Tripp from Tripp Advice.com and let me ask you a question.
Have you been getting phone numbers?
Has a girl given you her phone numbers?
Has a girl put her phone number into your phone?
Or maybe she wrote it down somewhere and you actually have a physical number in your hand.
Has this happened to you?
And after getting her number, have you been confused on what to do with it?
Or maybe you think you know and then you tried to get a date or get her to hang out and it
just hasn’t worked?
Today’s video, we’re going to be going over what a phone number actually means and
how you can take that number and successfully turn it into a date.
A lot of guys get excited about numbers.
They’ll say I got 3 numbers this weekend, I got 5 numbers, I got 10 numbers tonight!
It’s crazy.
And that is pretty crazy.
That is good.
It’s good to get phone numbers.
However, phone numbers aren’t the ultimate goal.
A lot of guys think getting a number is the end goal.
But it’s not the end goal.
Your goal is much bigger than that.
It’s probably to get a date with her and it’s probably even bigger than that.
I’m sure a lot of you guys out there want girlfriends, you want to spend time with a
girl, you want to date and you want to have sexual experiences with women.
When a girl gives you her phone number, what does this mean?
This is her saying to you, I’m interested in you enough to see where this can go.
That’s what she’s saying to you.
I’m interested in you enough to see where this goes.
I’m guessing that’s the same for you too right?
You’re saying hey I’m interested in enough.
I want to see where this goes.
Let me get her phone number so we can meet up.
That’s where you are at that point.
Understanding this, this is why there are many times a phone number doesn’t work out.
A girl doesn’t respond to your texts, a girl doesn’t answer your call, a girl maybe
answers your text but when you ask her out or you try to meet up with her she doesn’t
respond.
All these different things can go wrong.
Knowing this, how can you take a phone number like this and turn it into a date?
I’ll say this, this is my ultimate rule in terms of getting a girl to meet up with
you.
You need to wait as little as possible between the time you get her number and the time where
you guys actually meet up.
Why?
Because girls are busy and girls will also be busy enough to lose attraction for you.
We have a lot of things happening in our life.
We have jobs, we have social media hitting us left and right, we have friends, we have
money issues, we have other issues that I couldn’t even list right here because there’s
so many.
We have plans, we have goals, there’s so may things going on in our life.
And so if you end up taking a long time from getting her number to getting her to meet
up, all those things in between are going to make her lose attraction because she’s
going to forget about you more and more.
Another thing that happens too is she’s giving her number to maybe a few other guys.
Or maybe she’s going out and meeting other guys between the point where you got her number
to the point where you meet up.
What’s happening there?
She’s interested in the other guys who are taking action.
It’s up to you to minimize that time and get her to meet up as soon as possible or
else attraction will die.
You might be thinking what the hell am I supposed to do?
Text her that next morning and get her to go to breakfast with me?
That’s possible.
Here’s a general rule that you can follow to make this easy for you.
I would text her or call her within about 24 to 36 hours.
That is the maximum.
24 to 36 hours.
Some of you might be thinking whoa Tripp that is way too soon.
You got to wait 3 days.
You got to wait 6 days.
You can’t be too needy.
This is not needy.
A girl wants you to ask her out.
If she’s giving you her phone number, the chances are she really does want to meet up
with you and why not make that happen as soon as possible?
She’s not going to be upset that you asked her out on a date a day after you got her
number.
If she is, that’s insane.
With most girls, that’s not gonna be the case.
They want to meet up with you, they want to give it a shot.
You are going to contact her within 24 to 36 hours.
If you want me to be more specific here I would say if you meet her at night, hit her
up the next day late afternoon.
If you meet her during the day, maybe hit her up later that night, make plans or hit
her up the next afternoon.
Somewhere around 24 to 36 hours.
Is that it?
Is it really that easy?
Yeah, it’s that easy.
Most of the time I see guys get phone numbers, they don’t do anything with them or they’ll
sit there texting the girl and wait forever to actually ask her out.
What you’re going to do within those 24 to 36 hours is you’re gonna text her and
you’re gonna ask her out.
You’re gonna get her to meet up.
You’re gonna ask her what her week is like and see when she’s free.
Pick a place and then go for it.
It’s really that simple.
The mistakes that guys make is doing that too far along and waiting too many days in
order to get her out.
What about the phone call?
Listen, these days it’s totally ok to set up a date via text.
Most girls are just used to that and that’s what’s happening.
The only instance in which you would do a phone call is if you met a girl very quickly.
Let’s say you met a girl, you got her number in 10 minutes.
That might not be enough time to make her actually want to go on a date with you.
The rule of thumb here is give her a call.
Talk to her for a little bit and then set up the date.
In the same exact way you would with texting.
Find out when she’s free, pick a place, pick a spot, pick a time.
I want you to be the man and you do that.
Don’t ask her, where should we go, or what’s your favorite restaurant.
Pick a place, get her availability, and then say cool let’s go out on this date.
We’ll meet here at 8 o’clock.
This is the fastest and easiest way to turn that phone number into a date.
You don’t need to over think it.
You don’t need to do too much.
A lot of guys think this and this is the myth, that you have to build attraction over text.
And that you have to do some special magical things in between the time you get her phone
number all the way to the point where you get a date.
That’s not true.
You want to minimize that time, get her on a date and then you can go from there.
I got something for you.
If you haven’t checked out Tripp’’s Tension Technique, then I highly suggest you
do because when you’re on that date.
You finally get a date with a girl, this is a really powerful move that you can use on
a first date assuming that it goes really well.
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It’s like a touching move and it’s going to turn her on.
You can get that right here on the screen, or below in the description.
Watch the video of me demonstrating it live with a girl that’s going to help you turn
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next video.