In today's video, I'll be sharing with you six foolproof signs that the girl you've been checking
out wants you to approach her; so you can go make your move. What are some signs you give a guy if
you want him to approach you and make sure to watch until the very end because I'll give you a
bonus tip that will allow you to approach nearly any woman at any time even if you don't see all
of these signs all right man before we dive in I want you to see that approaching women is often
way more effective than online dating for getting dates for five main reasons number one you stand
out from all the other guys there is countless competition online there is way fewer guys who
actually have the cojones to go up and approach a woman and when you're thinking about getting dates
you need to consider methods that have a lot less competition so that you can stand out number two
you know her vibe and energy you're not gonna get catfished because you already know exactly
what she looks like and you have some sense about her because you've already interacted with her in
person number three she knows your Vibe and energy so she's going to be a lot more comfortable with
you for the exact same reason number four you showed massive courage you had the balls to
approach her beautiful women are attracted to men who are confident and courageous and who
take action you can't show that online at least not in the same way so when you approach her in
person as long as you do it the way that we show you she's gonna be a lot more attracted to you
versus online dating which is all about pictures basically it's all about your looks at number five
because of that exact same reason you can usually date women that are much more attractive when you
approach them in person because it's not all about your looks anymore it's about how you actually
made her feel in that moment so unless you're a ridiculously good-looking Abercrombie model
you're probably gonna do a lot better approaching women in real life plus it's just way more fun to
actually go out and meet women in real life versus sitting at home just swiping bro bro bro so don't
be that guy that when a woman walks past him he thinks golly I hope we match on Bumble what the
[ __ ] all right now that we got that out of the way let's jump into sign number six that she wants
you to approach her she makes eye contact with you more than two seconds do you know what a woman
does when she catches the eye of someone she's not interested in she quickly looks away and usually
tries to avoid looking in that general direction for the rest of the night that's the moment where
I shot it down on that blue initially so I give the look back which says I'm not interested in
you so if she keeps eye contact with you longer than two seconds then she definitely finds you
interesting and probably wants to know more about you if I like the guy I will look at him longer
than I usually do usually that alone is enough Assurance for you to go ahead and walk up to her
but if you're looking for some more Assurance then make sure to look out for a smile if she smiles
when she's looking at you or if she gives you what I call the three-part glance which is when she he
looks at you looks away and then looks back at you with a smile on her face then that's a definite
sign that she wants you to come over you look and you not smile but you look with the interest in
him so that's what I do any further hesitation from you at this point will just make you look
like a scared little boy and she'll very quickly lose interest my vagina would just retract next
on our list of things to look out for if you want to know if she wants you to approach her 10 times
out of ten when a woman wants you to come over and talk to her she'll make it very clear with her
body language her body will be very open to you that means she'll most likely be leaning towards
your direction or even turn completely towards you one of the clearest body language cues that
a woman wants you to come approach her is she starts preening when you come closer to her or
when you start looking in her Direction this kind of looks like when a bird fluffs or arranges its
feathers when it's trying to attract a male to mate with when you notice that she often seems
to be fixing her hair or adjusting her earrings or reapplying lipstick she's likely expecting
you to come up to her soon and she's trying to get herself pretty maybe somebody like you know like
yeah being sexy like I think for me eye contact at this point a lot of guys start thinking well
why don't women just approach me like why don't women approach guys why is it us guys that have
to do all the work me no no it's not happening and my simple answer is this taking action stepping
into tension and doing an act of Courage is highly masculine and yes there are women who
can definitely step into their masculine and go approach a guy it's just rare because most women
have a more feminine Essence and most men with a masculine core or masculine Essence are going to
be attracted to those types of more feminine women so when you're thinking why don't women approach
me more why don't women approach men more you're basically saying why can't I just be more feminine
and women be more masculine well the reason is it's gonna depolarize the relationship most
attractive feminine women want a masculine man a man with a more masculine core which is why women
find it very attractive when you approach them in a confident and Charming way it makes them light
up from the very beginning because you're showing a very masculine quality when you approach her
all right let's jump into the next sign which is one that you'll commonly spot because most
women aren't bold enough or assertive enough to do this but this one does happen sometimes so
I don't want you to miss it and it's basically the female equivalent of a big neon sign above
her head and it's simply if she's checking you out this is gold if she's clearly looking at
you from head to toe this is definitely not the time to get all flustered and hot no no no this
is the time to grow your big man balls and walk up to her with confidence the other day I like
the guy it was in a club he looked at me I didn't look at him but I looked at his eye to his eyes
so he understand that I was interested so he come to get my Instagram and everything any hesitation
at this point will probably make her mortified at what she just did and because women hate rejection
twice as much as men she will avoid your eyes like you were Medusa for the rest of the night
sign number three that she definitely wants you to approach her is when you find that she keeps
coming closer to you maybe you both spotted each other when you were at the bar and she
was at a table with her friends in the middle of the restaurant then you turned around to order a
drink and when you turned back she's standing by the Jukebox miles away from her friend and a lot
closer to you or maybe she was in front of you in line and she let the two other people that stood
