- So if you're like this,
if this is,
if this is the vagina, like the hole,
it's right up in here.
Like, it would be like this.
And my nose is the clitoris,
but with a little bit of skin over it.
(interviewer laughs)
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- Hmm.
- Who?
- Men. - Men.
(interviewer laughs)
- Give men sex advice?
- Um.
- Sex advice.
Oh, man!
- Oh!
- Foreplay is everything.
- Foreplay.
- Even if she says she doesn't need foreplay,
you should always do foreplay.
- You gotta get her excited
and juicy to wanna do it.
- Get it wet.
- Lick it before you stick it.
- Don't assume that like,
five seconds of going down on a girl
is enough for her to be ready.
- We want to feel like we are being worshiped.
- Create the mood to have a good side.
- Just at least like, kiss you first.
- Massaging and touching a woman in different areas.
- The breasts are very sensitive.
- Learn how to use your hands, your voice.
- But like, the noises actually help the girls.
It's really attractive.
- Talking.
- Make them feel sexy.
Just by how you look at them, by how you talk to them.
- She is going to immediately get,
you know the one emoji with the squirting water.
That. That thing.
Yeah, she will be a ocean for you.
- Give men sex advice?
- Find the clit.
- Know where the clit is.
- It's not that hard!
- It's all in the clit.
Like, stop messing around with everything else.
- I'm gonna need you guys to relax on the clitoris, okay?
It's not like a push button.
It's not a Jeopardy button.
It's not a Wheel of Fortune spin.
- You can't pop the clit like that.
It's not--
- It's not a scratch record.
- You don't gotta, you know?
(interviewer laughs)
- Like stop doing that, okay?
- And don't do the alphabet.
- Don't chew on the clitoris like it's a piece of gum.
(laughs)
- Yes.
You have to not,
not be selfish.
- It's not all about penetration.
- Penetration is not, you know, what gets a girl off.
- There are so many fucking ways to please a woman.
There is not just your fucking dick inside of her.
- Think about something other than yourself.
- Focus on pleasing your partner.
- Pleasure lady first.
- If she gives you feedback,
don't listen to it through your ego.
- Leave your ego out of it.
- It's not about you, okay?
'Cause you're gonna,
you're gonna fucking come.
You're gonna nut, all right.
So it's not about you.
It's about us.
- I've had sex with men where it's all about them,
and I'm just like,
cool.
- They were too concerned with their own pleasure, and--
- Men told me, well, every other girl I've been with
can come really quickly,
and I'm like, well, they lied to you.
- Don't be a one pump champ.
- Because a lot of people just go bang, bang
and they're done.
- We're not a one and done like you.
We can keep going.
- Make sure she comes multiple times.
- Don't hold back.
If she's saying in that spot, then stay in that spot.
- If she tells you don't stop, don't stop.
- If she moves to the left and scoots a little bit,
she's showing you that spot.
- When you get close to your orgasm, you go faster.
If we are like on that edge
and then you change momentum,
you just threw us off the edge.
(interviewer laughs)
And now you gotta start all over again.
- Take your time.
It's not going anywhere.
- You could probably go slower.
- Well, you ain't gotta go like that fast.
- If you accidentally hit their cervix,
maybe don't do it again.
- Like, that trying to like, keep it in and just like jab,
or like quickly going in and out.
- We don't need to be jack hammered.
That does not feel good.
Smooth hip strokes.
Okay, watch the hips.
Like that, okay?
- If you're gonna choke someone, don't go for the jugular.
It's supposed to be around the sides here.
- Imagine yourself as a woman.
- Um.
- Straight porn is very not,
not very accurate at all.
- Don't watch a porn.
- Toys are your ally, not your enemy.
- Get a vibrator involved.
- Ooh. - Ask her what she wants.
- I feel like men are,
they just think they know what to do.
- An inquisitive partner
is always one that's gonna be the best to you.
- Be open about what you like sexually.
You know, if you have sexual shame,
be open about that too and be honest.
- Be honest.
Don't lie!
- Figure out what you like.
Say what you want or say what you're not getting.
- Explore if you wanna talk about fantasies.
- Because chances are, she might be willing to try.
- Have a conversation about
kinks, no-nos,
red flags,
like all of those things.
Talk about it first.
- Consent is non-negotiable and can be very fun and sexy.
- First of all, listen.
- Listen.
- Or know your partner, I'll say that.
- Learn her.
- Pay attention.
- Find out what it is she likes and do a lot of it.
- And they have to be open to tell you what they want too,
otherwise it's not gonna work.
- Sex is an enjoyable experience,
and it's more enjoyable when both people are enjoying it.