being this way.
Here are 3 multipotentialite super powers.
One; idea synthesis.
That is combining two or more fields
and creating something new at the intersection.
Sha Hwang and Rachel Binx
drew from their shared interest in cartography,
data visualization, travel, mathematics, and design when they founded Meshu.
Meshu is a company that creates custom geographically inspired jewelry.
Sha and Rachel came up with this unique idea
not despite, but because of their eclectic mix
of skills and experiences.
Innovation happens at the intersections.
That's where the new ideas come from.
And multipotentialites with all of their backgrounds
are able to access a lot of these points of intersection.
The second multipotentialite superpower is rapid learning.
When multipotentialites become interested in something - we go hard.
We absorb everything we can get our hands on.
We're also used to being beginners
because we've been beginners so many times in the past.
And this means that we're less afraid of trying new things
and stepping out of our comfort zones.
What's more, many skills are transferable across disciplines.
And we bring everything we've learned to every new area we pursue
so we're rarely starting from scratch.
Nora Dunn is a full time traveler and freelance writer.
As a child concert pianist,
she honed an incredible ability to develop muscle memory.
Now she's the fastest typist she knows.
Before becoming a writer, Nora was a financial planner.
She had to learn the finer mechanics of sales
when she was starting her practice,
and this skill now helps her write compelling pitches to editors.
It is rarely a waste of time to pursue something you are drawn to,
even if you end up quitting.
You might apply that knowledge in a different field entirely
in a way you couldn't have anticipated.
The third multipotentialite super power is adaptability.
That is the ability to morph
into whatever you need to be in a given situation.
Abe Cajudo is sometimes a video director, sometimes a web designer,
sometimes a Kickstarter consultant, sometimes a teacher,
and sometimes, apparently, James Bond.
(Laughter)
He's valuable because he does good work.
He's even more valuable
because he can take on various roles depending on his client's needs.
Fast Company Magazine identified adaptability
as the single most important skill to develop
in order to thrive in the 21st century.
The economic world is changing so quickly and unpredictably
that it is the individuals and organizations that can pivot
in order to meet the needs of the market that are really going to thrive.
Idea synthesis, rapid learning and adaptability.
Three skills that multipotentialites are very adept at.
And three skills that they might lose if pressured to narrow their focus.
As a society, we have a vested interest
in encouraging multipotentialites to be themselves.
We have a lot of complex, multidimensional problems in the world right now,
and we need creative, out-of-the-box thinkers to tackle them.
Now, let's say that you are in your heart a specialist.
You came out of the womb
knowing you wanted to be a pediatric neurosurgeon.
Don't worry, there's nothing wrong with you either.
(Laughter)
In fact, some of the best teams
are comprised of a specialist and a multipotentialite paired together.
A specialist can dive-in deep and implement ideas
while the multipotentialite brings a breadth of knowledge to the project.
It's a beautiful partnership.
But we should all be designing lives and careers
that are aligned with how we are wired,
and sadly, multipotentialites are largely being encouraged
simply to be more like their specialist peers.
So, with that said;
if there's one thing you take away from this talk,
I hope that it is this:
embrace your inner wiring whatever that may be.
If you are a specialist at heart, then by all means, specialize.
That is where you'll do your best work.
But, to the multipotentialites in the room
- including those of you who may have just realized
in the last 12 minutes that you are one -
(Laughter)
to you I say: embrace your many passions,
follow your curiosity down those rabbit holes,
explore your intersections.
Embracing our inner wiring leads to a happier, more authentic life
and perhaps more importantly,
multipotentialites,
the world needs us.
Thank you.
(Applause)