three questions questions is how do you overcome social anxiety master the mind and
how do you live with the feeling of the wish fulfilled
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helps to understand the laws as we've been talking about them today but it's
sort of like if it rains going eighty miles an hour that way and you want to
go eighty miles an hour that way you don't want it to happen suddenly it
would be hard on what honor in the train so just a matter of giving less
attention to what you don't want until it flows down and more attention to what
you do want until it so after three questions again how do you manage your
mind by acknowledging that you have the ability to think the thought that you
mean the Fink by realizing that you don't have to be a reactor that you can
be a finger but by accepting that law of attraction abound and that if there is
already some momentum going it's not wrong that the momentum keeps going that
way the first step in math three of your own mind is not be mad at yourself
because you don't have mastery of your own mind relax in and giving yourself a
break in acknowledging that it is possible and then most of all no T
Nguyen pay attention to the correlation between good feeling thought that you've
bought and good feeling results that you found after had an experience of mastery
fairly recently a person asked her for a job and she was in a state of
overwhelming when he asked her she was leaving one of her houses and there were
many things that needed to be attended to and she knew that she could intend to
them from a distance and so he presented himself and she felt like she was in a
receptive mode because it seemed like a good idea to her but her receptive mood
was one of overwhelming too much to do and so she hired him and he was not an
effective person in that job far from it
where later when she was feeling such appreciation in the same place
feeling such appreciation about what was going on another person presented
himself to her as she thought it was the best law of attraction idea she'd ever heard well she
thought the other was a pretty good idea to but this felt like a really good idea
because she was a good feeling place as that played out it's been flawless and
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stay after the fact in this way she remembered how she felt when she hired
that guy and she saw the results she got from that hiring and then she remembered
how she felt when she got that guy and she saw the result of that hiring you
are getting up from a three is really just paying attention how you feel and
paying attention to what come as a result of how you been feeling but if
you're not deliberate about it you just thinking about this and thinking about
this and reacted to that reacting to that then it's harder to accomplish that
mastery dissociation
knowing the rules of the game playing them deliberately and watching for the
results thank you for the question because it's really an important answer
because one night have social anxiety cause I don't know what triggers a look
inside my mind delay what what is it and I look into my dogs are you saying
social social again excellent I'm just talking to a stranger picking up the
phone making a cell in a room full of people I don't know yet hear you're
doing alright you're not having any social anxiety not just go with it you
know once I'm someone's homey feel the fear and do it anyway because whatever
you want is behind that fear
well we're not encouraging you to feel the fear and push through it all though
sometimes you're in a situation where you have no choice you can't just
evaporate because you have any fear I'm going to cease to exist because I feel
fear that's not what we're encouraging either you have to continue to be but
here is what is at the core of this and as you hear this is gonna go a long way
in helping you to release it to the living of life that you cannot control
what others do or how they think or how they feel and so if it is important to
you that they approve of you that you can't control their approval
then you feel anxiety you have to get into this unconditional place where what
they think is not your criteria for the way you control your life
the criteria for the way you control your life is how you feel in the
reflective mode so that was really good to hear that because frankly you can't
trust others because they don't care enough about you in most cases it's not
their job anyway to feel about you the way you need them to feel about you in
order for you to feel good so it's really a wonderful thing to acknowledge
Esther said to someone not that long ago this is the thing that I've learned more
in the last year then maybe all of the things put together no matter how much I
try to explain myself to somebody else they're not gonna get me I just can't
get me they haven't had enough exposure to the things that I've had exposure to
in order to understand why I am Who I am so they're not gonna get me and so it's
gotta stop mattering to me that they get me they're not gonna law of attraction get me to resign
gotta give it up while you were saying like mastery over that you ask something
abraham hicks new 2016 it's there but the only way you can have it is by being receptive going to that
frequency and the only way I have overcome it or in the process of it is
pretty much asking myself why does it feel like to be charismatic how does it
feel like to be confident and courageous and I assume the feeling that I think
it's like mastering that so yeah not assume any better when it becomes a
habit where you do it naturally the more you do it I thought that you think often
becomes a belief and unbelief if the momentum of your point of attraction
it's what we were talking about earlier about its easier to have those kinds of
thoughts first thing in the day when there's left momentum going on and so
just wake up and very good advice that you're giving yourself and others focus
upon your positive aspects your own positive and the positive aspects of
anyone or anything when I ask something I have to realize that it's not
something I'd sit down and do is something that as I'm doing I have to
become the things that i won
so they can come to me because I one thing I realize that everything that I
want wants me because it already exists and substance well-off attraction says
that must be true because you meet like this for a while we were talking about
the different emotions and we were talking about a sort of like flying disc
there's the on Rediff and there's the depressed death and there's the angry
this and there's the landfill death and then there's the revengeful disk because
revenge has more control in it then vulnerability and then there's the
overwhelming disk and then there's the happier desk and happier and happier and
happier and so if your laundry and your meeting up with always-on way people
will you're just all on the same day if you weren't flying high and they jumped
on your disk in major laundry you gotta take responsibility for how you feel and
it's easier to do that as with so many times today by getting out ahead of it
by wanting to feel law of attraction good
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