Ladies! We have now arrived to module three. And module three is all about your
personal appearance. It's about your fashion, the way you
dress. It's about your beauty and your grooming.
And it's about your body and how you stay in shape. All of these three factors
are the mayor basics when it comes to transformation and what comes to
leveling-up. Everybody has to go through this, there are no cutting corners on
this one. We have to get our looks in order, meaning we have to get our fashion
in order, our beauty and our body. Those three are so important. Why? Well first of
all, you do want to attract the opposite sex and the opposite sex in the wealthy
Society - rich men basically - they all want to have a beautiful woman. And not
everybody needs to be a supermodel, a Victoria's Secret model. Know that there are
many, how can I say, more normal looking girls that become wives to rich wealthy
men. But they still have to look well taken care of. They have to look
beautiful in terms of how they present themselves. They have to look clean-cut
and fresh, so they have to be on top of their game. Which is why this module is
super important! So that means your presentation has to be up to standard!
It's a big big part of your personal brand! And we have focus in this
course on personal branding and image development. Trust me, this module is all
about image development! It's all about how we want to be perceived in people's
eyes and dress accordingly and groom ourselves accordingly. But then there are
ladies who say "yeah but I'm not pretty" "yeah I have a bit of overweight"... Okay... But
you can do something about?... It it's really what I answer because that is the
truth here ladies. I wouldn't bring up this topic if it's not fixable you know.
If this is something God just gave to us and we just have to take it or leave it,
then what's the point even talking about it? The whole point is that, actually, just
as behavior, just as entering the high society - everything is possible! You don't
have to be born with beautiful looks or beautiful features. You don't
have to be thin. You can create being thin or slender or in shape - whatever! You
can create a beautiful canvas, you can create a nice overall appearance. YOU are
the creator. YOU are the creator of yourself. The reason why you look the way
you look today - and that can be very good, that can be very bad, that can be
average - I don't know how all of you girls look like! But the reason why you
look the way you look today is because you have created yourself in this way.
You have taken certain decisions to make yourself look this way. Yeah we were born
with certain features, we were born with certain genetic codes - that's true! Which
is why this module might be a little bit more difficult for some people and it
might be a bit easier for other people. But that doesn't mean that the people
who find it a bit more difficult that it's game over for them! That they cannot
do anything that they might as well just jump onto the next module. NO girls! No,
this is really in our hands! This is why I'm so passionate about transformation
because it gives us this incredible power to be in control of ourselves, of our
lives and our future! Girls, our future is so reliant of what we do today with
ourselves. Like the seeds we plant will manifest in the future. So if we
start by looking after ourselves, our appearance, that will pay off in the
future! Beauty is very high valued in our society. Beauty pays off! When you are a
beautiful lady, you get so many benefits! Yeah it's unfair, yeah it's annoying, but
that is the reality today and we can't control that. It's just the way the
society is built. BUT, we can take advantage of it! We can make the most out
of it! And we can use it our own benefit! We can work really really hard on
polishing up our appearance so that it is up to the standard that we need to
have it as. And the benefits are going to start
manifesting in your life really. It's that simple. But like I mentioned in the
previous modules, it's not only bound to looks you know. It's about the entire
package, which is why I didn't want to go straight into looks because I know that
most girls that's exactly where they put ALL their energy on. Which can be good in
a way but it can also be bad sometimes. Because the other necessary parts can
get neglected you know. This actually reminds me of one of the
things ,one of the struggles that I really noticed in that looks Department.
Girls who do not get their looks right! Oh this is like such a big problem!
Because especially when girls invest a lot of time, money, energy
in their appearance but they just make all the wrong choices!
And it's all for nothing you know. They want to level up, they want to become
high-caliber women but they make the wrong choices! They make themselves look
not what's beneficial for their journey. They make the opposite. They put even
more obstacles on their journey, because they're making the wrong choices. Oh this
is so tricky you know. Because first of all you, don't want to offend anybody.
You maybe don't even have the right to correct somebody! So I hope that
in this course you know we can really be vulnerable
enough to open ourselves up, even to the point that it maybe feels a bit
uncomfortable. But it can be really really necessary. I'm not saying
that I'm going to sit and dictate to you. Like do this and do that, and whatever I
say is the right way! No of course not! I can only share with you my
personal opinion and then you also have the community who can help you.
