Dr. Craig --"Barbara!
Hi Welcome to Inside Connection."
Barbara --" Hi" Dr. Craig --"I was told that you're calling
in from Germany."
Barbara - "Yes, from Hamburg."
Dr. Craig -- "You know that you're a Virgo."
Barbara -- "Yes" Dr. Craig: "You actually have a lot of Virgo
in your chart.
So, it's probably, you know, amazing for you to even be able to make a decision because
you probably feel a lot like, oh my god, I'm going to make a mistake, is this the right
thing to do?
A lot of times Virgo energy is looking for the perfect solution or the perfect thing
that's going to make everything just right, just work out, absolutely the way that they
believe it supposed to, and sometimes it makes a difficult to be able to say that's the right
choice and that's the thing that I need to do.
Do you connect with that?"
Barbara -- "Yeah, you are right."
Dr. Craig -- "The next thing about your chart also is that you have several planets in Libra
which is good because it makes you very fair minded and very balanced, and you want it
equality in your relationships, you like peace, you like harmony, and you really even though
you could be very judgmental and hard on yourself, and sometimes on other people, inside you
don't really like judgment.
Venus was in Libra, Venus is about femininity and you're a woman.
So, we look at Venus in a woman's chart and say "How does that connect with the Virgo
part."
So, there's a lot of perfectionism but also efficiency, you know, there's a positive side
to all that Virgo, you know how to get the job done, you are very service oriented, you're
willing to bend over backwards for people, and really, you know... service, service,
service, you know, a sort of a life of service to others is a big theme for your chart.
Barbara -- "Yeah."
Dr. Craig -- "Yeah.
So, I want to ask you one thing about work.
Do you work?
Do you have job or career?"
Barbara -- "No, I used to work and I have twins..."
Dr. Craig -- "Uh-huh."
Barbara --"They are seven years old and I don't' work anymore
Dr. Craig --"Okay.
That's fine."
Barbara -- "But before, I used to work in advertising as an accountant service person...And
my second job was a sales person, so that's also all about service, and you are so right
in what you said... and, but it's not always positive at least I don't perceive it as positive.
Sometimes I would have preferred to be less service oriented and to be more for me."
Dr. Craig: "The destiny point in your chart is actually in Aries, and Aries is very much
about having it be for me, for the self, you know.
But that place in your chart is actually in the spot of the home.
So, one of the things that it sounds like you're working on doing is taking all that
service which you really can't get away from.
You know, it's very much a part of your...it's very much a part of your public image, and
public image in the way in which you're perceived socially is very important to you.
Not in a negative way, it's not like saying like oh, you're concerned with you know, keeping
up with the Joneses or that kind of thing.
But it's more about the way in which you want yourself to be seen publicly, and you could've
done that through marriage, you could've done married someone where you felt like you were
connecting with a partner who was going to be able to bring you to a certain place, a
certain kind of social environment that you wanted to be in, and what happens after that,
is that the home environment is strangely the place where you get to have it be about
you."
Barbara -- "Yeah, you are right.
Actually I was lucky enough to marry such a person..."
Dr. Craig -- "Yeah."
Barbara --"...who could provide me with all of that."
Dr. Craig -- "Yeah."
Barbara --"Yeah."
Dr. Craig -- "Some, somewhat...some...what, it's about luck and on some level it's also
about what the chart says that you were destined to attract.
It doesn't mean that you didn't have choices, it's just that life is about energy patterns
and your energy patterns are about service and relationships, individuality in the home,
finding a husband with a really big personality, someone who actually is kind of quite showy.
Maybe even a little bit full of himself and perhaps likes being the center of attention,
and yet it's good for you because that person brings a largeness to your life and to the
way in which you're seen as a couple publicly.
In your chart, Mars, the planet Mars is in Leo and normally for a woman, this isn't something
that a woman would really necessarily connect with.
She would be more connected to be her Venus energy, and she would be looking for the Mars
energy in her chart in the partner that she would choose.
So, inside of you, there's someone who wants to be noticed but it's the Mars energy part
in you would pick a man who is noticeable."
Barbara -- "Okay.
Wow,(laughter ) I'm speechless.
I'm sorry."
Dr. Craig -- "That's okay."
Barbara -- "No, it's really interesting.
Thank you very much."
Dr. Craig -- "You are very, very welcome.