Uncle C, back in the office and in this video, I'm going to be discussing the four ways to
make any woman miss you. And I'm actually extremely excited to bring this video to bring
this content to you, for a variety of reasons, okay, the first reason is that this works,
if you just met a woman, this works if you're in a 10 year relationship, this works if you
haven't been on a date in five years, this works if you're married. Okay, the really
cool thing is that when a woman has strong emotional pull towards you, what you're going
to notice is that she will fight tooth and nail to actually see you genuinely take interest
in you genuinely have desire for you and want to be part of your life. And those are beautiful
things when you actually know how to manifest them. The problem today is that 99% of men
don't know how to manifest it. But not only that, they don't know what sort of traits
to actually use or display within themselves that they naturally can just show or put out
there to make these things happen. Now, as I present to you end to end on this whiteboard,
as we move from this side to this side, I want you to really think of three things the
whole time. The first question I want you to ask yourself is, when in the past could
have I used all of these tools Casey is teaching me, the second thing I want you to ask yourself
is how can I use these in the future. And the third is, is there things I can be doing
right now, to make my life better, so that way, these
things have more impact. Keep those three questions in the back of your mind throughout
this entire presentation. Let's dive in. How to make the woman missing number one,
the biggest motivating factor for her is when she sees that you have a life of abundance,
okay. And with most other dating channels, with most other self help channels, I typically
do not like the way this statements actually presented. So I'm gonna make my best attempt
to go a little deeper with it. When I say you have a life of abundance. The biggest
hardest Hitting Point is this. Dates don't work if you can't take her into your life,
if you can't take her into your world. Okay, typically, when you look at how dates go with
men, they have a brief one to one interaction. But these interactions aren't centered on
anything that he does throughout his typical day to day life or his day to day routine.
These interactions are also not centered on anything that this woman typically does on
her day to day routine. Okay, what tends to happen is that now both of you are in an environment
that is not necessarily accustomed to. And this goes against every single principle,
I believe that as a man is because you have to actually have a strong stable world for
her to fall into. And you have to do this, whether it's the first experience, meaning
you have to do this, whether you've been in a relationship for a long time. What this
means is dates don't work, if you cannot take her into your life, one of the best things
you can do is show her ways where you're competent. Okay. That's why
one of the things I've done in the past is since I always work out, one of my first dates
would be obviously going to the gym together, okay, and I'm into women who, you know, look
good, or take care of themselves. What does this do? Well, first off, I know how to exercise.
So this is now allowing me to lead the workout. This is allowing me to give tips, this is
allowing me to give help, she's now viewing me as the dominant in the interaction. Okay,
what this is doing is this is something I would do day to day anyways. And this is really
great because it displays strength. And when it displays strength, what she now gets to
do Is she gets to fill this helper role, okay, so she's included. And when she's included,
if you let's say you're, let's say you're an insurance agent, okay, and you need help
doing some sort of fliers, or you're having some sort of festival or something and you're
trying to get leads out there. You don't you can shoot that text that says, hey, I need
help with setup, I really wouldn't mind if you did that for me or with me, yada, yada,
yada. Bam, now she's coming into your world, this display strength. And not only that,
when she's in the helper role, she now feels included. She's like, oh, wow, I'm actually
included in this man's life, he must really like me, we must really have a strong emotional
connection. He must really think I'm amazing. And trust me that he wants to actually bring
me into this world. All of these things are massive brownie points in that woman's brain.
The second biggest factor, why the life of abundance is so needed is because she starts
to realize that she won't be included if she's not with you, which stems to this point. And
that's the cost of inaction, which leads her in her brain thinking, hmm, if I don't take
him off on this offer, if I'm not consistently putting forth effort to take him up on this
offer, somebody else is going to fulfill this role for him. So the cost of inaction for
that woman typically hits harder, which leads her to come into your frame to want to go
on these dates, but the fact is, you have to have a life going on so she can see that.
That way. You get to display your leadership. You get to display your competence. You get
to display what you're good at. These are all attractive roles, it's going to make her
want you. The second way, this is going to be the biggest impact is just straight up
other women. Now you don't necessarily have to be sleeping with all these women, you don't
necessarily have to be attempting to have all these one night stands or even casual
partners if you wish. But let's take a look at what a woman's s3 actual currency is. If
you take a look at my new webinar, I just launched the MBT webinar, you can go down
after this video and actually take a look at it. I talked about perceptual currency.
