- I remember this song today,
which was sung by Pink a while back,
and by the way,
I can't sing.
But,
this is how it went.
"What does she do to you to make you give her everything
like you never did for me,
call it jealousy,
but it's killing me,
'cause all the time that you were mine,
you did not treat me right."
So why do men fall in love with some women,
but not the other?
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In this video I will share with you
five secrets what makes men fall madly,
deeply in love with some women,
and not the other.
Secret number one,
be the best version of yourself.
So what do we mean by that?
Ladies when you are acting spoiled,
when you keep overreacting
and basing your decisions based on emotions,
you are acting immature,
impulsive and illogical.
As entertaining as it could be,
this type of behavior does not make a man to respect you.
It make him label you as casual fun.
And without respect ladies,
there is no love.
A man will never take a woman seriously
if she's acting like a child.
He might keep her around
for entertainment purposes or ego stroke,
but if you want him to truly fall for you,
you must invest into
your own personal growth
and start acting high value,
instead of low value.
And what is a woman of high value?
You can find just by following the link right here
and I will also drop it down
in the description box.
Secret number two,
put yourself first.
Ladies,
if your major focus is a man
and to find someone to make you happy
and to complete you.
You will actually never have a happy relationship,
as you will be depending on the other person
to make you happy.
And what if he decide to make you sad instead?
Will you blame them for your own sadness?
Ladies,
you were not born to depend on a guy to make you happy.
When you going to die
God is not going to ask you,
"Which man did you marry?"
He will ask you,
"What have you done with the life that I gave you?"
Therefore ladies,
put yourself first,
go for your goals,
go for your dreams,
make yourself happy and let the guy come after you.
Let him be the cherry on top of your cake,
not the whole cake.
And the interesting part is that
these type of women are that man fall in love with.
It's really beautiful how it's all aligned
for you to live your ultimate,
happy life.
Saying that ladies,
I have an ultimate self-love course
and only this video viewers will get 70% off
on that course.
So it's no-brainer.
You will find the link with this massive discount
in the description box.
Secret number three,
let him invest in you.
Ladies,
you are the princess,
he is the prince.
It's all biological,
there is nothing new here.
Look at the animal kingdom.
Let him invest into you.
Let him pursue,
take you out,
charm and seduce you.
Ladies,
the more you let a man invest into you,
the more he falls for you.
Please do not go with equality card.
Just because someone said,
"We are equal."
It did not mean that you suddenly now became a man.
Stay feminine and let him be the masculine.
He will only appreciate you for it.
Ladies please,
watch my video why you should not chase men,
which you can find just by following the link right here
and I will also drop it down in the description box.
Secret number four,
learn how to complement each other.
Not to compete with one another.
Men and women are very different,
and if you do not know about the differences
and you do not understand them,
a relationship can get very complicated
and eventually fail.
Not only that we look different,
but our brains are also wired different.
For example,
guys have a biological need to pull away,
they have a biological need to pursue.
Whereas women have a biological need to nurture,
share,
care,
talk.
Ladies if you will not know how to complement each other,
your relationship will slowly experience the end.
And for the key differences between men and women
I have a whole playlist which you will find
down in the description box.
Secret number five,
set in healthy boundaries in a relationship.
Now ladies,
a man will treat you of how you let him treat you.
If you will behave low value
and will let a man walk all over you,
he will walk all over you.
And so will other people too.
Ladies,
if you will be trying to please him
if you will be walking on the eggshells
out of fear to lose him.
What will happen next is he will start to lose
the respect for you.
He will start to take you for granted
and eventually will lose interest and attraction
in you.
This is why you must watch my video
how to get a man to respect you,
in which I break down
how to set healthy boundaries in the relationship.
And you can find that video just by following
the link right here and I will also drop it
in the description box.
Now you know exactly how men fall in love with women,
but would you like to know
are you yourself are a high value woman
which is a girlfriend,
wife material.
Or a low value woman which is casual fun.
And for this I have created a totally free
self-awareness test for you to take,
which you can find down in the description box.
So if you liked this video please press like,
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Share it with the ladies who need it.
If you want to join a community of women
just like you,
I have a secret society which is called,
Greta's High Value Women School.
And you can find a link to it
down in the description box.
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Thank you so much for watching.
Kisses from London.
Mwah.