between the two of you go on in front of her the point is as soon as you notice that she's trying
to create some sort of proximity between the two of you this is usually a very clear sign that she
wants you to talk to her this next one is one that I see so many guys often take for granted is when
she says something indirect to you or sometimes not even to you but in your general direction
here's what I mean maybe you're at a crowded bar and you're watching the game on TV and she throws
an open question to the whole room something like oh great who's playing tonight or you're walking
down the street and she stops you and asks you what time it is or she asks to for directions
what happened is she just started a conversation with you which is basically an opening for you to
make your move and this is something women do a lot because she wasn't Direct in her intent
or interest in you so it won't sting her as badly if she feels like you rejected her she could even
get her answer from someone else and no one would be the wiser that she was actually trying to get
you to talk to her but do not miss out on these sort of signals because like I said earlier women
rarely approach men so if she did even just to ask a simple very indirect question take it as a hint
I see so many guys say well she was just asking me for directions so I gave her the answer and that's
it which could be true but it could also be true that she used the directions as an excuse to talk
to you and she was hoping that you would take the hint and take it further remember the masculine
is more direct in its communication style the feminine is a lot more indirect so unless she's
totally in her masculine at the moment she's probably not gonna walk up to you and say hi
you're really handsome what's your name in fact I've only had something like that happen two
times in my entire life and both times I thought the girl was a hooker she's a hooker isn't she
a prostitute yes and both times the girls were pretty cute so luckily I wasn't dumb enough
to say are you a hooker no I just said are you working right now and both times the girl said
no what are you talking about working I said Oh I thought you worked at one of these stores anyways
hi my name is Matt and it went quite well now I know what you're thinking why can't more girls
be like that and yeah we would love it if they could just step into that masculine energy when
they saw a guy like you but unless you look like Brad Pitt from Troy probably not going to happen
very much and finally gentlemen sign number one the last but definitely not the least signal that
she wants you to come over and have some Chit Chat is when she sets up a situation where the two of
you might run into each other now guys this is one sign that you do not want to let slip past
you because it creates what they like to call in Hollywood a neat cute that will make an awesome
story for you to tell others if it ends up working out between the two of you basically a meat cute
is a romantic comedy movie scene where the two people meet for the first time under unusual
humorous or cute circumstances so if you find yourself bumping into her at the grocery store
aisle or full-on running into each other with arms full of books in the library oops sorry oh that's
okay oh that's crazy nobody ever gets my order I'm Steve I'm Claire as long as she's not preoccupied
with somebody else or giving you the stink eye then that's a pretty clear sign that she may have
constructed that opportunity she definitely wants you to introduce yourself believe it or not there
are actually dating coach companies for women that take the clients out to public places and try to
construct these meat cutes there needs to be more of those companies now that's it for the list but
I want to address something that's I think very important so you don't miss out on opportunities
some dating coaches out there will say it's best to wait for two or three of these signs before you
go up and talk to her to be sure that she really really wants you to approach her I don't think
that's a good idea in fact I say all of these signs and here's why by the time you're sitting
around waiting for any of these signs you're probably going to be getting in your head and
overthinking the situation overthinking what do you say to her and how do you go about approaching
her or simply the situation changes maybe she wasn't showing you any signs or maybe she was
showing you some signs but you just didn't catch them then at the end of the day you end up not
talking to that beautiful woman that you wanted to approach and honestly guys I've approached
somewhere between five thousand and ten thousand women my life I don't know the exact number I lost
count and to be honest if I was waiting for these signs it would be probably like 10 or 20 women I
rarely see any of these signs the only sign I need to see which is what I recommend for you are the
following three requirements number one she's not in the middle of something very important and if
she is you could just wait until she's not doing that thing that she's doing number two she's not
with a man and even if she is with a man it could just be her gay best friend or her brother so even
then I kind of break that rule often times and I still approach and then number three you find
her attractive that's it those are the only signs or requirements that you actually need
now it's still good to know the other six that I mentioned because if you do see one of those
six you definitely want to capitalize on it but you don't want to only wait for those signs or
you're gonna miss a lot of opportunities because sometimes a woman's just walking down the street
and she didn't even see you but if you saw her and she's not busy she's not with a guy who's
clearly her boyfriend and you're attracted to her then go talk to her because I see no reason
why you shouldn't be able to just walk up to her like the calm confident man that I've taught you
to be give her a Charming compliment ask her a few questions to make sure you like her besides
just her looks and then ask her out for ice cream don't hesitate to make your move as long as you
approach her in a bold honest and open way that makes her day she'll absolutely love it and if
it seems scary because you didn't see any of the six signs then just walk up to her and ask her for
directions and then notice her reaction notice if then after you ask her where Starbucks is
she gives you some of those sides those are pretty clear indicators that she wants you to keep going
and even if she's not into it it's totally fine not every day is Christmas you'll probably get
another shot with someone equally as attractive tomorrow now to reduce your chances of getting
rejected so that you create an amazing first impression that Sparks instant attraction and
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my name is Matt Artisan from The Attractive Man coaching team and I'll see you in the next video