Okay, and a woman's sexual currency is your time as a man, your attention as a man your
validation as a man and your energy? Those are the things that give a woman heightened
sensitivity that says, hmm, he really likes me. And typically where the tables get turned
is when he's putting in that level of investment, and she's not doing anything to deserve it
or to maintain it for that matter. And this is how a woman's brain works. Let's say you
just slept with a woman share, go, okay. He wanted to have sex. It's not necessarily as
big of a deal to that woman because this is not playing into her s3 actual currency. However,
if she can look at you, she goes, he spends time with her. He spends time with her frequently.
He spends energy with he spends his energy chasing her around frequently or being with
her frequently, right? He's actually investing into her. She's gonna go Oh, my gosh, why?
What does she have that I don't. And this stems into my next point, which is fear of
loss. Point number one, to make a woman miss you cost of inaction. Point number two fear
of loss. What is she losing out on? She does not fill that spot. And other women are one
of the best ways to do that. Because chances are if other women are now with you, there's
perceived value. That means you're the type of man that he can attract women be beautiful
women want to be with and see, you have no issue speaking, you have no issues pulling
you have no issues being you. These are attractive traits to women. Number three is going to
be unpredictability. Okay, here's the good to remember about unpredictability, though,
unpredictability only works if you can establish those deep connections within the first couple
of interactions. Even if you go watch pickup, you go watch the great pickup artists. He
may be with casual partners frequently, but the first five minutes of that interaction
every single time. He's so strong within his demeanor
that Guess what, he makes the deepest emotional connection
with that woman instantly. And it's because he's not just talking to girl, he's talking
to her, the person right in front of them, and the person right in front of them, he
can zone out all the other noise, he can zone out all the other confusion, he can zone out
everybody else and he can get one to one with that person. No matter how loud the club music
is, no matter how loud the surrounding is, it does not matter. This unpredictability
only works when you've developed the charisma. And not only that, the confidence to genuinely
be okay with speaking to other humans on a deep level to very key. Now, what does this
do? Once you've established his deep connection, now you can really bring the level of unpredictability
that she needs to give some sort of emotional volatility. This is when you can mix in different
types of text message, flirty text message facetimes occasionally, or randomly, certain
voice notes, okay, where most men are snap streaking these women, you can kill the streak,
or I've even seen men who take 24 hours to reply or 48 hours to reply. And it's not even
because they're trying to go see a woman, it's solely due to the fact that a they don't
check that app or that messaging platform often be they have a life of abundance with
other things going around. It's not important for that man to see that selfie. And that's
when she starts to actually understand this guy probably has life figured out on a deeper
level than most. Number four, clear on what you want. I personally believe this is the
number one reason that dates go so self is because the man is not clear on what he wants.
Let's look at it this way. If a man wants s 3x from a woman, he now plays the opposite.
And he actually he wants a relationship for fear of offending. However, if a man genuinely
deep down wants a relationship, he's not going to think that that's weak. And that's beta
and he's gonna prefer pursue for s3 x just because he thinks that he has to you wonder
why so many of these women don't trust men. It's because 99% of men on these dates are
manipulative, they are not upfront with their desires, which means you need to get extremely
clear on what you want. You need to get extremely clear on what you want. If you want a stable
relationship, you need to act as if you need to act as if that's the point you're going
towards. Because at least that way that women can trust you. However, if you do want quick
thrills, high emotional lust and sex, you're gonna have to play that role. And that's the
thing is you got to get congruent with what you want. And see this is why men can do that
they can't make those deep connections is because now the whole time. It's a small talk.
And this is the number one reason why the bond is not there. What do you have to do?
In order to fix this, well first off, you have to be okay with yourself. If you are
the type of man that is the player vibe and the player type, you need to own it regardless
of how she thinks. If you are the type of man where you know that you're more structured,
you're more rigid, you need to fully be that and be okay with it. And the fact is a true
you only can shine when you're comfortable with speaking comfortable with navigating
the field this way, and you don't necessarily care about the outcome. These are the four
tips I personally believe will make any woman miss you. And if you live by these rules,
if you will, accordingly. Not only you're going to have success in dating, but you're
also finally going to feel like you're in the driver's seat and not the passenger and
me personally, I find that very appealing to any man. If you liked the video, hit the
like button. I'd also like you to check out two links that I have at the bottom. The first
link is for you if you're a man struggling in a current committed relationship slash
marriage if that is you, I want you to go down below watch my relationship blueprint
mastery end to end broadcast so that way we can have the chance to work one to one together.
Or if you're a man who struggles attracting women, you struggle speaking, right, you're
struggling getting flaked on, you're getting dumped, I want you to go down below and I
want you to book a call with my brother Cole. Because he's going to actually screen you
to see if you're a fit for the full stack one percenter application and program and
that's when you're going to get some of my best systems to get rid of all of that preconceived
notions, you're going to actually build a new you and become a different type of man.
We'll see you in the next one.