Oh look, it's another video about text messaging.
Today, we are going through the top 10 worst text messages you can
possibly send a guy.
If you're a big texter, you want to watch this video as you do not
want to be sending these to the guy you like. Stay tuned.
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Okay, the top 10 worst text messages to send a guy that you like.
Now, I love you guys, so I will continue to do more videos on text
messaging if that's what you want to see.
But in this video, we're giving you what you shouldn't send,
what you don't want to send to a guy you like
and the number 10 worst text message to send to a guy you
like is the entertain-me-text.
"Hey, what you doin?" Stupid smiley.
What it's saying is that you're at home bored, and you have nothing
to do. And "I'm bored" is not the communication that you want to
be showing to men. If you're going to text guys, text them some value,
add something in that brightens their day and maybe ask them a
question. Don't send just "Hey!" as a text message.
Number nine, rapid fire texts.
Do you have one? What are you up to today?
Wait to press send until you've finished the sentence.
No guy likes his phone going off 16 times in a row because you
had one sentence to say. Finish the sentence, then press send.
Number eight, essay texts.
You remember Grandpa Simpson?
"One trick is to tell them stories that don't go anywhere. Like the
time I cut the ferry over to Shelby Ville? I needed a new heel for my
shoe, so I decided to go to Morgan Ville, which is what they call Shelby
Ville in those days. So I tied an onion to my belt, which was the style at the
time. Now, to take the ferry cost a nickel and in those days, nickels
had pictures of bumblebees on them. Give me five pieces for your quarter,
you'd say. Now, where were we?
"Hey, so how are you doing? I've been doing, I've been really well.
My cat's going well, she's really healthy again. But my friend's
seeing this guy, and I don't know if like I should say something to her.
Do you think I should say something to her? Like he went to the footie
and he didn't even tell her she was going?
Beep...
Keep your paragraphs short, and if you have an essay to say, you
can give the guy a call.
Number seven, passive-aggressive texts.
"K.
Dunno.
Whatever."
The guy's going to get that you're pissed off. Now, it's okay to be pissed
off, but if you wanna say something, say it over a call. Give the dude a call.
If you feel like you don't wanna talk to him right now, maybe just leave
it some time to respond. Text message is not the place to communicate
you're angry or that you're really annoyed at him. Just leave it if
you can't say anything nice. Communicate in a better way.
Number six, the 'I have no life text.'
"Hey, why didn't you respond?
Why aren't you replying?"
What these texts are basically communicating is that you don't
have anything better to do than to sit around thinking about him and
why he hasn't responded while he's out living his life. If he doesn't
respond, you go out and live your life. You do your thing. You can
check your phone back in 6-12 hours, and I'm sure the situation will have
resolved itself.
Number five, 'validate me texts.'
"Hey, what is it that you like about me?
Hey, do you still like me?
Hey, I really want to know if you're still feeling this."
Don't seek validation via text message especially don't seek
validation to the guy's feelings for you via text message. You want to
make sure you validate yourself and if you're feeling a bit insecure
or a bit unsure, phone or better yet, in-person is the place to talk about
it. It is not it's just not a thing you want to be doing over text message.
Number four, relationship status texts. Do not send a guy any texts asking
about "What are we?
Where do you see this going?
How do you feel about us?
Are you seeing any other people?"
You don't want to send a guy any text asking important questions about your
relationship status. Do that in person. Have a proper meet up, connect with
him in a proper way. It is not an issue to be discussed over text message.
Number three, stalker text.
You don't want to send a guy a text that implies in any way that you've
been stalking him.
This often happens when you see, say a Facebook update of where
he is, or you know some piece of information about where he is,
what he's doing, where he's at that he hasn't told you.
So if he's gone onto Facebook and announce his status, or
if you walked past him at work, in the bar, you don't want to be
sending him a random text asking, how's your night with Bill going?
And he's sitting there with Bill going, "I need a restraining order."
You do not want to be sending any texts that imply that you know
where he is and what he's up to. If he hasn't told you that without
an incredibly good explanation, it's just really weird.
Number two, second worst type of texts you can send a guy is the first
"I love you" text. Any sort of, "I love you. I'm falling in love with you.
I think I'm falling in love with you. I think I'm feeling really deeply
about you" for the first time is a terrible,
terrible thing to do over text message. It's so inappropriate.
It's just not something you ever want to communicate to a man over a
text message.
Wait for the right moment. Have the courage to do
it in person. Do not send any deep stuff like that over text, especially
the first time.
And the number one, the number one worst type of text to send a guy is
the breakup text. It is flat out cruel to break up with anyone over text
message, especially someone you're committed to, but even
someone you've been on a few dates with, don't drop them down. Don't drop
them out. Don't let them down via text. Break up texts are the worst, most non-
confrontational, fear-driven way to break up with someone and it's
just not cool in any way. Have the courage to, at the very least,
if you've been dating the person, give them a call, chat to them on
the phone and if it's your boyfriend, have some respect. Break up with
the dude in person.
Well, those are the 10 worst text messages that you can possibly
send a guy. Do not send a guy any of those texts.
Everything from entertain-me, text to rapid fire, grandpa texts,
passive-aggressive texts, I have-no-life texts, stalker texts,
relationship status texts, first I love you texts, breakup text.
None of these texts you want to be sending to a guy you like.
They're all bad texts. Keep your texts positively focused, keep
them about flirty light, talk and use the phone and most importantly in
person to connect with a guy properly.
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