Gentlemen, let's talk about dates. Let's talk about how you're going to ask women on dates
and how this is going to happen. What we want to do, first of all, we want to stop asking.
Instead, we want to assume. I don't know if you ever heard of this concept,
it's called "assuming attraction". And when you learn this, ultimately, you're going to
get more women interested in you. Because when you assume attraction, you're going to be acting
in a different way that's going to get her to be more attracted to you. Let's dive in. When I say
"assume attraction" that means that you are going to always assume that the girl that you're talking
to is interested and attracted to you. You're going to act as if. A lot of guys what happens is,
they're not assuming. They're constantly testing their heads or asking themselves, "does
she like me?" "Does she not like me?" They're looking for all the signs. Some of my biggest
videos on this channel are all about the signs that she's interested in you.
And I think they're great videos. But let's throw those away for a quick second and just
assume that she's interested in you. Because how do you act when you know someone likes you? Think
about this for a second. Pause the video if you need to. How do you act when someone likes you?
I bet you act just a little bit more confident. Maybe you could be a little bit shy potentially
because you're like oh my God, she likes me. But let's go this other route for a second. Let's
pretend you know for a fact that there's nothing you could do that's going to screw this up. Let's
go that route. Like "okay, she likes me. I could do anything I want. She's still gonna like me."
How are you going to act? More confident. You're going to be more sure of yourself. You're going
to be more comfortable when you're talking to her. You're going to seem like you were the guy
that she can like. What I mean is, it's like a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you act like
she likes you, she will start to like you. I know this is not going to happen with every
single girl you talk to. But I want you to start tapping into this mindset. And that's why I say,
don't ask these girls out. Don't ask them on dates. Assume she's already interested
and then let her know that you guys are going on a date or let her know you guys
are hanging out. I like to tell guys like you that you want to use this sentence like this.
You're going to say, "hey, let's grab a drink this weekend. When are you free?" Or "let's grab dinner
next week. When are you around?" You're not asking her to go on a date. You're assuming that she's
already interested in going on a date with you and all you're doing is you're finding the time
when she's free and she's available. Again, we're assuming attraction so you're going to be acting
in that more attractive way. Now, here's the thing, you don't want to do this if you haven't
somewhat talked to them already. What I don't want you to do is think "oh wow, okay. Tripp said
you don't need to do anything. You just assume they're interested and bada bing, bada boom."
No, that's not it. You do need to talk to them. You need to get them interested in you. You need
to have a conversation with them. You can't just go blindly around talking to girls and say "Hey,
you and me. Let's let's grab dinner next week. When you around?" Obviously
that's not going to work. She has to understand who you are, get the essence of your being,
and understand what your personality is like. She needs to see your behavior and experience
you. Keywords here, she needs to experience you. That's why when you're talking to girls,
maybe it's a new group of friends, maybe it's out at a bar, maybe it's on the phone or a FaceTime
date from a girl that you met online. You're going to be your most charismatic, most confident self.
Assume that she likes you almost in the sense that you're going to assume, not in an arrogant
or cocky way, but you're going to be looking at yourself with such high esteem (self-esteem) in
such high regard that you would be shocked if anyone didn't like you because you know how
awesome you are. Again, not arrogant. Arrogant is thinking you're better than other people.
But looking at yourself and having high self-esteem and high regard to yourself
is saying that you're awesome. And there's nothing wrong with that. I think that our society,
for some reason puts that down. It's like oh, we see someone who likes themselves.
Oh they're arrogant. No, they just have high self-esteem. For some reason that has some
weird negative connotation. But I'm telling you right now, let's completely flip this switch.
You are a guy who likes yourself, you're awesome. If you don't think you're awesome,
start finding the ways that you are awesome. If you can't find anything, better start doing things
that you're going to respect about yourself. Figure out what those are. And then you say,
I'm awesome. Any girl would be so excited and so happy to be with me that of course she's going
to like me. Of course she's going to say yes to this date. Of course she's going to be interested
in seeing me again, because I'm great. Again, you can't just run around going "I'm great I'm great."
And thinking that women like you without talking to them. You do have to come in with that fun,
interesting, charismatic personality. I go deeper into this into my Hooked program.
I have a lot of videos here on the channel. But if you want to learn from that
you can go to www.getherhooked.com. The link is down below in the description.
You can get a whole video course on how to be the most charismatic and most interesting,
confident guy. I teach you exactly how to do that with some cool techniques and big changes
that you can make in your life. Go check that out. The idea here is you need to assume all the time
that you are an awesome guy and that people are going to like you and you should be shocked when
the girl doesn't. That's it. Not every woman is gonna like you. But I want you to be so shocked
every time you ask a girl out and she says no. You are completely like what, how is that possible?
I'm amazing. Again, confidence versus arrogance. I already explained that to you.
But this is pure confidence. We're asking girls out in the sense that we're not asking them,
we're telling them. We're assuming that they like us so we're just figuring out logistics.
"We're hanging out next week. When are you free?" Exactly like that. Hope that helps.
Check out the Hooked program if you want to learn more, and I'll see you on the next video.