do you sometimes wish you could make a
love potion or a magic spell to make
someone instantly like you
waiting for them to notice you while
fantasizing about them can be so
frustrating luckily you don't have to
leave everything to chance
maybe you can't put thoughts into their
head but you can try out some
psychological tips and tricks that are
proven to be effective when it comes to
attraction so without further ado here
are six attractive habits to attract
your crush
number one have some jokes on you some
find humor to be the most important
trait in a romantic relationship and
research has shown that people who have
a good sense of humor are perceived as
more attractive than intelligent people
while sharing a good laugh with somebody
you're actually creating a bond and
connection between you
a good sense of humor is sexually
attractive as it expresses wisdom
creativity and other positive traits it
can also be flirty and playful if used
well and not over the top by cracking a
joke you could break the tension create
a positive and vibrant atmosphere and
appear confident and making your crush
laugh could definitely give you some
bonus points
number two
show interest in what they like
studies have shown that people love
talking about themselves it makes them
happy and content and they especially
like it when others show interest in
what they have to say
so ask your crush about the band on
their t-shirt and if they could send you
some songs to listen to or maybe ask
about their favorite sport and if they
cheer for some club
or even their thoughts on a recent news
story while listening nod to show you're
listening repeat some things they said
and ask them to clarify if you don't
understand and try to remember little
details for future conversations this
way they'll know they have your full
attention the more you ask and the more
you show you're actually interested in
what they're saying the more they'll be
drawn towards you
number three take them out to see a
scary movie have you ever watched a
movie where a couple on a date went to
see a horror movie well whoever of the
two planned the date was a real
psychologist at heart our brain
processes intense emotions like fear and
excitement on a cognitive level and our
bodies respond on a psychological level
when you watch a scary movie all the
excitement your mind and body are
feeling creates a strong emotional
experience
but somewhere between eating popcorn and
jumping with fright our minds can get
things kind of mixed up according to
dutton's and aaron's study from 1974
this is called the misattribution of
arousal what happens is that your mind
takes the signals from your body
increased heart rate faster breathing
sweating blushing and instead of
connecting it to fear from the movie it
connects it with attraction
so if you took your crush out to see a
horror movie their mind and body might
make them feel like they're attracted to
you
number four
mimic their body language have you ever
heard of the term mirroring behavior
it's a term often used in social
psychology and it means matching your
body language to the other person also
known as the chameleon effect this
psychological trick has been proven to
increase the liking of people in an
interaction basically your crush could
like you more if you mirror their
behavior
to mirror or match their body language
first pay attention to their non-verbal
cues do they often run their fingers
through their hair or keep their arms
crossed and then you just repeat it
wait for a few seconds and cross your
arms too or also touch your hair but
it's important to remember that you
shouldn't overdo it make it subtle to be
successful
number five
surprise them with a small act of
kindness
small acts of kindness are one of the
best ways to tell someone that you care
about them without directly telling them
you can show them you listen to them
that you're eager to know what they like
and that you want to make them happy
maybe you remembered their favorite
chocolate and bought it for them out of
the blue or perhaps you know their
favorite music genre so you shared a
customized playlist with them or you
made nice artwork for no apparent reason
they will surely appreciate those nice
gestures of course you don't want to
overdo it getting them gifts and favors
every other day or buying expensive
things could scare them away find a
balance and show them how much you care
and number six make it known you're
available
of course nobody will approach you if
they're unsure if you're available so
while trying out other tricks make it
known that you're single and there's
nobody to compete with them if they ever
decide to finally take you out on a date
you don't want to just say hey i'm
single instead try to make it a joke for
example saying i'll be taking myself for
a valentine's day dinner this year
even better if you say it while giving
them a small glance
as stated there is no magical spell or
potion to make someone like you
instantly it depends on many things like
the person's taste sexuality priorities
but by being a kind and confident person
together with trying out some of these
simple psychological tricks you can
increase your chances good luck
what do you think about these tips do
you think they could work feel free to
try them out and let us know how it went
and share this video with others who
might like it the references and studies
used are listed in the description until
next time take