- Babe, do you want to go parasailing today?
Are you good, Brandon, or no?
So Brandon wakes up.
And you know, he's not in the best mood.
He's not talking to me.
I'm just very confused at this point.
I don't know what's going on with him.
I just-- I don't know what to do because the Brandon
I thought I knew changed very quickly.
I get a little hangry.
What about you?
I didn't have an opportunity to talk to you privately,
which I really wanted to do.
Earlier, I got upset with you.
I don't know if you remember.
You woke me up by--
with the camera in my face.
And it-- it kind of put me in a bad place.
It-- I had a panic attack, you know
I didn't say anything to you right then and there.
But I honestly didn't feel well at all.
You know, I don't know if you saw, but I--
I was shaking.
It was that bad.
Like, it was a lot.
No, it didn't seem like it was that bad.
I mean, you didn't say anything.
You didn't-- one, you didn't look scared.
You did jump out the bed.
I didn't?
Hey, I was deep--
breathing pretty deeply.
I'm not used to--
it's been a while since I've had someone in my life.
And anytime that I have something going on,
I typically just like to retreat.
And now I have to understand that there's
someone else in my life, and I can't just do that.
And I apologize.
The fact that you didn't tell me that something bothered you,
I went around all day thinking, like, something's
just wrong with you, because I don't feel like I did anything.
All I did was make, like, a cute video of you snoring.
And that's, like, obviously set you off, which is--
in my book, it's weird.
Like, if something--
That's not weird.
No, I'm saying it's weird that, like--
from my point of view, I'm making a cute video.
And you didn't seem scared and then, like,
didn't get any communication from you the rest of the day.
What I'm telling you is I apologize.
It was a lot for me.
You could have said, hey, like, there's
something that you did that's bothering me.
Like, I'm not ready to talk about it.
But I just--
I just need my space.
We just met three days ago.
I didn't know how you were going to react.
I didn't know if it was going to turn into a blow up,
we could have resolved it, or whatever.
I signed up for this because I wanted a teammate.
And today I felt ignored, and I didn't have my teammate.
And I'm questioning myself, like,
is this really going to work?
I don't need space.
But I respect that you value your space.
And that's something I tried to give you.
But I gave you your space.
Who knew that you weren't going to talk to me all day?
I make mistakes.
But, damn, I apologized, like, 1,000 times.
Get over it.
Don't talk to me like that.
I'm not going to--
I didn't sign up to be disrespected.
I didn't sign up to be talked to some type of way.
I'm not weak.
And that's not how I want to be talked to.
Oh.
I'm so sorry.
I didn't-- I didn't know how to talk to you.
And so I just took it upon myself
to stay away from you until I knew how to approach you.
And then when everything is kind of calm,
maybe we can talk about it.
And that's what we're doing right now.
But I'm sorry how I handled it.
I feel like in the future--
I mean, I'm not saying, like, oh, we're three days in,
you should be able to talk to me about anything.
But if something bothers you, I just
feel like just spit it out.
And you're my husband.
I care about you.
Like, I want to talk to you.
But I feel like you should want to do the same.
Can I say this?
Sure.
You're 100% right.
I was being stupid.
I should be able to talk to you about anything.
And I apologize.
Can you forgive me?
Yeah, you want to move closer to me now?
I do.
[LAUGHING]
I don't think that I deserve to be ignored all day.
But I also feel really bad that I caused him such anxiety
over something so small.
And now that he's apologized, and we've talked about it,
I feel like we can be back to our normal selves.