But I do encourage you to share your current state if that makes sense. And
ask for feedback! This will be in our workbook! I do encourage because this is
actually invaluable. And this is why I wanted to build a community around this
online course. Because it's not only about the theory, but what about how we
are right here right now? We need help to sometimes to
get into details and understand where we are doing right, where are we doing
wrong. This is like the key to success. And we're able to really take that
courage - because this requires courage - well we can do that, be honest
with ourselves and then correct our mistakes. And yeah this is not easy, this
is not an easy process! I had to go through some painful reality checks when
it comes to my appearance - let me tell you! I thought I had some things on point.
I thought I was all that. At some point I thought I looked perfect. I didn't
understand like how come all these friends of mine, they have so much better
success than me? Like I don't look that shabby! What is wrong with me?
And I couldn't really understand that actually maybe it was a little bit
off-putting the Acne that I had on my face to the rich man that I tried to
date? Maybe my hair - before I got extensions - it was very damaged
It just looked like something you
sweep the floor with like a broom you know. I
wasn't in my greatest shape. I was a bit like "no shape" and a bit like "cellulite
girl" you know... I wasn't in my prime state and when you're not in your prime state
that's what it's difficult to attract the primates or the primer social scene.
Like attracts like in the end of the day. So who we want to
attract into your life, we have to resemble them as much as possible. This
is why I keep saying ladies. Stay on top of your game! So in this module I will of
course talk about the things that we maybe don't do correctly and I will also
share with you the things that you should do correctly, where you should put the
emphasis. There I will share with you where I think the girls are doing wrong but
what I know from my experience are the secrets to make your fashion, your beauty
and of course your weight loss spot-on! And how to make it work! Like I'm sharing
with you in this module my personal experience what has worked for me and
what I've seen has worked in the high society, with my friends, even women
that I don't know but I've analyzed them from far. I gather
these common traits that I see people are doing wrong and people are doing
right and I want to share them with you. And this module because I think they're
very interesting and I'm sure you will learn a lot. And I know that some of the
struggles that you have. The ones who don't have success in the
affluent world, usually have the wrong taste. Maybe the wrong
understanding of what is perceived elegant or beautiful or classy.
They might think that they're doing enough, but in reality they're really not
doing enough. And these types of things can be obstacles. So this is also
something we really need to scrutinize with you. We need to understand this with
you, where are you in relation. Are you doing enough? Do you have good taste?
Are you putting enough time and energy in this? I can understand finances
can be a limit, so I will be talking about finances as well. We need to have a
bit of strategy here. I am fully aware of that because really,
beauty and fashion and even weight loss, is actually where most of the money of a
woman goes to! I calculated once my spendings per month and it wasn't like
rent or it wasn't like I don't know the basics bills and the transportation and
all that. It was actually the beauty, the appearance department, my clothes my
beauty, my treatments my gym my weight-loss my extensions my fillers
everything! Calculated everything but per month I realized, oh my god, this is so
expensive! It's true it is super expensive but it is also an investment
in yourself. This is going back to the personal branding. When you want to create
a product that will sell you have to invest in the product. So you have to
invest in yourself, so you have to invest in your appearance! Now I know it's
overwhelming and I know we cannot do everything you want to! My personal
transformation took several years. I don't know how long
yours will take, because it all depends where you are right now,
if you prioritize right and do a proper strategy and if you also maybe walk the
extra mile. You know that it's sometimes needed in the beginning especially! I
mean I was working hard in the beginning. I was paying my own leveling up in the
beginning. And I was saving up money. I was living very cheaply, I
even took a part-time job you know. We have to sometimes make these
sacrifices. So all of this plays an important role. Good looks is not just
going to fall down from the sky and land on your lap. You really have to work for
it! Even if that means taking some spare job part-time job just to make that
extra income so that you can level up yourself a bit faster. Invest in yourself!
Because in the future you will get the return on this investment if you do the
investment correctly. So having said that ladies, I'm now ready to
welcome you into module three and the interesting video content that we have!
There's loads of things I want to share with you so please do take notes!
And if you have any questions, you know where you can find me. Be active in our
Facebook group, share your level up, share your where you are right now, ask for
feedback, ask for fashion tips, for makeup tips. I don't know girls! If you like
something, share that as well with our group. It's always interesting to know
what type of fashion, what beauty style you like and let's just inspire
each other. Images with ideas, with role models
whatever! Let's make the community super interesting when we can just bounce off
ideas from each other and get inspired from each other. Everybody has something
to share, I'm pretty sure about that! So I will see you in the Facebook group and
enjoy this module now