How to overcome obstacles when achieving goals. I get this question actually all the time.
"Noelle, how do you overcome obstacles when you are achieving your goals?" You know, I
have 5 kids. I am a real estate, entrepreneur, I'm a millionaire. And on this episode, I'm
going to just walk you through how to do that. Because this is simple. And I don't need to
give any notes. I don't need any teleprompters or anything like that to share with you because
this is really how you get it done. So, today is my birthday, alright? And I am literally
at a friend of a friend's house. A mansion. Beautiful Orlando, Kissimmee Florida. Seven
bedrooms and I am having my house built across the street. And so, I wanted to stay in this
neighborhood because I am having a house built here. I am... It's not my dream house per
se, but it is a really big house. It's a small mansion. And I am excited about it. And I
needed to do something different. I needed to start putting my hands on this. I needed
to start putting my hands on this. I needed to start putting my hands on this. I needed
to start touching and feeling this type of properties because I too have those same things
where I feel challenges. I feel scared, I feel nervous about things that I am doing.
And I too have challenges that come up. You know, I'm having a house built and somebody
may come through --an employee dispute or different things like that. You know, we have
the Turo business where we have cars that we rent out. Yeah, every now and then somebody
gets a nail a tire or someone making to a small accident and things like that. Things
happen. You know, I have rental properties. Things happen. They're going to be challenges
that you have to overcome in your life, in your business but the key to overcoming those
challenges is staying in focus on what you're doing. You know, just staying in focus on
your goals. Staying in focus on who you are as a person and what it is that you want and
what you want to do in your life. Okay? You can't get so off track. You have to be grounded
in your big why and say, "Okay, I know what I am doing and I know why I am doing it. And
it means something to me." It doesn't have to mean something to everybody. It doesn't
have to be what everybody else would want to do. It doesn't have to be how everybody
else would do it. You're probably going to do be doing something different. You're probably
going to be getting critiqued. You know, those can be some of your obstacles that you're
trying to overcome. People critiquing you. People saying negtive things about you. People
trying to stop you from living your best life or saying something about what you trying
to do. Trust me. I get that. Noelle gets that to this day. People coming for you. People
saying negative things calling you ugly or saying that you're faking your life or you're
on green screen or you need a teleprompter. So many different negative things are said
about me. I do not care. You do not care. Someone says something negative about you,
you don't care. If there's an obstacle that comes of us, someone passes away while you're
doing something. Someone gets sick, you don't stop. Okay? You don't stop. Because it's not
about other people. That's the true lesson. Most of your obstacles and your challenges
that you're facing, they're from other people, I assure you. You're going to say, "Oh, it's
my kid" or "it's my mom". Or it's some external thing. It's not a challenge within yourself
because the challenge within yourself, you can overcome very easily. So, other people
don't exist and that's how you get rid of them. Okay? So, if you have an obstacle in
this another person not doing something that you want them to do or not being there or
not being reliable to what it is that they said they were going to do. That's fine. That's
okay. You'll be able to overcome that challenge just by staying grounded and faithful in what
you are doing, okay? Reminding yourself of what you are doing. So, here's some quick
routines. Alright? As I am walking this beautiful neighborhood that I am about to living in
that I am about to have 3 properties in, they're doing a lot of construction of these million
dollars houses. And I absolutely love this. And I grew to this. I did not start here.
I had challenges that I had to face. Okay? That I had to overcome. When I first started
investing in real estate, I was broke, I was in my parent's basement. I have bad credit.
I had multiple foreclosures. I had to get educated. I had to learn. I had to pay for
coaching. I had to go to seminars and courses and conferences and learn what I was doing.
And I got better. And things started working out for me. And I started changing how I was
thinking. And I start changing the people that I hang around. The people that were friends,
the people that I talk to, I changed that. Okay? I made it important to me that I was
not going to hang with people or be around people that weren't... We are wanted to go.
And I thought that those people that didn't want those things were bad. But I needed to
surround myself with people that wanted to do the same things that I wanted to do that.
One of the same things that I wanted for myself. Like-minded people. And the thing about it,
it wasn't very many people. Because it's not about other people. I know I keep saying this.
But I am going to keep bringing this back. Overcoming challenges, being successful, obtaining
your dreams, achieving your goals; they all have to do with you. What you think of yourself,
what you feed your mind and how you live your life. Okay? Thoughts become things. So, you
start off your day with your thoughts. You wake up in the morning and you're focused
on your goal. You're focused on your dream. You're focused on what it is that you're doing.
You're focused on your life and the thing that is you are creating. That's what you
focus on in the morning. You say your affirmations. You journal. You meditate. You get your day
started with you. By focusing on yourself. By getting into the most positive state that
you can in the morning. You do physical activity, you walk, you go outside, you put on a jacket
if it's a chilly day. And you go walk your neighborhood. And you get outside and start
getting into that state. So that when challenges come, you're able to overcome them because
you've done your mental exercise as you started your day properly. You focused on your goal
first thing in the morning. And you do the same routine when you go to bed at night.
And I know this sounds crazy but it works. Alright? Take it from someone that has manifested
a beautiful life for themself. This is all possible. This is very easy. It is not as
difficult as you think. It all starts with your mind, though. It all starts with what
you feed your mind, how you wake up in the morning, the people that you're around, the
things that you're listening to. You should be listening to positive things. You should
only be listening to positive things, positive people. You don't need to listen to sad songs.
You don't need to listen to things about depression or anything like that. You can just be a positive
person and think positive. And things will happen positively for you. And I am telling
you this because this is what I know. This is what I manifested in my life. And these
are things that someone taught to me. And I am just repeating that back to you. It's
just my gift to you on my birthday. This is my gift to you. You can overcome any obstacle.
You can achieve any dream. You can have or be or do anything that you want. You can live
in a beautiful home. You can have a beautiful husband and beautiful kids and beautiful life
and a beautiful dog. You can have a wonderful life. You can go on vacation. You can have
the job of your dreams, a person of your dreams. You can have or be or do anything that you
want to do. I assure you. You can overcome any challenge with your mind. You don't need
anyone else. You just need you. You do not need other people. You just need you. So,
start working on yourself. Start doing your innnerwork. Know that you are worthy, know
that you are blessed. Know that you are highly favored. Know that this is for you. And wealth
is how you define it. And yes you can have wealth with lots of money. But it's not about
things. You want to have life that's abundant and happy. This is my only goal for you. On
my birthday, I have a gift for you. I'm giving away my book real Estate Millionaire Secrets
absolutely free. You can get my book, Real Estate Millionaire Secrets at noellesfreebook.com.
I want to make sure that you have all of the resources, all of the tools, and all of the
knowledge that you need to be successful. And start creating the life of your dreams.
The same way that I have. This is Noelle. To your success.